• My BF hit me during an argument :'( 😢😞.... I feel so unloved and suicidal right now. What should I do?

    I was in an LDR with him, and later, he married me and we now live here in his country. He is 9 years older to me. I am 23. He loves me alot, he has helped me emigrate to a better country, away from my abusive family back home... And he also pays for my University tuition fee. He actually DOES love me alot, and I... show more
    I was in an LDR with him, and later, he married me and we now live here in his country. He is 9 years older to me. I am 23. He loves me alot, he has helped me emigrate to a better country, away from my abusive family back home... And he also pays for my University tuition fee. He actually DOES love me alot, and I do so too But, he becomes really "scary" when he's angry or upset...it's the only bad thing about him. He is so scary that you just can't say stuff when he's mad at you... It's just the way it is.. otherwise he's really sweet He was upset with me because of something I said. His mum is a little rude to me (she's always been this way, she thinks I'm stealing her son). But, I didn't say anything rude about her ..... But something happened and the argument got really bad. Then, he said something about my dad (who was really close to me, my mum was abusive...but dad, as long as he was alive, was amazing). So, I tried to stop him (NOT rudely). And he slapped me. I disliked it so much He didn't even apologise to me even though he knew I was hurt, I had started crying. Should I forgive him? Afterall, no-one's perfect...maybe that's his normal self when he's angry
    40 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m a 22 year old guy and I’m gonna kill myself?

    I told my younger brother and sister about it, and they all started crying. I told them that I just don’t wanna live anymore, my life is worthless. They went and told my parents about it . Why would they do that? I’m planning to end my life next week with one gunshot wound to my head.
    I told my younger brother and sister about it, and they all started crying. I told them that I just don’t wanna live anymore, my life is worthless. They went and told my parents about it . Why would they do that? I’m planning to end my life next week with one gunshot wound to my head.
    8 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Can my dad take my car if my name is on the title?

    Ok so I’m 18 and my parents want to take my car all the way to Alabama this April to visit family (we live in Illinois). My dad thinks he is entitled to use it just because I live in his house. My name is on the title and I’m the one who makes the payments, not him. But anytime I do something thay he doesn’t like,... show more
    Ok so I’m 18 and my parents want to take my car all the way to Alabama this April to visit family (we live in Illinois). My dad thinks he is entitled to use it just because I live in his house. My name is on the title and I’m the one who makes the payments, not him. But anytime I do something thay he doesn’t like, he threatens to kick me out for it. Even if it’s not a big deal he will just turn it into one. He’s like a baby when he doesn’t get his way. There is nothing wrong with my moms car that they wouldn’t be able to use it, they just think they are entitled to it because I live with them. Now of course he’s going to try to take my keys and then threaten to kick me out if I don’t give it to him. What can I do about this?
    21 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Parents think I m a failure. What do I do?

    Best answer: If you're doing what you say you're doing better than average for your age. This is definitely something you should talk to a counselor or teacher you trust about. They sound at least close to abusive even if they think they're helping you by pushing you. This isn't appropriate and it sounds like... show more
    Best answer: If you're doing what you say you're doing better than average for your age. This is definitely something you should talk to a counselor or teacher you trust about. They sound at least close to abusive even if they think they're helping you by pushing you. This isn't appropriate and it sounds like you know they're doing damage to you.
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Found Out My Daughter Smokes Pot!?

    I was helping my 16-year-old daughter clean her room and i came across a little thing of foil with marijuana in it. I got a little angry and i told her that we would discuss it later and she said she was sorry and cried a little. I don't know how or if i should punish her because she is not a bad kid. She... show more
    I was helping my 16-year-old daughter clean her room and i came across a little thing of foil with marijuana in it. I got a little angry and i told her that we would discuss it later and she said she was sorry and cried a little. I don't know how or if i should punish her because she is not a bad kid. She does very well in school, doesn't get in trouble, barely goes out, and is home pretty much all the time besides for school... so i am a little bit shocked to have found out that she smokes pot. I don't know if i am being hypocritical because when i was a teenager i tried marijuana with friends.. so i want to know some other opinions of people and how would you deal with this situation of it happened to you?
    17 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Why do some people not want children?

    265 answers · 6 days ago
  • Teenage Daughter Buying Expensive Items?

