• Is this considered “cyber bullying”?

    Best answer: No, it’s not but you might find she confronts you in person and if she does. Find that courage you found to message her and tell her to back of, stick up for yourself, if she says something again. You could try and find a time she’s alone, like walking home from school or going toilet, whenever. Try talking to her... show more
    Best answer: No, it’s not but you might find she confronts you in person and if she does. Find that courage you found to message her and tell her to back of, stick up for yourself, if she says something again. You could try and find a time she’s alone, like walking home from school or going toilet, whenever. Try talking to her then. Ask her have I done something to upset you? Tell her you haven’t got a problem with her and ask her why she has a problem with you. Tell her if she doesn’t like you that’s fair enough but why does she have to be nasty? Find the confidence and ask her. You will find that away from her audience she is a different girl, use that time to make her question her actions. My advice might not work, some people are just nasty but worth a try As it works with adults and least you will have tried to sort it amicably. And taken control of your situation, I know it’s looked down on but if she carries on, tell the teacher or your parents, they have a lot more they cando then you can
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it normal to babysit a total spoiled brat for free food free rent free vacation?

    My brother and I have to babysit this total brat all the time.It is really ruining my social life. I can barely study because we have to watch this stupid kid.I am a teenager and this is so unfair. He is always walking in on us when we are having sex with our dates. His mom is never home and we always have to be... show more
    My brother and I have to babysit this total brat all the time.It is really ruining my social life. I can barely study because we have to watch this stupid kid.I am a teenager and this is so unfair. He is always walking in on us when we are having sex with our dates. His mom is never home and we always have to be with the brat. He doesn't know how to do stuff that we are good at and we both end up arguing with him.My mom told me to deal with it because we are getting free food and everything. We also have to pick up the house all the time.Sometimes I can bully him into cleaning, but his mom figures out he did it all by himself. He is 7 and has a nicer phone than my mom. Sometimes I take it off of him because I can and he gets really pissed. I tattle on him a lot and his mom always believes me, but he gets me back.He told on us both for having a huge party and locking him in the laundryroom. My brother lied and told his mom he did something bad so she shipped him off to his dads for a week, but he is back. How do I get rid of him permanently? Also his relatives call and visit and don't like how we act?Can they call the police on us? We have both tried to tell them our point of view but they don't seem to believe us?
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I just lower all my standards for friendships due to constant rejection?

    Best answer: The reason it's harder making friends when older is because people have careers, and new families they've created, and other responsibilities. As kids and teenagers our only responsibility was going to school. We didn't have to worry about bills, and stresses of work. So, it has nothing to do with... show more
    Best answer: The reason it's harder making friends when older is because people have careers, and new families they've created, and other responsibilities. As kids and teenagers our only responsibility was going to school. We didn't have to worry about bills, and stresses of work. So, it has nothing to do with lowering your standards or the fact that you're undesired. it's the simple fact that people are just busy, dude. They're not into those typical situations where social circles are destined to form, like at school or college.

    Don't ever take your success for granted. I get that you're lonely, and I understand you want companionships, but don't make friends into your idol to where your happiness depends on friendship. That's so wrong. Only you are responsible for happiness. I would love to have whatever success you have because I'm still fighting to make something of myself two years after graduation.

    Lowering your standards means you become even less happier because you're so desperate to where you'll even put up with low quality people who will just make your life toxic, or you won't get along with people. If you are that frustrated, look into marketing yourself, such as get out and do stuff in routine, such as have a lunch at Wendy's at a certain time every Monday and/or Tuesday. People are bound to recognize you when you show up in the same place often. Or go job around a park. Go join clubs or classes such as scubadiving, yoga, dance class, swimming, go participate in a 5k race. Go volunteer at an animal shelter. There's always something to do. Go to your city's website and see what activities are coming or what services are needed, and volunteer.
    27 answers · 5 days ago
  • My mum is 43 and I am 16. Is she old?

    My best friend whose mum is 4 years younger told me that my mum is old.all of my classmates mum's are in their thirties.please be honest people
    My best friend whose mum is 4 years younger told me that my mum is old.all of my classmates mum's are in their thirties.please be honest people
    41 answers · 4 days ago
  • All my friends do cocaine now?

