Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 2 months ago

Why does he flake on his own plans?

I Met a guy that has 4 kids. The kids are under 5. He has a job as well. He always ask to come over or take me out but he never comes all the time or he won’t come as much as he asks… why keep asking if you can’t come? He will say things like “i want to try and come see you today” or “i might come see you” and sometimes he does sometimes he doesn’. He talks to me despite his flakeyness

2 Answers

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Busy I suppose........

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    maybe because he has 4 kids. plus they are really young! must be running amuck all the time 24/7. how exhausting. well, his fault... 

    i don't think you should date a "dad" because this will be a pattern and you'll never get anywhere. say goodbye now while you still have the chance. why are you still even talking to him? after the first 2 times, you should have moved on by now.

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