• Ladies , are you okay with male body stubble?

    Best answer: I don't like a hairy body, but compared to stubble which can hurt your skin rubbing against it, its probably best to not shave.
    Best answer: I don't like a hairy body, but compared to stubble which can hurt your skin rubbing against it, its probably best to not shave.
    42 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Why do men lie about being married?

    67 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Husband being too bossy?

    I've noticed a change in recent days from my gentle spirited husband. In the past he always thanked me for working hard at keeping the house in order and taking care of our pets. He is covering for his boss who is on vacation. He is in upper management and I think the added stress is getting to him. I... show more
    I've noticed a change in recent days from my gentle spirited husband. In the past he always thanked me for working hard at keeping the house in order and taking care of our pets. He is covering for his boss who is on vacation. He is in upper management and I think the added stress is getting to him. I snapped this morning back at him and told him off. We hardly ever fight or be angry at each other. He said I needed to work harder on the house. I let him have it and don't like him treating me like a maid. I'm his wife, not his property and definitely not a maid. Respect is the #1 key to a good marriage. We've been married a long time. Should I ask him to apologize for his abrupt attitude? Thanks.
    68 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Ian 50 living with bf for 2 and half years and he says he doesn t know if he will marry again... should I leave or stay?

    I feel hurt and like I am not enough for him. He has been divorced for 3years and says he doesn t know if he will do it again. I have never been married or engaged and I have always had that dream. He says he loves me and does things to say he does but the thought of never having that dream really hurts.
    I feel hurt and like I am not enough for him. He has been divorced for 3years and says he doesn t know if he will do it again. I have never been married or engaged and I have always had that dream. He says he loves me and does things to say he does but the thought of never having that dream really hurts.
    57 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Housemate made a vile accusation. Do I believe him?

    Best answer: Don't be naive like me. My ex husband was cheating on me since we dated, It took me a full 8 years and 2 kids later to catch on. I counted many affairs after digging through the aftermath. He was an excellent liar, covered his tracks very well, fooled me, my family, even his best friend. Because my ex... show more
    Best answer: Don't be naive like me. My ex husband was cheating on me since we dated, It took me a full 8 years and 2 kids later to catch on. I counted many affairs after digging through the aftermath. He was an excellent liar, covered his tracks very well, fooled me, my family, even his best friend. Because my ex compartmentalized everything going on in his life, he was able to come across as quite genuine. It IS possible to be married to someone and not know them.

    I doubt your husband's housemate has anything to gain for telling you that your husband has been sleeping around.. but he might have something to lose by snitching on his roomie. Think about it. Most people don't wanna be that guy to break the bad news or be ratting on another brother. In fact, there must have been something about you that this roomie felt compassion for you or maybe he simply has enough decency to offer you some truth so you don't waste your life pining over a cheating liar. That actually takes courage. If you have a hard time picturing this, maybe you need to do some spying to confirm this so you can finally move on.
    23 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is there really a point in getting married these days?

    I'm a 23-year-old female and feel as if the type of marriage I would like to have someday is grossly unattainable in today's world. People abuse each other, cheat on each other, have children with other people, break up, reunite, and break up again, endlessly drawing stress and heartbreak from one another.... show more
    I'm a 23-year-old female and feel as if the type of marriage I would like to have someday is grossly unattainable in today's world. People abuse each other, cheat on each other, have children with other people, break up, reunite, and break up again, endlessly drawing stress and heartbreak from one another. No one seems to actually stays with the same person from beginning to end like a marriage ensues. If all of life is just survival, is it better to survive marriage or survive loneliness? Is there any alternative besides those two?
    28 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My ex husband who left me for a friend of mine now divorced her , but he lives in another state?

    Should I go see him? I could fly out for a day but cant stay long. Maybe we can find the spark again? I really cant afford it right now, but if its worth having him again, then I would,. thanks
    Should I go see him? I could fly out for a day but cant stay long. Maybe we can find the spark again? I really cant afford it right now, but if its worth having him again, then I would,. thanks
    23 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My mom is seeing someone 20 years younger than her and I’m about to lose my mind?