    So literally all my group of friends do cocaine now. I've never tried it nor plan too. I've only ever smoked weed but I don't even do that anymore. Should I stay away from them? Last time I hung out with them a cop pulled us over and I found out after my friend had cocaine in his pocket.
    So literally all my group of friends do cocaine now. I've never tried it nor plan too. I've only ever smoked weed but I don't even do that anymore. Should I stay away from them? Last time I hung out with them a cop pulled us over and I found out after my friend had cocaine in his pocket.
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Do you think I need to fix my personality or attitude?

    Best answer: I think you may have a little bit of trouble with acceptance. Not of anyone else, but of yourself. You feel safer to text because you can control the conversation without interruption and cut it off when you’re ready to. Whereas, hanging out, you’re not in charge because you’re in the presence of another. You’re... show more
    Best answer: I think you may have a little bit of trouble with acceptance. Not of anyone else, but of yourself. You feel safer to text because you can control the conversation without interruption and cut it off when you’re ready to. Whereas, hanging out, you’re not in charge because you’re in the presence of another. You’re afraid you’ll reveal what you prefer to keep hidden and then lose control of everything. You said you’re shy which means you’re not too confident people will actually like the “real”you. But that’s your imagination distorting things, that’s all. Just take it one step at a time and go out once in awhile. It’s the only way to break out of your shell and live in the real World, not fantasy. Give it a shot and good luck
    8 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Do you at all?

    Do you only let close friends borrow your clothes to wear, like you know for a night out? Or all your friends?
    Do you only let close friends borrow your clothes to wear, like you know for a night out? Or all your friends?
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I move back or stay in my current state in this situation?

    Best answer: Stay for at least another 6 months to a year and then start applying for jobs in New Jersey that may even pay better than what you get in Texas. You will find something, but it just will take some time and expense on your part to go back for interviews. Don't rush it, you can both have a career and live where... show more
    Best answer: Stay for at least another 6 months to a year and then start applying for jobs in New Jersey that may even pay better than what you get in Texas. You will find something, but it just will take some time and expense on your part to go back for interviews. Don't rush it, you can both have a career and live where you want.
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • A bartender /friend is starting lies about me to my friends and others. should I confront her?

    she used to be my friend , but recently she has gone around telling people lies about me. I want to confront her. Should I do it in person, or via a text?
    she used to be my friend , but recently she has gone around telling people lies about me. I want to confront her. Should I do it in person, or via a text?
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • What should we do with our roommate at this point?

    So this fall I moved into college and it hasn't been one of the best experiences with one of my roommates. Things got pretty worse after that. Me and the other roommate who I do not have the issue with became good friends with me and have had a good time thus far. He moved out for the first quarter, and... show more
    So this fall I moved into college and it hasn't been one of the best experiences with one of my roommates. Things got pretty worse after that. Me and the other roommate who I do not have the issue with became good friends with me and have had a good time thus far. He moved out for the first quarter, and didn't come back almost the whole time. At that point, me and my other roommate decided to just take the whole room as ours, and asked him if it was ok and he was fine with it. He moved back in for this winter quarter and things have been pretty shaky. First of, it's our sleeping schedules that have taken a toll. While we go to sleep at around 10PM, he usually comes back at around 1-3 AM and stays asleep almost the whole morning, and although my roommate tends to be quiet, I don't feel like I need to be quiet for him to sleep because of his bad habits of sleeping. The worse part is, we don't even talk to him. He's never spoken to us the first quarter, so it's sort of like winter quarter was our first time living together. It's really uncomfortable at times, and I don't think me and my roommate have to in a sense deal with this issue. I was thinking maybe call Residential Services to switch him him out and give us a better roommate. I'd be happy to have another roommate that would talk to us and be complaint. But at the same time I don't feel he's done anything too extreme to be moved. In the end he did pay to stay here, so I can't just "kick him out"
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • What advice do I give my friend about his sex starved marriage?

