• Why do so many people have kids before marriage ?

    My sister is 25 her fiancé is 23 they have a son who is a month old he will be a month old on the 30th. She said they had sex the day after July 4th she was suppose to be on birth control but she said she forgot to take her pills. She said they accidentally had sex. After they found out she was pregnant he proposed... show more
    My sister is 25 her fiancé is 23 they have a son who is a month old he will be a month old on the 30th. She said they had sex the day after July 4th she was suppose to be on birth control but she said she forgot to take her pills. She said they accidentally had sex. After they found out she was pregnant he proposed to her on Christmas Eve. They’re still trying to figure out the perfect date to get married they want to do it on his birthday but his birthday is in July most people get married in May or June. But I think they are too young to get married or even have a kid. It seems like between 2009-2014 lots of teenagers got pregnant I don’t know why. Then they give those stupid teen moms tv shows probably why they wanted kids was to be famous. My sister isn’t a teen yet she got pregnant she didn’t end up on tv. Like most girls her age or with kids watch those dumb shows I don’t know why they like them my husband even likes it. It seems like not many people get married then have kids anymore. Me and my husband did we waited a year before we had a kid. My parents got married 3 years before I was born my sister 5 years. Why do people have kids before marriage anymore ?
    11 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Am I wrong to not what an abortion?

    Im only 17&a student. I'm 12 wks pregnant&have known since I was 3 wks. Family are strict&since I told them theyve said that its my decision which I choose but if I don't decide a termination I'm living in a council flat. with my boyfriends family saying we could live there for support. Im... show more
    Im only 17&a student. I'm 12 wks pregnant&have known since I was 3 wks. Family are strict&since I told them theyve said that its my decision which I choose but if I don't decide a termination I'm living in a council flat. with my boyfriends family saying we could live there for support. Im not allowed to do that.im learning what struggling means, but if I choose a termination Id be flown to Dubai 'business class' for my birthday&if the reason I want to keep the child is because I want to be out my house, theyll happily rent out anywhere I want, as soon as I finish my ALevels&abort but if not Im getting no support. My boyfriend&family are overjoyed.its nice to be surrounded by them because it makes me feel like I havent committed a sin and I am okay to be happy&excited over it. I was booked in for an abortion, I didnt turn up, something inside me knew, I was doing it for parents.Im stuck theyre getting to me:how anyone who is thrilled is just wanting to trap me and its the hardest route, making it the biggest mistake. They have high expectations (a great thing).I understand their disappointment.I have an older sibling, the perfect child I know I'm being compared to her and being considered 'an idiot for throwing my life away.' My family are pressurising to choose.they're waiting to hear 1 thing&if I go through with abortion its for them but because im indecisive, im not sure whether I am being naive&maybe they are right ill struggle&regret it once its too late. anyone help?
    30 answers · 1 week ago
  • Diet For Fifth Month Pregnancy For Fair and Cute Baby?

    Hey! Please suggest me diet with time chart for a cute healthy baby????
    Hey! Please suggest me diet with time chart for a cute healthy baby????
    8 answers · 3 days ago
  • I want to be a mom?

    Best answer: At least wait until your out of high school, or until your eighteen- whichever comes last. Cause trust me, though I wasn't a young mom, my parents were. By the time they could actually afford to spend extra money and do fun things- most of their kids were fully grown up. Though my parents love us, they really... show more
    Best answer: At least wait until your out of high school, or until your eighteen- whichever comes last. Cause trust me, though I wasn't a young mom, my parents were. By the time they could actually afford to spend extra money and do fun things- most of their kids were fully grown up. Though my parents love us, they really wished that they waited before having kids
    14 answers · 6 days ago
  • Post abortion advice needed!!!?

    Best answer: I am so sorry for your loss. The most important thing you can do is to work on forgiving yourself for what you allowed to happen due to the intense pressure you faced. I think attempting to replace that child before you have truly processed the loss of your first child would be a mistake - you would not want to... show more
    Best answer: I am so sorry for your loss. The most important thing you can do is to work on forgiving yourself for what you allowed to happen due to the intense pressure you faced.

    I think attempting to replace that child before you have truly processed the loss of your first child would be a mistake - you would not want to be a child born to someone who conceived you through deception, right? As a replacement for a lost sibling? Your child won't like it either.

    When you are securely married to your boyfriend and able to have an open and honest conversation about planning for a child, that is the right time to conceive.

    The website www.silentnomoreawareness.org might help you in your healing process. There are many stories there of others who are in your position - having had an abortion and now regretting it.

    I wish you well.
    4 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it bad to not have a kid by 27?