    My 16 year old daughter has recently started going shopping nearly every weekend but I have noticed she is buying alot of expensive clothes (Gucci, LV and Burberry etc), She is also buying alot of jewellery and shoes. The problem is that I do not know where she is getting the money. All comments appreciated to... show more
    My 16 year old daughter has recently started going shopping nearly every weekend but I have noticed she is buying alot of expensive clothes (Gucci, LV and Burberry etc), She is also buying alot of jewellery and shoes. The problem is that I do not know where she is getting the money. All comments appreciated to solve this predicament
    15 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Is it okay to put cameras in the house to watch your child?

    I'm turning 18 in a month and my mom just put cameras all around the house because I like my brother's best friend who lives with us. Is that considered okay? I'm really mad about it and want to take them down that's why I would like to hear other's opinion about it. Please tell me if you agree... show more
    I'm turning 18 in a month and my mom just put cameras all around the house because I like my brother's best friend who lives with us. Is that considered okay? I'm really mad about it and want to take them down that's why I would like to hear other's opinion about it. Please tell me if you agree or disagree.
    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • My sister wants to kick me out of her wedding because I want to wear white?

    Best answer: I can't tell if your question is real or not. If it is, then I'm honestly telling you that you're absolutely in the wrong. Obviously nobody wears white but the bride. You can't be surprised that she accuses you of trying to steal the lime light when you go and do things like that. When she first... show more
    Best answer: I can't tell if your question is real or not. If it is, then I'm honestly telling you that you're absolutely in the wrong. Obviously nobody wears white but the bride. You can't be surprised that she accuses you of trying to steal the lime light when you go and do things like that.

    When she first showed that she was upset at you planning to wear white then the correct thing for you to have done would've been to apologize and plan a different outfit. For you to laugh it off and then sabotage the catering and flowers, and then to believe that she is the one being toxic, shows a complete lack of self awareness on your part.

    Btw, she didn't kick you out because you planned to wear white. She kicked you out because your first reaction to her frustration was to laugh, and then when she told you to stop your behavior you then decided to leave the wedding yourself and you went on to sabotage the catering and flowers. It was only after all of that did she decide to kick you out of the wedding. She kicked you out because you were acting like a complete narcissist.
    11 answers · 11 hours ago
  • My aunt & uncle are liberal Guardian-reading, Labour-supporting Remainers, should I stop speaking to them?

    I didn't know anything about their political views until recently, I'm disgusted.
    I didn't know anything about their political views until recently, I'm disgusted.
    11 answers · 15 hours ago
  • My mom is making me get a restraining order on my childs father?

    Im 20 years old and my mother is very religious. She thought that i was celibate. I found out i was pregnant and she has not been happy. She hits me and now she's trying to have my boyfriend not go on any appointments with me. And she won't let me talk to him. She's making me go to the court house and... show more
    Im 20 years old and my mother is very religious. She thought that i was celibate. I found out i was pregnant and she has not been happy. She hits me and now she's trying to have my boyfriend not go on any appointments with me. And she won't let me talk to him. She's making me go to the court house and get a restraining order on him, she has been sending that's to his phone. And said she doesn't want him involved in the childs life. He has a good job and a home. He wants me to move in but my mom wont let me. She told him hes going to have to figure out different way to sign the birth certificate. I want him in my life and the child's what do i do
    11 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Reporting to DCF?

    Our neighbors (the husband is friends with my husband and they often take weekend jobs together) left their barely 5 year old home by herself briefly yesterday. And now on two occasions, I have intercepted the little girl playing outside by herself. She is friends with my daughter and is in the same school this... show more
    Our neighbors (the husband is friends with my husband and they often take weekend jobs together) left their barely 5 year old home by herself briefly yesterday. And now on two occasions, I have intercepted the little girl playing outside by herself. She is friends with my daughter and is in the same school this year. To me this is being neglectful. With everything going in the world today, I don't think I would leave a teenager by themselves, much less a child who isn't even in kindergarten yet. In you were in my position, would you report this to child services?
    11 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I hate this?

