• Are you a perfectionist?

    Best answer: yes I try to do as good as possible
    Best answer: yes I try to do as good as possible
    35 answers · 1 day ago
  • What age does the body stop changing?

    27 answers · 2 days ago
  • My parents found everything. help.?

    so my dad walks into my room saying we need to talk. he’s not a very deep person so i was already terrified. then he explains that my mum had found my diary. in my diary are entries about self harm, friend troubles, a relationship i kept hidden amd even me talking about not wanting to eat. i don’t know what to... show more
    so my dad walks into my room saying we need to talk. he’s not a very deep person so i was already terrified. then he explains that my mum had found my diary. in my diary are entries about self harm, friend troubles, a relationship i kept hidden amd even me talking about not wanting to eat. i don’t know what to do. my dad keeps saying it’s ok but i know my mum’s going to act differently. i should add that my parents are divorced and i’m at my dad’s house until tomorrow. i’m guessing they’re going to take me to therapy again which i really don’t want to do. one thing i want to make clear is that i was doing fine on my own, i was coping. the only thing that was stopping me from losing motivation in life was my parents. i kept thinking “as long as they don’t know, i can keep focusing on school etc”. now that they know, that motivation has gone. i haven’t gotten out of bed all day and honestly never want to again. my mum is inevitably going to try to talk to me about it too, which i don’t want to happen. i don’t want to talk to anyone. please help.
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • I feel depressed now suicidal?

    Im 23 years old. Broke with no job. Been a depressed loner all my life nothin new. No matter how hard I try it's life destiny is designed for me to do nothin but fail. Nothing is real. Nobody's a friend. They all change in a bad way towards and fvck off in the end. I have a very little experience in my life... show more
    Im 23 years old. Broke with no job. Been a depressed loner all my life nothin new. No matter how hard I try it's life destiny is designed for me to do nothin but fail. Nothing is real. Nobody's a friend. They all change in a bad way towards and fvck off in the end. I have a very little experience in my life with women. But from the few times I thought a girl liked me, they played me in the end. When you wanna go homebase and further things. They act cold. And fvck off from me like they never new me. I have no love in my life. And that kills me. The world repels me. I hate being trapped in the same city. I don't have a car to go anywhere. No money for the train. It's always the second things I see. It's like prison. That's why i hate money. Mobey is the only thing that will make you get places. I hold my head at how I'm so fvckd there's no way out this torment. Nothing is going right. Nothing to feel happy about. Nothing going.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What do I say to people who say of my anxiety and depression "it is your choice whether to be anxious or depressed"?

    Best answer: I think the main reason why people say this is that they don't distinguish between mood and *mood disorders*. There are situations in which things like "snap out of it," "things could be worse" make sense - when you're having a bad day. They just don't get you out of a case of major... show more
    Best answer: I think the main reason why people say this is that they don't distinguish between mood and *mood disorders*. There are situations in which things like "snap out of it," "things could be worse" make sense - when you're having a bad day. They just don't get you out of a case of major depression.

    Another thing is that there's a little grain of truth in the "suck it up" theory. It's not that going to work makes a case of major depression go away. Of course it doesn't. But it helps. A famous psychiatrist, Abraham Low, pointed out that going about one's daily activities as close to normal as possible, maybe a bit slower than usual, is therapeutic. It makes the patient feel more confident. It reduces the risk of things that make the depression worse, like getting fired and flunking out of school. This idea has been proved correct for generations.

    Low said, when we can't control our feelings, we can still control our muscles. This is very important. When people don't feel like taking a shower, they can tell their legs to get them to the bathroom for a shower. It works.

    Maybe I should mention that there are things besides psychotherapy that can help with anxiety and depression. You might have a really good therapist, but professionals tend to focus on their own fields - psychologists on psychology, doctors on medicine. A poll showed that a lot of therapists are not counseling about basic lifestyle choices, and there's good evidence that these can help.

    Lifestyle therapy is easy if not downright fun. Details in my recent answers.

    "Why stress turns into depression" - Psychology Today

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-practice/201303/why-stress-turns-depression
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • How do i release anger?

    I feel no need to scream, shout, fight or cry but i can feel an anger inside of me that's growing at a worryingly rapid pace. I've never been a hugely emotional person but more recently i've been having to do things i dislike and i feel i might snap. Currently my strategy of coping is to envision very... show more
    I feel no need to scream, shout, fight or cry but i can feel an anger inside of me that's growing at a worryingly rapid pace. I've never been a hugely emotional person but more recently i've been having to do things i dislike and i feel i might snap. Currently my strategy of coping is to envision very morbid scenes but the more i do this the more they seem OK and it seems like these "scenes" will become a reality so to prevent this i've been avoiding doing the things that are angering me but they will soon catch up with me. I don't want to do things others may be unable to regret when everything catches up. How do i release this inner anger for good, so far temporary means have been temporarily hiding it and not releasing it. Thanks.
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Donald Trump is a true Christian and a brilliant man. Why do liberal atheists claim otherwise?

