• My mom is mad that I'm pregnant but I don't get it?

    I'm not some high school kids or anything. I'm 21 years old and while I don't have a boyfriend(the father is a friend that I hook up with occasionally) I do take care of myself. I still live at home though and work as a waitress but what little bills I do have like my car note and cell phone I always... show more
    I'm not some high school kids or anything. I'm 21 years old and while I don't have a boyfriend(the father is a friend that I hook up with occasionally) I do take care of myself. I still live at home though and work as a waitress but what little bills I do have like my car note and cell phone I always pay on time so I don't get why she got upset and is saying things like she's not raising another child but it's not like I'm telling her to. So I don't understand her anger and why she's treating me this way. But I can't take her judging me any longer especially since she's a hypocrite since she had my brother when she was 17 which was worse. What should I do?
    19 answers · 9 hours ago
  • My hamster is suicidal, what should i do?

    The other day my hamster was at the edge he was trying to jump but i cached him, im a little concerned...need advice?
    The other day my hamster was at the edge he was trying to jump but i cached him, im a little concerned...need advice?
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • What are you living for?

    35 answers · 3 days ago
  • Can my parents forbid me from having sex?

    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    58 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why did My mom and dad had me rather then adopting a child?

    Best answer: It is far easier to make your own kid than adopting one.
    Best answer: It is far easier to make your own kid than adopting one.
    21 answers · 1 day ago
  • Are your parents strict?

    Best answer: Not really. Never really had curfews, grounding or limitations on computer/video games/tv. They used to say, 'You should have the sense to know what's good and bad for you."
    Best answer: Not really. Never really had curfews, grounding or limitations on computer/video games/tv. They used to say, 'You should have the sense to know what's good and bad for you."
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I apologize to his family for dumping him?

    I know it sounds stupid, but I am breaking up with my so of 5 1/2 years tonight after I get off work. I have come to love his dad and step-mom, his half siblings and niece. They even told me to get rid of him as he is a complete slacker going no where, just like his mother. There is more to it than that but would... show more
    I know it sounds stupid, but I am breaking up with my so of 5 1/2 years tonight after I get off work. I have come to love his dad and step-mom, his half siblings and niece. They even told me to get rid of him as he is a complete slacker going no where, just like his mother. There is more to it than that but would take to long. Anyway I feel like I owe them an explanation after I dump him. They have been my family since my mom and granny died last year.
    23 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should your mother come first before your wife and kids?

    A couple of months ago I was in the car with my parents and sister and we were talking about family and stuff and a question came up who comes first? And my dad without a doubt said "my mom" and I was a little offended so I asked "what about us" and he was like "You guys come second; my mom... show more
    A couple of months ago I was in the car with my parents and sister and we were talking about family and stuff and a question came up who comes first? And my dad without a doubt said "my mom" and I was a little offended so I asked "what about us" and he was like "You guys come second; my mom is always first and than you are second". I don't know is it wrong for me to feel a little sad about what he said? Btw he's a huge mama's boy.
    10 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Need help about my dad and boyfriend?

    My boyfriend moved in over a year ago with me to my parents house, my dad offered him a job as he owns his own business. My boyfriend took it and has been working with him for over a year now, out of the whole time my boyfriend has taken one sick day. Recently he’s been having really bad shoulder pain so he has... show more
    My boyfriend moved in over a year ago with me to my parents house, my dad offered him a job as he owns his own business. My boyfriend took it and has been working with him for over a year now, out of the whole time my boyfriend has taken one sick day. Recently he’s been having really bad shoulder pain so he has gone to the doctors and needs to have x-rays etc. His shoulder is in a lot of pain so he has told my dad he is having the rest of the week off. All my dad could care about was who’s gonna work for him on Saturday. He wasn’t sympathetic or anything. And i know what my dad is like, he could possible pay him wrong or do something like that all because my boyfriends having a week off. I need help on what to do in this situation as it really stresses me out.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • My daughter is wasting her time by not doing anything for her future?

