• I have a crush on a guy I saw in a movie and I want so bad someone like him 😣😣?

    Best answer: Who hasn't had a crush on a character in a movie or tv show? Maybe there is someone like franz somewhere. You never know. But it's hard to meet people like that. All you can d is frantasize and think about him. Little by little try to get over him cuz he is just a character in a movie if you ever that actor... show more
    Best answer: Who hasn't had a crush on a character in a movie or tv show? Maybe there is someone like franz somewhere. You never know. But it's hard to meet people like that. All you can d is frantasize and think about him. Little by little try to get over him cuz he is just a character in a movie if you ever that actor in real life he most likely won't even have the personality traits he portrayed in the movie.
    20 answers · 1 day ago
  • My Relationship is making me depressed?

    I feel kinda dumb posting this here, but I don t know what else to do and I need to get this off of me. We ve been dating for 2.5 years, we ve been living together for about 5 months. Our fights have been nonstop, no matter how many promises he makes things never change, I want to stay to be in a promised happy... show more
    I feel kinda dumb posting this here, but I don t know what else to do and I need to get this off of me. We ve been dating for 2.5 years, we ve been living together for about 5 months. Our fights have been nonstop, no matter how many promises he makes things never change, I want to stay to be in a promised happy relationship, but I can t believe it anymore. I feel heavy and sad when I wake up, I m usually a cheerful person, I feel like i m losing myself. I m stuck, I would leave but I keep on having hope. It s like i m at war with myself, thankyou for reading and a helpful comment would be appreciated.
    38 answers · 2 days ago
  • Does my ex even want to be friends? Or just want to be acquaintances?

    She says: “I’m fine with us being cool and being able to catch up from time to time but it’s like i give you an inch and you want a mile. Like i’m only willing to text and catch up from time to time but i don’t see us having a close friendship. Also i never said that i didn’t want you in my life or that we had to... show more
    She says: “I’m fine with us being cool and being able to catch up from time to time but it’s like i give you an inch and you want a mile. Like i’m only willing to text and catch up from time to time but i don’t see us having a close friendship. Also i never said that i didn’t want you in my life or that we had to cut each other out of our lives forever. I feel like you think to extremes and misinterpret what i say. I definitely get annoyed with you and don’t always want to talk to you but i know you’re a good dude and i’m not trying to completely close you off but i can’t handle your need to talk a lot but that doesn’t mean i’ll never want to talk to you again. I just need you to not have any expectations with me. I’d want us to at least be friendly. So that’s where i stand. I think it’s best that we don’t text so much while i’m here or for you to feel the need to know what happened in my day. I think you need to focus on you and stop telling me about your progress because my experience is that you tell me and i don’t see it. So maybe just let me see it in person for myself in hawaii instead of trying to convince me that you have changed because your words haven’t matched your actions before so that’s why it always annoys me. But yeah just thought i’d let you know where i’m coming from rn.” Visiting her for two weeks in Hawaii, can’t change plane ticket unfortunately and staying with her. 😓
    30 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do women cheat?

    Is it engrained in their nature to cheat? No women can be trusted in relationship.
    Is it engrained in their nature to cheat? No women can be trusted in relationship.
    82 answers · 3 days ago
  • I wanna get rid of my girlfriend but she said she will kill herself if I leave her?

    Best answer: She is NOT a good match for you. She has a lot of really negative behaviors that NO ONE should tolerate in a partner (or even just a friend). Calling 39 times is obsessive and ridiculous. You simply did not have your charger with you - there is nothing wrong with that. We can't always charge our phones whenever... show more
    Best answer: She is NOT a good match for you. She has a lot of really negative behaviors that NO ONE should tolerate in a partner (or even just a friend). Calling 39 times is obsessive and ridiculous. You simply did not have your charger with you - there is nothing wrong with that. We can't always charge our phones whenever we want/need to unfortunately. Aggressive behavior is also negative and can turn physically violent. She sounds like the obsessive stalker type and THOSE are the types you run far away from.

    If she is threatening to harm herself, it is very likely a guilt-trip/manipulation method to try to "force" you to stay with her. She thinks if she makes massive threats like this, you'll stay with her just to keep her from hurting herself. Don't let that happen to you. Sit down and have an honest talk with her. Let her know that her behavior is absolutely unacceptable and you can't tolerate it any longer. Tell her you don't think she's the person you first thought she was. Let her know that hurting herself will not solve ANYTHING and encourage her to get help for her behavioral issues.

    To avoid issues after you call it off you can change your phone number (and ask others NOT to give her your new one), remove/block her on all social media, keep an eye out in public (don't stay holed up in your house, but try your best to avoid her if you happen to see her out somewhere), and make sure you collect any personal items of yours from her that could be an issue (like house/apartment or vehicle keys), and don't be afraid to consider adding some type of security system to your home. I would also warn any NEW dates you may get about her (often times, problematic exes will try to harass/stalk the new partner as well as their ex lover). If any form of harassment or stalking gets too out of hand, contact the local authorities. You definitely cannot stalk people. If they don't want to be with you, too bad. Stalking and harassment are very much so illegal.

    If you're concerned for her safety, call the authorities and explain the situation to them, then see if they'll go do a wellness check. Also, alert people closest to her (friends/family) and let them know what she's been doing and saying.
    47 answers · 4 days ago
  • If I want to attract White guys, and have "natural (Afro)" hair, would it be a better choice to get it straightened/wear a wig?

