No response back on a dating site message. What to do?

Matched with someone, exchanged a few messages over a couple days. It s been a week. Short version lol. We re still matches tho, should I follow up or just let it go and unmatch her? Just curious what people think in this situation.

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  • Nathan
    Lv 4
    8 months ago

    Just let it go. The guy doesn't care, or he may be dealing with something more important. If he is interested he'll message you within a few days again but it isn't really worth bothering him over

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  • Jerry
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    If she wants to follow up, she will follow up. If she doesn't, then anything beyond a single "I'd like to meet you for coffee" message is making a pest of yourself.

    You can't know much at all about a person from messages. In the future don't bother with "getting to know" people unless you've actually MET them and the two of you LIKE each other. Otherwise, you're probably wasting your time.

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  • 8 months ago

    If someone stops responding, you move on.

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