    Best answer: Liberal atheists, conservative ones, and intelligent agnostics and theists can see past the BS he spews. Look at the Dow. You can tell pretty much when he started talking about tariffs. That's when the stock market stopped rising from the momentum of the Obama years, and leveled out, with the biggest weekly... show more
    Best answer: Liberal atheists, conservative ones, and intelligent agnostics and theists can see past the BS he spews. Look at the Dow. You can tell pretty much when he started talking about tariffs. That's when the stock market stopped rising from the momentum of the Obama years, and leveled out, with the biggest weekly drop since the Great Depression.

    He might be a true Christian, though, the kind who gave us the Crusades, the Inquisition, the St Bartholomew's Day Massacre, the Irish "Troubles", . . . .
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do libtards think visiting Russia is,treason, and it's damned if you do, or don't by the left, and media?

    If Trump stayed, the libs will say that:"he's hiding something", so he goes to establish peace, and libs say: "collusion"!!!
    If Trump stayed, the libs will say that:"he's hiding something", so he goes to establish peace, and libs say: "collusion"!!!
    10 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why did Jesus kill a fig tree?

    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do People love Princess Diana?

    Best answer: I agree with everything you said. She was having extra marital affairs and calls Prince Charles bad because he was having it. She was a hypocrite for sure. I think what people don't understand is that her charity work or whatever was all just an act. There have been millions upon millions upon millions of... show more
    Best answer: I agree with everything you said. She was having extra marital affairs and calls Prince Charles bad because he was having it. She was a hypocrite for sure. I think what people don't understand is that her charity work or whatever was all just an act. There have been millions upon millions upon millions of people who have done what she has done, and then they have been outed as bad people in real life, and it was proven that there so called good charity work was just all an act. So why do people believe Diana was different? she was just like them? It has been proven that she was all act too. But people are too stubborn and when they really want to believe something, they will believe even when the truth is smacking them in the face.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can i make my wife feel better ?

    Best answer: that's up to her. but she may drag you into her fantasies and blame you which isn't your fault. i'm sure you are just as afraid and it may help if she was able to comprehend the scenario properly. no one likes taking care of a baby. i don't want to have to call my wife and ask where she is every 5... show more
    Best answer: that's up to her. but she may drag you into her fantasies and blame you which isn't your fault. i'm sure you are just as afraid and it may help if she was able to comprehend the scenario properly. no one likes taking care of a baby. i don't want to have to call my wife and ask where she is every 5 minutes it's annoying. i expect her to be able to stand on her own two feet and make smart adult decisions with me or be able to do that but then tell me later.
    10 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Is the "Russian Collusion" BS investigation over now or are they going to waste more American tax dollars?

    Will they finally release all the paperwork if its no longer an "ongoing investigation"? I'd like toknow wtf the WE isin the "WE willstophim" Strzok text
    Will they finally release all the paperwork if its no longer an "ongoing investigation"? I'd like toknow wtf the WE isin the "WE willstophim" Strzok text
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What's wrong with me? Is it maybe anxiety?

    I tend to be almost constantly scared or nervous, of everything. The smallest things worry me, especially social interaction, I am scared out of my mind and am totally incapable of public speech as I honestly can't speak due to fear.I have barely any friends as I am afraid of speaking to anyone, not even my... show more
    I tend to be almost constantly scared or nervous, of everything. The smallest things worry me, especially social interaction, I am scared out of my mind and am totally incapable of public speech as I honestly can't speak due to fear.I have barely any friends as I am afraid of speaking to anyone, not even my parents. A lot of the time I feel like I'm viewing the world, rather then I am in it and I tend to always overthink and stop breathing when I get scared. I am not sure what this may be. I have tried asking my friends and they laugh at me for being "dramatic" and even laugh when I am in tears shaking, they think it's hilarious how scared I am. My mum won't listen, she merely said I should work out more and be more appreciative, then I'll be happy. Please help? Thank you.
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • Whats wrong with me?

    I have a shitty life and its all my fault. I spend all my days alone in bed doing nothing, if i have school i go to school, go home and back to my bed. I feel no meaning with my life and i dont know where to start. I dont have many friends. Ive lost pretty much all of them with time. Ive got like two left which i... show more
    I have a shitty life and its all my fault. I spend all my days alone in bed doing nothing, if i have school i go to school, go home and back to my bed. I feel no meaning with my life and i dont know where to start. I dont have many friends. Ive lost pretty much all of them with time. Ive got like two left which i always cancel with. I just cant find any joy it seems yet i feel miserable wasting my only life in a dumb bed
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Why am I so useless?

    Best answer: It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help like you did. We are so sorry to hear that you are feeling so much emotional pain that you are contemplating suicide. Know that suicide doesn't solve anything; it will only hurt you and your loved ones beyond repair. We can't stress enough how valuable your... show more
    Best answer: It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help like you did. We are so sorry to hear that you are feeling so much emotional pain that you are contemplating suicide. Know that suicide doesn't solve anything; it will only hurt you and your loved ones beyond repair. We can't stress enough how valuable your life is.

    It's so important that you reach out for support from a trusted adult such as a parent, aunt, uncle, school counselor, teacher, coach, or minister. We would suggest getting evaluated by a medical doctor or mental health professional, and getting involved in counseling. Please contact 911 if you need immediate assistance. It may help you to talk to a counselor at a hotline. Know that there is help out there for you and you are not alone. Stay safe!

    Counselor, MT
    20 answers · 5 days ago