Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 1 month ago

why do sooooo many women say men cheat and sleep around more than women when it is the other way around? ?

fact of the matter is, women cheat so much more than men, and sleep around more in general, and women are equally as likely to have premarital sex as men. it is so well known in fact, that parts of Africa practise infibulation (look it up, its type 3 female genital mutilation) on girls of marrying age. note, GIRL is accurate, seeing as women from Djibouti, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Somalia, and Sudan were (and still) married before puberty more often than not, as a guarantee she stays a virgin until marriage, and the procedure effectively eliminates all sexual pleasure, deliberately and for a single purpose. women who have no pleasure from sex, wont cheat or sleep around. its an effective and reliable method to stifle cheating. once she is pregnant, she undergoes a procedure called defibulation, where they cut open the sutured vulva to make way for childbirth, after which she is reinfibulated again. say what you will about this practise, it is done to keep women from cheating and sleeping around in general. that says ALOT. women are so inclined to cheat and have premarital sex, that infibulation is done on every girl in those cultures. i'm sorry ladies, but if men truly did cheat more, then why is it the women that get mutilated to prevent sexual misconduct, not the men? 


also, there does not need to be equal ammounts of men and women cheating and sleeping around.. pornstars get ganged on and DP'd.. every single 'single' man in a village can have a go with the same woman. dont make the mistake of presuming there is an equal ammount of cheaters on both sides of the fence. not all men get married, but in those cultures, ALMOST ALL women DO get married, and virginity and loyalty is ideal, hense the practise of infibulating women. 

7 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Anyone who says all men cheat and sleep around is clearly just wrong. But as statistically men cheat more than do women, just a fact, this is probably what prompts them to exaggerate this. None of this has anything to do with female genital mutilation. Chopping off the penises of little boys would likewise make them incapable of having sex. The cultural reasons for this have to do with those places regarding women as property rather than as human beings. Sort of how in the imperial Caribbean slaves would be hobbled to keep them from running away. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Oh my God, you're disgusting.

  • Zirp
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    so how come 99% of brothels have male customers?

    and if virginity is your ideal, why demand it of girls only?

  • Jesere
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    In general, men are more likely than women to cheat: 

    20% of men and 13% of women reported that they've had sex with someone other than their spouse while married, according to data from the recent General Social Survey(GSS).


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  • 1 month ago

    The practice is barbaric and patriarchal, a culture of men wanting to control women. From what I've read it doesn't stop a woman from cheating.

    Why would you want to mutilate a person to prevent them from experiencing the full pleasure of sexual intercourse?...barbaric 

  • Bill
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    well for men to sleep around , there has to be an equal number of women sleeping around . now that is pure logif isn't it

  • liz
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It isn’t a competition.  Sounds like you should migrate to Africa, OP.  That practice is illegal in developed countries.

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