• How can I make my foster son understand that he doesn't get as much as my real daughter?

    I'm currently saving for an iPad for my daughter, and if I save expenses like getting him cheaper items from menus and such I can then put that money towards the iPad. And since she's my actual daughter, I don't see anything unreasonable with prioritizing her first. How can I make him understand this?... show more
    I'm currently saving for an iPad for my daughter, and if I save expenses like getting him cheaper items from menus and such I can then put that money towards the iPad. And since she's my actual daughter, I don't see anything unreasonable with prioritizing her first. How can I make him understand this? Because he always seems to feel that he deserves as much as she does.
    90 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • At 22 is it to late for a male to become good with woman and gain sexual experience?

    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    44 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Would you have an intimate relationship with someone 10 years older/younger than you?

    Or is that too much of an age gap? I'm speaking within legal adult age 18+ (no underage drama with laws)
    Or is that too much of an age gap? I'm speaking within legal adult age 18+ (no underage drama with laws)
    125 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Why can’t I find any quality guy to date me?

    Best answer: Women who spend time examining their own feces to determine the shape of the feces traditionally have relationship issues.
    Best answer: Women who spend time examining their own feces to determine the shape of the feces traditionally have relationship issues.
    18 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • I’m 20 and I want to have a relationship?

    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 12 hours ago
  • Cheating boyfriend?

    I caught my boyfriend texting very salacious things to another girl that is his coworker. After catching him I made him block and delete her but as of recent I’ve noticed I’ve had to reblock her several times I confronted him on it and he tried to use it against me that if I wasn’t crazy I wouldn’t go through his... show more
    I caught my boyfriend texting very salacious things to another girl that is his coworker. After catching him I made him block and delete her but as of recent I’ve noticed I’ve had to reblock her several times I confronted him on it and he tried to use it against me that if I wasn’t crazy I wouldn’t go through his phone he refuses to leave this girl alone needing to have her number unblocked for whatever reason and it’s driving me nuts. We’ve been dating for 6 years and I have no trust in him I’ve caught him to many times. He says this girl means nothing and he just wants to be able to have whoever he wants on his phone which to me sounds like a load of ****. On days he works with her he ignores my texts and calls and gets out late almost every single time. What the **** should I do? He’s putting so much importance on this girl I’ve alreasy expressed my feelings and he just gas lights the situation and puts the blame on me that it’s my fault for everything I just want him to block her and never text her again but he has her number memorized so he doesn’t have to add her as a contact .
    64 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • I failed as a parent , How do i fix it ... 10pts?

    I feel so terrible .. I give my daughter whatever she wants cause I had 5 siblings and never wanted her to feel the struggle . So I gave her everything she want's .She is now 16 and her birthday was last week and me and her father brought her a car , A new phone & a big party . She wasn't thankful AT... show more
    I feel so terrible .. I give my daughter whatever she wants cause I had 5 siblings and never wanted her to feel the struggle . So I gave her everything she want's .She is now 16 and her birthday was last week and me and her father brought her a car , A new phone & a big party . She wasn't thankful AT ALL !!!! she didn't even say thank you ! she's also very rude and disrespectful toward her younger brother that is 8 years of age ! I'm also pregnant and she stresses me out ! she can see that I'm taking bags out the car and she would just watch and not help. She's so lazy , She constantly yells at me and steals her phone every time I take it .. I just don't know what to do anymore .. HELP
    15 answers · Family · 24 hours ago
  • Would you still marry him?

    Best answer: If you are asking for an opinion then I will gladly given it. If I was in your shoes I would keep the relationship. Maybe they were wrong for cheating. Maybe they were wrong for keeping it for as long as they did. Maybe they were wrong for telling you about it when they asked for your hand. All I know is they want... show more
    Best answer: If you are asking for an opinion then I will gladly given it. If I was in your shoes I would keep the relationship. Maybe they were wrong for cheating. Maybe they were wrong for keeping it for as long as they did. Maybe they were wrong for telling you about it when they asked for your hand. All I know is they want to spend their time me and they loved me enough to tell me something happened in the first place.
    25 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Who here has sex at 47?

    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 21 hours ago
  • Losing my best friend?

    I’m losing my really close friend to my other friend. I’m getting jealous and broken
    I’m losing my really close friend to my other friend. I’m getting jealous and broken
    20 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Should I serve non vegan food at my wedding reception because family are refusing to attend the wedding if I serve vegan food?