    Like.. I've heard that White men don't like natural Black hair (generally). Should I get it straightened? I think it'll make my face look even better, too
    Like.. I've heard that White men don't like natural Black hair (generally). Should I get it straightened? I think it'll make my face look even better, too
    13 answers · 10 hours ago
  • He didn’t cheat, but he thought about it and lied?

    Best answer: I think he definitely deserves a second chance because it sounds to e like he was being very honest with you.
    Best answer: I think he definitely deserves a second chance because it sounds to e like he was being very honest with you.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is their a race barrier when it come to dating in the US?

    Is their a race barrier when it come to dating in the US?

    Best answer: [1] depends what u consider a "barrier." [2] Some folks like me for instance are very sensitive to people FROWNING. [3] When other people FROWN i get real nervous and ask "WHAT DID I DO WRONG?? WHY DO THESE PEOPLE HATE ME ???? WHY DO I FEEL SO SCARED ???????" [4] In my opinion ya need brass balls. show more
    Best answer: [1] depends what u consider a "barrier."
    [2] Some folks like me for instance are very sensitive to people FROWNING.
    [3] When other people FROWN i get real nervous and ask "WHAT DID I DO WRONG?? WHY DO THESE PEOPLE HATE ME ???? WHY DO I FEEL SO SCARED ???????"
    [4] In my opinion ya need brass balls.
    9 answers · 7 hours ago
  • Would you ever cheat on someone?

    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    114 answers · 7 days ago
  • I’m a 31 year old woman who love playing PS4 games. Am I too old?

    I have a professional career and still have a social life but it seems as if my friends judge me for still playing at my age. It’s my hobby and I love it but I still get this feeling like they are laughing at me. I am single and I love it and they are getting married and having families. Is there anyone out there... show more
    I have a professional career and still have a social life but it seems as if my friends judge me for still playing at my age. It’s my hobby and I love it but I still get this feeling like they are laughing at me. I am single and I love it and they are getting married and having families. Is there anyone out there like me?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • Girls sucks?

    I have been single for 28 years and I have never been to a relationship before. For example, every time, I ask a girl out, she agrees to have lunch with me. But never says I have a boyfriend. Like geeez girls, if I ask you out and if you have a boyfriend, DON"T SAY YES! Just deny my invite, or just say I have... show more
    I have been single for 28 years and I have never been to a relationship before. For example, every time, I ask a girl out, she agrees to have lunch with me. But never says I have a boyfriend. Like geeez girls, if I ask you out and if you have a boyfriend, DON"T SAY YES! Just deny my invite, or just say I have a boyfriend! It's that simple girls. Don't play around with my heart, I have feelings too. I'm looking for a serious relationship that may become a marriage. But the fact in America, A lot of girls don't like black guys. I take girls very seriously. I don't want to play mind games with you girls. But can you girls please stop playing games with guys and be honest with us? You girls suck so much that you don't have the confident to say no to me! You ruined my dream to get married. Stop making me jealous!
    8 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Can a guy think of a girl alot and not text/call her?

    What are the reasons
    What are the reasons
    67 answers · 6 days ago
  • Why am I being shamed for dating a 40 year old man?

    I’m 48 years old and a met an amazing guy. I get hit on by much younger guys because I take care of myself well, but I was looking for someone I can relate to and I think 40 is a perfect age. After a date he walked me to my door and my neighbor saw him in the elevator. The next day my neighbor asked if he was a... show more
    I’m 48 years old and a met an amazing guy. I get hit on by much younger guys because I take care of myself well, but I was looking for someone I can relate to and I think 40 is a perfect age. After a date he walked me to my door and my neighbor saw him in the elevator. The next day my neighbor asked if he was a relative so I said no he’s my boyfriend of 6 months. So she says wow he looks young. So I said no he’s 40 but he looks great. So she’s like aren’t you pushing 50? So I’m like so what! She starts saying that I’m robbing the cradle and I should be ashamed of myself. She’s like 5 years younger than me. I won’t even talk to her now.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Boyfriend won’t stop smoking pot?

    Best answer: You already know what to do. Dump him for good. You told him over and over again to give up the weed. He refused every time, even after you got pregnant. He will never change. This is who he is, and this is the man your child will know as its father. Protect yourself, protect your kid, and get rid of him for good.... show more
    Best answer: You already know what to do. Dump him for good. You told him over and over again to give up the weed. He refused every time, even after you got pregnant. He will never change. This is who he is, and this is the man your child will know as its father. Protect yourself, protect your kid, and get rid of him for good. If he pays child support and proves he is willing to commit to visitation, he may be a father. But if not, you are on your own. It's better that you accept this now than to continue to waste your time on false hope and fantasies. You will never have the happy little family you dreamed of. This is as good as it gets. Put your energy in to reconnecting with the friends and family he tried to isolate you from. They have more to offer you than he does.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why are black girls so mean?

    7 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Ramadan: Is this wrong to post?

    So I was talking to one of my friends, he said that he’s always wanted to sleep with a girl in a hijabi and that it’s a massive fantasy. He even told me to role play dressed up as one. I’m a Muslim myself and he’s Caucasian. I posted this on my WhatsApp as I thought it’s funny but people are ignoring it..
    So I was talking to one of my friends, he said that he’s always wanted to sleep with a girl in a hijabi and that it’s a massive fantasy. He even told me to role play dressed up as one. I’m a Muslim myself and he’s Caucasian. I posted this on my WhatsApp as I thought it’s funny but people are ignoring it..
    9 answers · 1 day ago