What kind of man would want to marry me if I am creative, funny, cute, youthful, sweet, and always make expressive faces and am positive?
A. A guy who is also expressive, confident, charming, funny, social and entertaining.
B. A guy who has an older type of personality, who acts "smart," seems more chill and is not very entertaining.
C. Other (explain)
- Anonymous1 month ago
You get kudos for realizing that you have no control over the kind/type of man that finds you attractive. A lot of beautiful young women get offended if a guy they believe beneath their station shows interest. If he isn’t super attractive, popular, and rich she considers it a crime if he notices her and felony assault if he tries to make a pass, 😝.
As silly as that sounds, it is a perfectly human thing to do.
But, the reverse is also true. None of us have any control over who we find attractive or unattractive. What you need to understand is that although it is healthy to have a clear image of your “ideal” guy the reality is that he may not be the “right” guy for you. Don’t misunderstand; getting what we think we want usually always makes us happy at least for a little while. But getting what we actually NEED is what keeps us happy for the long haul.
Best of luck to you!
- GregLv 41 month ago
B. Opposite personality types and similar interest attract.