    My daughter is now 21 and has no job, doesn’t go to school (dropped out of college), and lives at home with us. She dropped out of college with the hope of becoming famous on YouTube or being known her vlogs/ photos, and just making money through that. Well it’s been a couple years now, and we bought her expensive... show more
    My daughter is now 21 and has no job, doesn’t go to school (dropped out of college), and lives at home with us. She dropped out of college with the hope of becoming famous on YouTube or being known her vlogs/ photos, and just making money through that. Well it’s been a couple years now, and we bought her expensive cameras, a new laptop - in total around 7k AT LEAST I’m assuming. At first we did it because we believed that she take it seriously and maybe actually make a name/ at least earn money. Wrong. She stays home all day, she does have a part time job (if it counts as a job, she’s home all but 2-3 hours of the whole week and she barely gets paid since again her part time job barely earns her anything). She sleeps until the afternoon sometimes, doesn’t do chores (may vacuum a few times a month, no dishes, nothing), has no real responsibility. What can we do? She says she’s gonna move out when her pet dies so she’s taking care of it - is her excuse - which does seem to be partially accurate as she cares a lot about her pets, but is that really a legit reason? No.
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • I'm a dude, and my dad touches me like all the time?

    It's getting annoying. I'm sitting down doing hw on the computer and he'll just come in, run his hand around me, maybe touch my leg or my face or my hair, etc. Just now he came in and touched my butt trying to feel if it was hard or soft? And he touched my stomach and my face. I got annoyed so i said... show more
    It's getting annoying. I'm sitting down doing hw on the computer and he'll just come in, run his hand around me, maybe touch my leg or my face or my hair, etc. Just now he came in and touched my butt trying to feel if it was hard or soft? And he touched my stomach and my face. I got annoyed so i said "can you please be weird somewhere else?" but he didn't stop. Occasionally when I'm walking he will slap my butt as if it's funny, yet it's getting annoying and I don't want him to do that, but idk how to say it. I've been standing up straight so that I'm not bending over and he slaps me in the butt. Idk what he thinks of it- but I find it annoying. He doesn't do it to my sister or my mom either, just me. I swear to God, no matter how weird/trolly this sounds, it's all true, and this is the reason I've never told him - it just sounds so weird!
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it all right if a teenager sleeps naked in their own room in their family’s house ?

    Best answer: That's fine. Just remember to put your clothes back on when you wake up.
    Best answer: That's fine. Just remember to put your clothes back on when you wake up.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • I think my sister has a problem...please help me...?

    Best answer: Consider yourself lucky, as it could have been much worse. Take my sister as an example. She has developed a similar problem. But it's not her voice being affected, but her... Other parts. They just seem to grow larger with no signs of stopping. And the bigger they become, the more fragile her mental health... show more
    Best answer: Consider yourself lucky, as it could have been much worse. Take my sister as an example. She has developed a similar problem. But it's not her voice being affected, but her... Other parts. They just seem to grow larger with no signs of stopping. And the bigger they become, the more fragile her mental health gets. She just randomly runs around threatening anyone talking to my older brother. My eldest brother has no idea what to do, but can't get off his high horse to admit that, my father doesn't give a damn and is just as bad and my sister actually WANTS to be like her. The worst thing is that my brother actually ENJOYS THIS. He likes seeing his own sisters womanly parts swell to sizes bigger than my head and i am afraid that he has bad things in mind Sometimes i believe i am the only normal one in this godforsaken household. You should try giving your sister a coping mechanism. Ever since mine started visiting hot springs, it hasn't been as bad
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • I m such a Flippin loser! What can I do to change?

    Yes, everyone screws up from time to time, but I screw up all the time, and always in big ways. If you remember Steve Urkel, I could give him a run for his money any day! A couple of good examples... 1) when my husband was bedridden, I realized if I could move the bed over, I could make things easier for him. As... show more
    Yes, everyone screws up from time to time, but I screw up all the time, and always in big ways. If you remember Steve Urkel, I could give him a run for his money any day! A couple of good examples... 1) when my husband was bedridden, I realized if I could move the bed over, I could make things easier for him. As soon as I tried, I literally broke the bed frame! 2) a couple weeks ago I went shopping. I kept searching for the milk, but finally deduced that it it must have gotten left-behind. A couple of days ago, my mother s trunk began to stink. I ll let you figure out the rest. For some reason, I just don t have any common sense. I m ok with books, but stupid with life. Certainly there aren t any books that will help me. So what can I do?! Sincerely, Sick of SELF!!
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Me and my partner both have dysfunctional families, they're ruining the relationship what to do?