    I’ve been vegan half my life and my fiancé has been vegan for almost all of his life as a lot of his family are vegan or vegetarian. We decided early on that we would only have vegan food at our wedding. However now members of my family are turning around and saying that they won’t attend if I serve vegan food,... show more
    I’ve been vegan half my life and my fiancé has been vegan for almost all of his life as a lot of his family are vegan or vegetarian. We decided early on that we would only have vegan food at our wedding. However now members of my family are turning around and saying that they won’t attend if I serve vegan food, even my own mother has turned around and said she won’t attend as they’ll be nothing she can eat. I’ve been to family weddings, celebrations and birthdays where there has been literally nothing for me to eat and I’ve sat there with a smile on my face. After the first 2 where I realised there was no food I could eat, I brought my own and was often shunned to eating it in my car. I had to pay for and cook my own food when I went vegan as my parents refused to “fund my damaging lifestyle” but were ok to give my brother money every weekend to get incredibly drunk. I don’t want to fall out over something as silly as what food I serve but at the same time it’s important to me to have vegan food.
    16 answers · Weddings · 10 hours ago
  • Why are men so quick to label women golddiggers?

    Best answer: There are going to be different reasons. Men who’ve managed to only date women with nothing in the way of a career or other plans for the future. And then they believe those women are the norm. These men are probably the men who have a bit of a disliking for career women because supporting a woman is what gives... show more
    Best answer: There are going to be different reasons. Men who’ve managed to only date women with nothing in the way of a career or other plans for the future. And then they believe those women are the norm. These men are probably the men who have a bit of a disliking for career women because supporting a woman is what gives them their role in life. They can’t see beyond it.

    Then there’s the type that falls for propaganda from the manosphere that treats women in developed countries like women in strictly defined castes in India and assumes women are all like that. Men who take this idea to heart take offence at the idea that, for a woman to “marry up”, it means the man is “ marrying down” and since traditionally men make the proposals, it is the man who has decided on this deal.

    Another reason men might say it, is when they’ve been through nasty divorces. It’s human nature to defend your position and divorces easily turn bitter. The wife can believe she is after the best outcome for her children but the man can see it as her being a gold digger.

    In general, it’s men with little, or limited experience in dating, and those who like to stereotype about women who believe this.
    44 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Married woman having crush on a married man!?

    I’m 35, married, attractive. Recently, at the Gym, I noticed a handsome married guy keeps looking at me. And I have to he honest that I enjoy showing up at the gym & be at his sight. I love my husband and don't wanna cheat on him. I have this battle of logic and emotion in me now. One part of me wants to... show more
    I’m 35, married, attractive. Recently, at the Gym, I noticed a handsome married guy keeps looking at me. And I have to he honest that I enjoy showing up at the gym & be at his sight. I love my husband and don't wanna cheat on him. I have this battle of logic and emotion in me now. One part of me wants to play along and keep the adventure going but other part of me is dealing with guilt and wants to stop. This guy has a kind and his wife pregnant with another one. I'm confused, cause on their social media pics, they seem like a one happy family and he loves his wife. Confused, because I can't get him out of my mind at all..any advice?
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 13 hours ago
  • Why does my boyfriend asked me about my ex during sex?

    Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex he ask me very strange questions like... I’m bigger than your ex right? Has he ever done this to you? Is this the biggest d*ck you ever got? I’m f*ckikg you better than your ex right? Etc I tell him yes all the time so I make him feel good but I can’t figure out why he... show more
    Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex he ask me very strange questions like... I’m bigger than your ex right? Has he ever done this to you? Is this the biggest d*ck you ever got? I’m f*ckikg you better than your ex right? Etc I tell him yes all the time so I make him feel good but I can’t figure out why he does it and I don’t want to embarrass him by asking!!
    63 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Is this normal for gamers or does he have a serious anger problem?

    My husband and I share an upstairs studio apartment, so we can hear everything the other person is doing. With most of his free time he plays games online. And by free time, I mean every second he's not eating or at work. When something bad happens and another player does something that makes him angry, ... show more
    My husband and I share an upstairs studio apartment, so we can hear everything the other person is doing. With most of his free time he plays games online. And by free time, I mean every second he's not eating or at work. When something bad happens and another player does something that makes him angry, he'll say something like "I hope your family dies in a fire" or "I hope your first born child dies of AIDs". Anything horrible a person can possibly wish on another person, he'll say it. He breaks at least one controller every six months on average. And when his team mates tell him to calm down its only a game, he starts to curse them out. Anyone that knows anything about playing online will know that a wide range of ages play online, from young children to people fairly up in age. He's told little children to go and kill themselves... A while ago when he kept yelling at someone online he kept telling them of all the ways he hopes they die, I finally lost it and said "SHUT UP! JUST SHUP UP!" He turned around slowly to look at me, purple faced and told me to never speak to him like that again. He bolted twords me pretending like he was going to punch me and stopped about an inch from my face. I screamed and one of his friends online told him to calm down as they all heard me scream near the mic. He later apologized when he stopped playing and acted like it never happened... Also he's 26, if age means anything. I didn't know he was like this.
    24 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • How to get husband to decide between me and his mistress?