    Best answer: Marriage is a life long commitment. Usually marriage vows include something like for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until we die. I am a little concerned that he is going to another woman for advice and sharing this kind of information. You mentioned that you don t know his wife... show more
    Best answer: Marriage is a life long commitment. Usually marriage vows include something like for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until we die. I am a little concerned that he is going to another woman for advice and sharing this kind of information. You mentioned that you don t know his wife well enough to approach this intimate conversation. It is clear that you know him as a friend. Please understand, I am NOT questioning your intent, but I do question his motivation. I am saying, you are NOT the person he should be conversing with on this subject. He should be seeking advice from another male. Someone like a Pastor, or his physician, or a male friend who has gone thru something similar? There are a number of men that have walked in his shoes. A healthy marriage is based on far more than sex. My wife had cancer and went thru Chemo treatment for two years. She has been Cancer free for 5 years now. After walking thru those heart wrenching times with her, and the suffering she endured, I esteem her highly. We haven t had sex since she was diagnosed with the cancer. Not saying refraining has always been easy, but what she went thru was far more difficult. I do wish him well and hope he will seek out other men that have had a similar experience.
    7 answers · 24 hours ago
  • Nowadays is your social status based on how many followers/likes you get on social media?

    I decided to delete my facebook a couple years back due to privacy concerns but now I feel that ever since I have deleted my facebook I've lost all my social status. In the past, I would post pictures and status updates with my 500+ friends but nowadays I don't do any of that. I simply use my phone to... show more
    I decided to delete my facebook a couple years back due to privacy concerns but now I feel that ever since I have deleted my facebook I've lost all my social status. In the past, I would post pictures and status updates with my 500+ friends but nowadays I don't do any of that. I simply use my phone to schedule dates and hang out with my buddies. I feel that If I were to try to get into some long term relationship, my girlfriend would immediately lose interest because I don't use social media. I feel like I'd come across as some weirdo or loner. I even feel my coworkers in the future would think that as well. Plus, I feel a little left out because I have no way to share the travel experiences that I partake it. It's like, if you don't have social media, what's the point of even taking pictures? I dunno, I just feel really left out and this has been making me feel depressed. A lot of people say that they have felt better after leaving social media but I feel worse. Without social media, you tend to lose contact with all your associates and 'semi-friends" from high school, college and all sorts of random places. Like I said, I'm still in contact with close friends and family members but I still feel "left out" Thoughts? I thought about creating a facebook but I feel like at this point it will just communicate low social status since I'll be starting at 0 friends with no an empty profile.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Introvert Question: How can I tell friends I m no longer able to host them the next time their in town?

    I m an introvert, who occasionally has out-of-town friends stay over my house. While I d prefer them to get a hotel, I know I d be saving them money and seems silly to not let them stay over when I have the room - especially when they ask. On the other hand, having houseguests is a very stressful for me. I enjoy... show more
    I m an introvert, who occasionally has out-of-town friends stay over my house. While I d prefer them to get a hotel, I know I d be saving them money and seems silly to not let them stay over when I have the room - especially when they ask. On the other hand, having houseguests is a very stressful for me. I enjoy their company, but I really value space / alone time at after several hours of hanging out. How can I tell my friends I m no longer able to host them the next time their in town? (I can t tell them we re renovating, because they re in town often) Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
    6 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Are my guy friends jealous of me? Im a girl?

    I have two guy friends who I hang out with a lot and I kid you not, they always undermine me and knock me. For example I just went from tha IPhone 4s to the 8 Plus and they said my iPhone is wack I should of gotten ‘android’ etc when both their phones are old. My friend mentioned a story where he knew i was there... show more
    I have two guy friends who I hang out with a lot and I kid you not, they always undermine me and knock me. For example I just went from tha IPhone 4s to the 8 Plus and they said my iPhone is wack I should of gotten ‘android’ etc when both their phones are old. My friend mentioned a story where he knew i was there (it was us 3) and he said he doesn’t remember who else was with them (leaving me out on purpose). When I got a new job, I got $800 worth of free clothes in the store for my uniform, and they laughed in my face and said ‘hahha you only have 6 clothing items’ when that was the store standard. I’m getting real tiredness of them knocking me on my accomplishments. Are they jealous?
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Guys above 30, please answer?!?

    Best answer: Where would you expect him to let her wait while he gets ready to go out? The porch? Her car?

    Hey, paranoid jealous stalker landlady, you need to get out of your tenant's business.
    Best answer: Where would you expect him to let her wait while he gets ready to go out? The porch? Her car?

    Hey, paranoid jealous stalker landlady, you need to get out of your tenant's business.
    6 answers · 1 day ago