Why are there contradictions for what my friends want?
I am a quiet pushover timid person and speaking my mind is always hard. At work, friends and family I am always told I need to speak up more. I agree I want to but when I do the same people push me back down and tell me I need to let it go and overreacting and calling me overly sensitive. Yes, I am sensitive and I am working on it but I am thinking they are using my sensitivity against me to push me down and feel bad about myself. I try to stand up for myself and the people who told me to speak up for myself jumps in and says just let it go because that what they expect from my personality