How do you handle the frustration and anger at being single in your forties?

i'm a single man in my early forties who has battled mental health problems all my adult life and thus never found any female relationships, never had a female partner....i have lived alone in a flat for 14 years and my only support system are my elderly parents who live far. everytime i look at women or... show more i'm a single man in my early forties who has battled mental health problems all my adult life and thus never found any female relationships, never had a female partner....i have lived alone in a flat for 14 years and my only support system are my elderly parents who live far.

everytime i look at women or attractive females i find myself clenching my teeth with anger and frustration at them...as ive never had any luck with them...and have mostly suffered rejection.

i know its not womens fault of my misfortunes, but i can't help the anger i feel at them.....and i feel frustration that i can't get a relationship or other men are preventing me, alpha males perhaps?
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