    So my mom is in the process of getting a divorce from my narcissist father who has caused emotional damage to our family throughout the years. The divorce is not completely final but my mom seems to think it is. I did something any daughter would do and SNOOPED around because she was acting weird and her “gym”... show more
    So my mom is in the process of getting a divorce from my narcissist father who has caused emotional damage to our family throughout the years. The divorce is not completely final but my mom seems to think it is. I did something any daughter would do and SNOOPED around because she was acting weird and her “gym” times seemed to be extending. Came to the conclusion that she’s been fooling around with a 27-28 year old, sending pics, messages, and meeting up. Now I completely understand that she’s been emotionally/physically alone for a very long time because of how my dad was. So I understand how she’s probably feeling right now. What’s bothering me is if this actually gets serious. She seems to have feelings for him but by their messages he doesn’t seem to be as engaged as her and she obviously doesn’t see that right now. My biggest fear is her actually considering a REAL future with this guy. I’ve never had a real father figure in my life and I would like to. My dream is for my mom to eventually marry a wonderful man that can finally be the father our family has never had. And I can’t have my step dad be a couple years older than me. Maybe I’m thinking way too ahead but I’m really paranoid. I can’t take holding it in anymore, but I’m way too embarrassed to bring this up to her. I hate his guts for using her (for her body only) at a time when she’s so vulnerable. I just need some guidance right now, even if it’s from strangers. Thanks I’m 22 btw so I’m disgusted
    39 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How often should married couples have sex ?

    Best answer: Each couple is different in this way. Sounds like you two have way less sex than most young couples though. I think the rule of thumb usually is no less than twice a month (some folks do it twice a day) or that part of your relationship just starts to disappear. Some couples survive that part of their relationship... show more
    Best answer: Each couple is different in this way. Sounds like you two have way less sex than most young couples though. I think the rule of thumb usually is no less than twice a month (some folks do it twice a day) or that part of your relationship just starts to disappear. Some couples survive that part of their relationship disappearing. Others would split if it wound down to less than once a week. Each couple is different in this way. If you don't think you are having enough sex with your wife.. try a babysitter once a week for a month. The first time, you'll likely both sleep (!), but eventually you'll either get around to sex or.. you won't. Good luck. Have you tried being charming and funny?
    24 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Advice On Military Marriage :-)?

    Best answer: I have documented many times on this forum how the following are higher for military men versus civilians:

    Spouse cheating
    Wife beating
    Divorce
    Compulisve sexual behavior (e.g., excessive masturbation).

    See comments for sources from the VA and other studies.
    Best answer: I have documented many times on this forum how the following are higher for military men versus civilians:

    Spouse cheating
    Wife beating
    Divorce
    Compulisve sexual behavior (e.g., excessive masturbation).

    See comments for sources from the VA and other studies.
    12 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • I am 7 months pregnant by a married man he keeps telling me he is unhappy and leavig his wife soon but then he always finds excuses...?

    Best answer: Yes, end the relationship now. This man is a con artist. The biggest red flag (which you unfortunately ignored, but lesson learned) is that he hid the fact that he was married from you for years. That's not an "oops, I forgot" kind of mistake, that is an "I intentionally deceived you for my own... show more
    Best answer: Yes, end the relationship now. This man is a con artist. The biggest red flag (which you unfortunately ignored, but lesson learned) is that he hid the fact that he was married from you for years. That's not an "oops, I forgot" kind of mistake, that is an "I intentionally deceived you for my own personal gain" kind of thing. Any person willing to go to that kind of length to deceive you is NOT someone who truly loves you nor has your best interests at heart.
    30 answers · 3 weeks ago
  • Trying to make things up with my wife. Is this weird?