    I'll be 27 tomorrow. My two best friends are 26 and are both mothers. One has 3 biological kids, one has one and is pushing for another. People always assume that because my best friends are 26 and mothers, that I should be a mother as well. I've been asked numerous times why I don't have kids yet. I do... show more
    I'll be 27 tomorrow. My two best friends are 26 and are both mothers. One has 3 biological kids, one has one and is pushing for another. People always assume that because my best friends are 26 and mothers, that I should be a mother as well. I've been asked numerous times why I don't have kids yet. I do want kids and I've had a few close calls, but I think God knew what He was doing when I didn't end up pregnant by these losers. Is it really that frowned upon to not be a mother by 27? lol
    20 answers · 1 week ago
  • Can two parents live together and have sex occasionally but not be together and make it work?

    Best answer: Why do you insist on choosing this loser? Do you want you children to grow up and be as dysfunctional as you are? You need to make a life with out that trailer trash excuse for a male. What a nightmare
    Best answer: Why do you insist on choosing this loser? Do you want you children to grow up and be as dysfunctional as you are? You need to make a life with out that trailer trash excuse for a male. What a nightmare
    11 answers · 1 week ago
  • Is it bad that i dont want to see my wife give birth?

    I love my wife and child but i think the birthing process is discusting and dont want to be there when it happens.
    I love my wife and child but i think the birthing process is discusting and dont want to be there when it happens.
    6 answers · 6 days ago
  • If you're too young to drink alcohol, then you're too young tp have a baby?

    Anyone else agree with this philosophy?
    Anyone else agree with this philosophy?
    6 answers · 6 days ago
  • Are there women strong enough that if their husband is incapable of fathering their kid, that they can take all the responsibility alone?

    Best answer: Well of course- look at all of the single mothers in the world.
    Best answer: Well of course- look at all of the single mothers in the world.
    5 answers · 6 days ago
  • What will my baby look like? A quarter black and the rest white?

    I know you never really know until they're born but I wanna know what you guys think. My bf is half black and half white with brown eyes almost black, curly black hair, and he has a dark skin tone where he actually looks black and Mexican but he isn't. I'm white with blue eyes and dirty blonde hair.... show more
    I know you never really know until they're born but I wanna know what you guys think. My bf is half black and half white with brown eyes almost black, curly black hair, and he has a dark skin tone where he actually looks black and Mexican but he isn't. I'm white with blue eyes and dirty blonde hair. I'm hoping our son or daughter looks light skin but what do you think.
    5 answers · 6 days ago
  • How do you protect a child online?

    I hate that I’m asking this here but there are no articles on the steps to take when you see a child in a vulruable position online. Why isnt there any option to report under aged children who are being taken advantage of so its an instant account shut down or something, I hate helplessly seeing these young girls... show more
    I hate that I’m asking this here but there are no articles on the steps to take when you see a child in a vulruable position online. Why isnt there any option to report under aged children who are being taken advantage of so its an instant account shut down or something, I hate helplessly seeing these young girls broadcast live to men on periscope and she dances for them and asks them to date them and I report them but it doesnt remove them it just hides their sick comments from me. I tried to trick her into getting her mom to come dance and maybe I could somehow get a word in with their parents but they refused to get her. I dont know what can I do to make sure kids are safe it matters to me so much I cant ignore it
    7 answers · 1 week ago
  • How do I make my child give up her comfort toy?

    My daughter has a comfort toy that started when she was a baby and she would sleep with it. As she got older, she only wanted to bring it more places with her and any attempts for me to get her to give it up have ended in tears. Now the toy is very old and I don't even want to think about the germs it has. I... show more
    My daughter has a comfort toy that started when she was a baby and she would sleep with it. As she got older, she only wanted to bring it more places with her and any attempts for me to get her to give it up have ended in tears. Now the toy is very old and I don't even want to think about the germs it has. I want her to lose the toy somewhere and have to learn to live without it. How should I make her give it up? Anything I have tried so far won't work. She also has Autism and if people see her with the toy, they will assume something is wrong. I just want a normal child.
    13 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • If no longer in a loving relationship should parents change the names of mother father birth certificate so they aren't both responsible?

    Best answer: A. A birth certificate doesn't establish rights. B. You can't just change a birth certificate will-nilly. C. Why would you want to cut the kid out just because the parents aren't together anymore?
    Best answer: A. A birth certificate doesn't establish rights. B. You can't just change a birth certificate will-nilly. C. Why would you want to cut the kid out just because the parents aren't together anymore?
    5 answers · 1 week ago
  • Would it seem desperate and inappropriate to let his parents know I’m pregnant?

    Best answer: Yes, they deserve to know.

    Grandparents have no automatic rights, so they can't just automatically come in and visit or take the child.
    Best answer: Yes, they deserve to know.

    Grandparents have no automatic rights, so they can't just automatically come in and visit or take the child.
    9 answers · 1 week ago