• My boyfriend won't pay for my gym membership?

    I really want to lose weight and I made plans to go to LA Fitness gym, but my boyfriend refused to pay for my membership. He claimed a gym wasn't necessary to lose weight. He happens to a boxer and he claimed he wouldn't pay, no matter how much I demanded. I didn't find out, until this morning, but he... show more
    I really want to lose weight and I made plans to go to LA Fitness gym, but my boyfriend refused to pay for my membership. He claimed a gym wasn't necessary to lose weight. He happens to a boxer and he claimed he wouldn't pay, no matter how much I demanded. I didn't find out, until this morning, but he made a full packet last night, anticipating workouts and basically, typed out a regimen of exercises to do at home. The whole program is purely calisthenics and running. For each of the days, he also placed down the foods he was willing to cook for me. He said accepting it was entirely my call, but that he would support any decision I made, but I want to go to the gym! Why can't he just pay?
    40 answers · Diet & Fitness · 1 day ago
  • What doesn’t matter to you anymore?

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  • How to deal with suicidal thoughts?

    I have diagnosed depression and I'm currently getting professional help. I have these thoughts constantly and no matter what I do they will not leave my mind. I would never actually do anything though
    I have diagnosed depression and I'm currently getting professional help. I have these thoughts constantly and no matter what I do they will not leave my mind. I would never actually do anything though
    10 answers · Mental Health · 22 hours ago
  • Mental health?

    I would really like advice/opinions. I feel physically sick through anxiety and uncertainty. I crave attention but I don't want someone to tell me I look nice nor do I want someone to tell me I'm good at something-I want someone to ask me if I'm ok. I want to let everything out all my feelings. But when... show more
    I would really like advice/opinions. I feel physically sick through anxiety and uncertainty. I crave attention but I don't want someone to tell me I look nice nor do I want someone to tell me I'm good at something-I want someone to ask me if I'm ok. I want to let everything out all my feelings. But when people do ask me if I'm ok the fear takes over and I lie. I'm incapable of being honest with myself or others. I have been involved with self harm but I don't really know why I do it. I self harm in ways no on will notice, so if i cut myself i will have a carefully thought through excuse to tell people however secretly I want someone to notice. I have manic moments not necessarily happy, motivating manic moments more along the lines of irritable, talkative, scary moments where I manic rant and become almost another person. I miss university due to feelings of self doubt, worthlessness and inability to leave the house due to OCD(checking, doors, tapsetc) I have had help with this OCD. I feel miserable, I do love university but I'm struggling to just be happy because I'm not. I hate myself and I hate the person I am am how I come across. I will be saying something but fighting with self in my head telling myself 'why are you saying that' 'your making it worse' 'say something nice' but my mouth just continues to say everything that I don't want it to. I feel burden on everyone and cannot shake the feeling that I am truly a waste of space. I always feel on edge 24/7 I can't relax
    5 answers · Mental Health · 14 hours ago
  • Can you use vaseline as lube?

    12 answers · Men's Health · 8 hours ago
  • I get panic attacks daily and I always end up at the ER?

    I've gotten anxiety since I was about 15 and it's progressed over the years. Before I would be able to distract myself by playing a game or reading a book but now I can't concentrate. I've always thought I could handle it on my own until I started going to the ER. I feel like I'm going crazy... show more
    I've gotten anxiety since I was about 15 and it's progressed over the years. Before I would be able to distract myself by playing a game or reading a book but now I can't concentrate. I've always thought I could handle it on my own until I started going to the ER. I feel like I'm going crazy with a lot of fear. sometimes I feel like I'm about to die, last time I went to the ER I was shaking and I asked for a warm blanket thinking I was shaking cause of the cold but I kept shaking. I feel like I'm out of breath and I feel pressure on my chest. My mind automatically thinks heart attack. A few times they tried to give me a controlled substance and I always denied it cause I was scared but this last time they gave me something and I took it cause the doctor explained very well how I would feel after he said to find a ride cause I would probably feel drowsy. I found a ride but after taking this medication I felt normal. NORMAL, I didn't have drowsiness, sleepiness, or lightheadedness. Every thought that made me panic disappeared. I don't even know how to explain this but everything was ok after.
    5 answers · Mental Health · 1 day ago
  • Am I anorexic?

    I'm 15 years old male, 5ft 11in (182cm) and 119lbs (54kgs). I'm afraid that I have some signs of anorexia, but I don't want to tell my parents about it 'cause they'll make me go to a therapist or whatever. Signs:I'm always very cold, I'm afraid of gaining weight, I think of myself as a... show more
    I'm 15 years old male, 5ft 11in (182cm) and 119lbs (54kgs). I'm afraid that I have some signs of anorexia, but I don't want to tell my parents about it 'cause they'll make me go to a therapist or whatever. Signs:I'm always very cold, I'm afraid of gaining weight, I think of myself as a fat person, even though I know that I'm truly underweight and I exercise to burn fat. 2 days ago I had a tic(type of seizure that are ''popular'' with anorexics, but I'm not sure if it really was a tic. I've been eating 800-1000 calories daily, but then i binged for 4 days and ate approximately 2000-2500, now I've been eating very few calories. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to binge anymore, 'cause I'll feel guilty. I don't want to throw up anymore, I cannot imagine myself doing this.
    11 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 days ago
  • Can you stay up forever with caffeine? why or why not?

    doesnt caffeine make u stay up so coudlnt u constantly drink it and never sleep
    doesnt caffeine make u stay up so coudlnt u constantly drink it and never sleep
    15 answers · Mental Health · 1 day ago
  • Is it normal for a guy who's almost 41 to still masturbate a few times a day?

    I probably do it 3 to 5 times a day.
    I probably do it 3 to 5 times a day.
    13 answers · Men's Health · 19 hours ago