    I found out 2 months ago my husband has been having an emotional affair with a coworker; this has been going on for about 4-6 months. I confronted him about the affair, he was very apologetic and swore he loved me and not her and that he would do anything to make it work. So we did counseling, a few sessions, he... show more
    I found out 2 months ago my husband has been having an emotional affair with a coworker; this has been going on for about 4-6 months. I confronted him about the affair, he was very apologetic and swore he loved me and not her and that he would do anything to make it work. So we did counseling, a few sessions, he seemed to be opening up and really trying to mend things between us. But now (he likes to drink) when he drinks he keeps saying that he wants both of us and that he doesn’t want to choose. He says he loves me more than anything but that he likes his coworker too and they have a similar torid last. They still work together, I’m trying to figure out how to either heal from this and continue with him...or to leave and divorce him. I’m so confused on what to do...
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 12 hours ago
  • Would you go to the funeral?

    My egg donor was an evil, horrid woman. She made sure I knew she hated me. I was beaten into submission and called names since my earliest memories. My siblings were allowed to treat me badly, and they knew it was permitted. I left as soon as I turned 18. I was still in the same city, but she would get drunk and... show more
    My egg donor was an evil, horrid woman. She made sure I knew she hated me. I was beaten into submission and called names since my earliest memories. My siblings were allowed to treat me badly, and they knew it was permitted. I left as soon as I turned 18. I was still in the same city, but she would get drunk and come looking for me. She insulted me and threatened physical violence. She broke into my home and destroyed my things. I left and moved far enough away that it finally ended. I went back once every few years to see my dad. He finally divorced her due to alcoholism, violence, and staying gone on benders. She continued drinking for many years. A few years ago I was very sick and admitted to the hospital. The doctor told me I wouldn t make it. She didn t come to see me, nor did she call. Some in the relatives think I hate her. I don t. I just don t feel anything. Once I got away, I learned how to block her out. If a thought of the past crossed my mind, I could get it out quickly until it rarely happened anymore. When she died I didn t feel anything. I can t pretend well enough to act like I did so I don t want to go. I don t feel it will affect me at all if I don t go. What would you do?
    27 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • So much anger toward my mother?

    I'm an adult and happily married, but sometimes I feel so angry when I remember the way my mother treated me when I was still living at home. Now that I think of it, I realized she was more like a bitchy sister than a mother. She only loved my brother, and not me. For example, I remember how she hid my Greek... show more
    I'm an adult and happily married, but sometimes I feel so angry when I remember the way my mother treated me when I was still living at home. Now that I think of it, I realized she was more like a bitchy sister than a mother. She only loved my brother, and not me. For example, I remember how she hid my Greek myths books because I loved reading them (I was 8). She didn't even give reasons why she hid them (I did my home works etc.). I had to beg her for months until she returned them to me. Now I know she just hated seeing me enjoying myself. She almost never cooked for me, and often I had to make myself instant noodles when I was in elementary school. If I prefer certain color or things, she'd call them ugly. She also told me every day that I'm ugly and no one would marry me. She always compared me with my cousins, and praised whatever they were doing to belittle me. Every time I was preparing to go out she always said that if I don't be careful I'd get raped and it would be extremely painful. She started saying this when I was in elementary school, even gave graphic description that people could insert things into my v-----. I had troubles in my early days of my marriage because I was so afraid of the idea of sex. Every time I got something from my dad, she wanted it. Now I see her less and less because she always wants everything I have. Sometimes, seeing young women being loved by their mother in public could just trigger a flood of tears. Do you think I'm vindictive?
    16 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • If my husband's plans get cancelled, should I cancel mine?

    Best answer: Offer to include him in your plans. Look, you guys are marital partners but still individuals. If you want to go to the library (or whatever), you ask if your spouse would like to join you. If he'd rather not join you, that's OK. But for him to expect you to not do this thing YOU wish to do because HE... show more
    Best answer: Offer to include him in your plans.

    Look, you guys are marital partners but still individuals. If you want to go to the library (or whatever), you ask if your spouse would like to join you. If he'd rather not join you, that's OK. But for him to expect you to not do this thing YOU wish to do because HE doesn't also wish to do it -- that would be really selfish and unreasonable. A grown man that can't manage to "be on his own for a few hours" needs to grow up already.
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 11 hours ago
  • Husband doesn't want another baby?

    My husband and I had sex yesterday and he ejaculated inside of me. Yesterday was my first day of ovulation. We have been married for 10 years and have an 8 year old. He went to the store and bought the morning after pill and tried to force me to take it. I'm 38 years old and have wanted a sibling for my son for... show more
    My husband and I had sex yesterday and he ejaculated inside of me. Yesterday was my first day of ovulation. We have been married for 10 years and have an 8 year old. He went to the store and bought the morning after pill and tried to force me to take it. I'm 38 years old and have wanted a sibling for my son for a long time. My son also keeps asking me when he'll get a sibling. My husband doesn't want any more children (he has 2 from a previous marriage). Am I being selfish for refusing to take the pill?
    12 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 hours ago