    Last year my wife and I bought our first house. It was a townhouse. There was a storage closet outside and it was filled with tons of children’s toys in it (mostly junk) that I donated/trashes. We happened to find one of those big parachutes from elementary school. Prior to buying real furniture for outside we... show more
    Last year my wife and I bought our first house. It was a townhouse. There was a storage closet outside and it was filled with tons of children’s toys in it (mostly junk) that I donated/trashes. We happened to find one of those big parachutes from elementary school. Prior to buying real furniture for outside we would sit outside on the parachute in the grass and just talk about life and our new house. Things were good then. We now obviously have a furnished house and I donated the parachute to a local goodwill. Things are not good in our relationship and we may be headed for a divorce if it keeps up. We’ve been going to marriage counseling together. I’ve been thinking of buying one of those parachute things (you can get them from amazon) and just asking my wife to come sit and talk like we used to. Does this sound weird/creepy? I love her but our relationship is in really bad shape right now.
    17 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Should I fight for my marriage...??

    Me and my husband been together for 13 years we have had plenary of ups and downs we have a 10 year old son and my husband seems to feel I don’t do enough for him or this marriage I work a full time job as well as a full time mother to our son, my husband said he needs a back bone and I don’t support him enough, he... show more
    Me and my husband been together for 13 years we have had plenary of ups and downs we have a 10 year old son and my husband seems to feel I don’t do enough for him or this marriage I work a full time job as well as a full time mother to our son, my husband said he needs a back bone and I don’t support him enough, he said I should know what I need to do, because encouraging words aren’t enough for him, he wants to go to LA and hang out at spots with people who have money he said there more on his level..... but I don’t go anywhere but to work and home daily, he said he needs time to himself and a breather from his jobs and life... he enjoys hanging with his friends and having time to himself very often, he likes to bring the past up a lot and say I wasn’t there when he had nothing now when he had nothing we were 17 kids.... he has a lot of past issues with his mother and not having a father and still brings all those issues up now, he currently doesn’t have his papers and said the government controls him so the last thing I will be doing is telling him if he can’t go out or not, if I mention going out he has a fit and says “do what you want “ I feel like we’re married and should be able to enjoy one another company but he tells it’s to much idk what to do anymore he says I need to just keep my mouth shut and deal with it because he is a adult and can do what he wants idk what to do anymore idk if I should just let him be and have his time or if I deserve the same equal respect
    18 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • What should I plan for our 5 year anniversary?

    We have been married 5 years and I want to also something different and special. My husband doesnt care what we do but suggested dinner and a movie without the kids..... Any better ideas? We always do this on our date nights. I just want to do something special for him
    We have been married 5 years and I want to also something different and special. My husband doesnt care what we do but suggested dinner and a movie without the kids..... Any better ideas? We always do this on our date nights. I just want to do something special for him
    14 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How insensitive was this of my husband to say?

    I'll admit, my 23 year old son hasn't been the best of people to deal with. He's back living with us and now has 2 kids that he's not supporting. My husband and I are supporting his 2.5 year old and his new newborn he hardly sees because that child's mother won't let him see her unless he... show more
    I'll admit, my 23 year old son hasn't been the best of people to deal with. He's back living with us and now has 2 kids that he's not supporting. My husband and I are supporting his 2.5 year old and his new newborn he hardly sees because that child's mother won't let him see her unless he comes with money in hand. Anyway, he's got a lengthy criminal record and is always in some sort of trouble. Everytime he gets ready to start a job something happens. A few weeks ago he was supposed to start a job but couldn't because he got beat up and his eyes were swollen shut. This week he was supposed to start another job but shortly after leaving court he was standing at the transit center and some guy walked up and stabbed him in his arm and his ear. My husband was on his way home for a 10 hour shift and when I told him to come straight home because of the stabbing he did. We were on the way to the hospital and when I told my husband what happened he turns to me and says, "you better keep some good insurance on him because you're going to be burying him soon." Then when I told him where he had gotten stabbed he turns to me in shock to say, "you had me rush home after 10 hours only for a cut on his arm and ear. That should have been you going to the hospital and tell me about it later." No, this is not his child but my first husband's son. My current husband is fed up with all his antics and wants to put him out because he can't find a job.
    25 answers · 3 weeks ago