    He went to standing up for me when his mum started insulting me to saying that he's told her millions of times in the past about it and she just don't listen, so I should ignore it and don't let any of it with families ruin our relationship. I agree with him but part of me feels let down and like he no... show more
    He went to standing up for me when his mum started insulting me to saying that he's told her millions of times in the past about it and she just don't listen, so I should ignore it and don't let any of it with families ruin our relationship. I agree with him but part of me feels let down and like he no longer has my back and it bothers me and makes me feel like she's getting away with it in a way. He did say ignoring her won't give her the benefit of the doubt, I just hate her and I hate the fact she's treated me like crap for nothing and that she isn't nice to me or my partner a part from only when she wants something or is in public. It's made me and my partner argue and say hurtful nasty stuff to each other and he's said stuff to stick up for his mum which angers me because there is no excuse for it, but then he says he didn't mean it and only stood up for her and said nasty things because of getting angry because of the arguments we've had a lot about it. Every time I express my frustration with people they have said that I must have done something for her to be like that with me, this angers me because I know that I haven't done anything but show kindness in the past until I stopped because she was being disrespectful to me. Both of our families have been bad ( Not everyone in our family we get on with other people in our family) But because of the argument we had and him sticking up for his mum even though he said he didn't mean anything he said sticks in my head
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • My girlfriend screams at me in arguments, and insults me.. Breaks up with me?

    Whenever we get into an argument, my girlfriend screams at me at the top of her lungs and gets right in my face,calling me vile names, making fun of my weight, and everything in between. When I try to talk about my feelings, and how we can work this out, she tells me I am blame shifting to her and not taking... show more
    Whenever we get into an argument, my girlfriend screams at me at the top of her lungs and gets right in my face,calling me vile names, making fun of my weight, and everything in between. When I try to talk about my feelings, and how we can work this out, she tells me I am blame shifting to her and not taking accountability for my actions. I am never trying to hurt anyone, and I do not like fighting or yelling, I just want to talk amicably and in a calm manner with her but she goes straight to a 10. I ask if we can talk together and she tells me to leave her alone, we never get to the issue at hand, and I am always being roasted, I do not feel as if I can get a solid thought in because I get cut off and insulted. I tried to write down how I feel, and she dissects every sentence and word and tells me I am blaming her - all I want to do is tell her how I feel and how her actions are hurting me, but instead I am yelled at, disrespected, insulted and called very very bad names. Generally, there is a disagreement and miscommunication, and she takes it at face value, and I don't feel like she truly understands what I am trying to say, because it takes me time to formulate how I feel, and she goes off on her own tangent without giving me a chance to fully communicate my thoughts. She refuses to go to counseling, she has issues that she refuses to be seen for, refuses medication - and I support that, but I just want to talk like two adults, I can't deal with verbal abuse.
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • What is wrong with my mother?

    Ever since I moved in with my grandparents, my mom has been on my case. Let me explain. I'm from Florida but my mother moved us to phoenix. I absolutely hate both places. Phoenix summers are miserable, absolute pain. It's ugly, depressing, crowded, hot. All the brown just got to me. I moved in with my... show more
    Ever since I moved in with my grandparents, my mom has been on my case. Let me explain. I'm from Florida but my mother moved us to phoenix. I absolutely hate both places. Phoenix summers are miserable, absolute pain. It's ugly, depressing, crowded, hot. All the brown just got to me. I moved in with my grandma in Tacoma for my senior year and I was so happy. Everything about this state just makes me happy, I feel like a new person. And now im pregnant and 17 (still finishing my senior year) and I live in Spokane right now with my boyfriend. Because I smoke weed (not rn cause I'm pregnant) she thinks I'm gonna become a hard core drug user living here cause its legal. She constantly tells me my son is gonna be miserable living here, and I'll become fat and lazy living here in the cold. (Id rather play here in the winter than in the Arizona summer.) She tells me I'm gonna get sick, my son will get pneumonia and she thinks the cold cancels out vaccinations or something like that. She says snow is no place for a kid to grow up, and they need to "live in the sunshine." I wish I grew up in snow honestly. I do get tired of the winters but I still like the seasons here more than east Washington. And its very pretty like to where I want to do things, phoenix is just depressing. In winter when I sent her pics of me in the snow she got mad over the phone and screamed at me how I'm making myself sick and always bragged about the sunshine there.
    16 answers · 4 days ago