    I'm so mad and angry at my mom, my brother is expected to finish high school this semester so she's gonna get him a Playstation 4, a phone and fully pay for his driving lessons. While when I graduated high school I got my own phone and also paid for my driving lessons, it's just unfair I always tell... show more
    I'm so mad and angry at my mom, my brother is expected to finish high school this semester so she's gonna get him a Playstation 4, a phone and fully pay for his driving lessons. While when I graduated high school I got my own phone and also paid for my driving lessons, it's just unfair I always tell her she has gender double standards but she won't accept it! She says after I graduate from university she'll help me get a car but I know she won't. I'll just end up taking a loan, while my brother gets everything without even trying. It's like he has his life planned for and all he has to do is live it!
    11 answers · 21 hours ago
  • How to get over leaving family behind?

    So I have an opportunity to move away from Louisiana to Wisconsin. I can leave by train in a month or by plane in July. But...I can't seem to stop crying when I think about leaving my family behind. My stepmom and stepsister, my grandma, my mom and sister, just everyone. I want to leave so bad. But I can't... show more
    So I have an opportunity to move away from Louisiana to Wisconsin. I can leave by train in a month or by plane in July. But...I can't seem to stop crying when I think about leaving my family behind. My stepmom and stepsister, my grandma, my mom and sister, just everyone. I want to leave so bad. But I can't stand the thought of them crying over me leaving. How do people do this? Serious answers only plz?
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does pearl l suggest calling the cps al the time?

    Best answer: inn just trying to help, thats why, sonnetinnes kids need to call cps to get away fronn abuse and if theyre older they need to nnove out, i say god dont nnake junk cause he dont, inn just answering sonneone when i say inn only 4ft5 cause theyre talking about how they dont like being short and inn trying to tell... show more
    Best answer: inn just trying to help, thats why, sonnetinnes kids need to call cps to get away fronn abuse and if theyre older they need to nnove out, i say god dont nnake junk cause he dont, inn just answering sonneone when i say inn only 4ft5 cause theyre talking about how they dont like being short and inn trying to tell thenn theyre not the only one
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • My 2 kids, daughter 14 and son 13 are always fighting. I coming to the end of my options.?

    I was hoping there are some sucessful suggestions, my kids fight about everything, they seem to be more worried about what the other one is doing rather than what they need to be doing. It makes the house a very unhappy home, now my daughter wants to move out with her father on the otherside of the country, because... show more
    I was hoping there are some sucessful suggestions, my kids fight about everything, they seem to be more worried about what the other one is doing rather than what they need to be doing. It makes the house a very unhappy home, now my daughter wants to move out with her father on the otherside of the country, because she hates her brother, she tells him she wishes he was dead. She publicly makes fun of him, he also aggravates her on purpose. I have tried the seperating them, but it seems like as soon as they are near each other for more than 10 minutes, the fights back on. I am sure some of this is teenager sibling rivalry, but I think its at the point of being unhealthy.
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Why don’t my brothers and mom and dad clean after themselves?

    I do all the housework and they don’t appreciate me plus I’m clean not dirty I can take of myself.
    I do all the housework and they don’t appreciate me plus I’m clean not dirty I can take of myself.
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Am I rich.?

    Ok. So my dad owns a business and makes about 15,000 after tax a month. I live in a 2 million dollar house. I drive a 45,000 car. My brother drives a 35,000 truck. My mom drives a 34,000 car. I don’t pay bills. What am I considered.
    Ok. So my dad owns a business and makes about 15,000 after tax a month. I live in a 2 million dollar house. I drive a 45,000 car. My brother drives a 35,000 truck. My mom drives a 34,000 car. I don’t pay bills. What am I considered.
    8 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Who pays for my brother's funeral?

    Best answer: Your stepmother is MEAN SPIRITED. Go ahead and do the Go Fund me page. And if your stepmother objects, tell her (from me) to take a LONG WALK on A SHORT PIER. In other words, let her get angry, Honoring your brother in this way, is WAY MORE IMPORTANT than her temper tantrum. PS.. Your father also has to learn... show more
    Best answer: Your stepmother is MEAN SPIRITED. Go ahead and do the Go Fund me page. And if your stepmother objects, tell her (from me) to take a LONG WALK on A SHORT PIER. In other words, let her get angry, Honoring your brother in this way, is WAY MORE IMPORTANT than her temper tantrum.

    PS.. Your father also has to learn to stand up to this woman.
    12 answers · 2 days ago