Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 month ago

Why are there contradictions for what my friends want?

I am a quiet pushover timid person and speaking my mind is always hard. At work, friends and family I am always told I need to speak up more. I agree I want to but when I do the same people push me back down and tell me I need to let it go and overreacting and calling me overly sensitive.  Yes, I am sensitive and I am working on it but I am thinking they are using my sensitivity against me to push me down and feel bad about myself. I try to stand up for myself and the people who told me to speak up for myself jumps in and says just let it go because that what they  expect from my personality 

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  • 1 month ago

    I think you have an issue with your confidence, you need to seek an advice from your friends to know yourself deeper

  • 1 month ago

    That is weird.Unless you say something completely wrong.

    I would try to get new friends,explain how you are.

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