• Boyfriend sent me rules for our relationship?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and recently we're in a rough patch. We don't want to break up, so I made the suggest of talking about this face to face and figuring out some things. So we meet up and right away he starts telling me like he feels the relationship is all on his shoulders and I... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and recently we're in a rough patch. We don't want to break up, so I made the suggest of talking about this face to face and figuring out some things. So we meet up and right away he starts telling me like he feels the relationship is all on his shoulders and I barely contribute anything. I apparently don't compliment him enough, text him quick enough, pay for things and just make in not feel loved in general. I didn't really know he felt this way and it did hurt so I apologize. He told me he wants me to make it up towards him. A week goes by I get more active texting him and when we went out to dinner I paid. I've been trying to change But now he text me again saying I wasn't making him feel better and this isn't a relationship and sent me a list to follow from to get back on track. - I must send a good morning message that is at least 2 paragraph long, that consist of 2 compliments and a heart emoji - If I can't reply within an hour of his text message I have to call as soon as possible to explain why - I am not allowed to see my male friend anymore or even mention him until this gets worked out - We have to talk on the phone 4 days out of the week - I have to tell him I love 3 times a day I'm fuming. I told him this is insane and he said he doesn't know how we're going to work. Am I wrong here
    84 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why does my girlfriend seem so uninterested during sex?

    We used to be friends with benefits before we ever dated and our sex was amazing I’m rly rough and aggressive during sex and she loved it , she is into being submissive and we would have amazing sex and I am really good at going down on girls and I make her *** all the time from going down on her! The first 3/4... show more
    We used to be friends with benefits before we ever dated and our sex was amazing I’m rly rough and aggressive during sex and she loved it , she is into being submissive and we would have amazing sex and I am really good at going down on girls and I make her *** all the time from going down on her! The first 3/4 months of our relationship we still had a lot of sex. She said some things the past few months though about how “ our relationship isn’t all about sex” and I was just kinda confused since our relationship consists of a lot more then that we do all kinds of fun things and I do a lot for her I just paid to get her new tires and her car detailed and I’m only 19 , also I am paying her car insurance for her. I only make like 600/640 per paycheck because I’m in college I just don’t get the point of cutting down on sex. But long story short the past 3 months we have had sex twice... when we were friends with benefits we had sex like 100 plus times in the 2 and a half months it was going on.. I don’t expect that much my entire life but for 3 months to only have sex twice is concerning. I will be rough and she’ll push me off , or she’ll tease me all day and say she’s gonna **** me or give me head then at night she’ll jusf say she’s tired or well smoke weed and she will say she’s too high. I just don’t get it
    49 answers · 2 days ago
  • After having sex, what is the time frame that he will get back to you if he's interested?

    Best answer: 2-3 days max especially if he's busy (full time job, kid etc).
    Best answer: 2-3 days max especially if he's busy (full time job, kid etc).
    39 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I know that the girl I'm with is really a girl?

    With all the trannies that are out there now, how do I know the girl I'm talking to and am interested in is really a girl? I don't want to go to her place only to find out she's really a dude.
    With all the trannies that are out there now, how do I know the girl I'm talking to and am interested in is really a girl? I don't want to go to her place only to find out she's really a dude.
    26 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it ok to let a 12 year old go to her boyfriends house?

    Best answer: If his parents are there and you know they'll keep an eye on them, sure. But if they're the type to let them hang out alone in his room, I would say no. Or you could talk to the parents first just to find out and get reassurance since you'll need to talk to them at one point anyway, if you haven't... show more
    Best answer: If his parents are there and you know they'll keep an eye on them, sure. But if they're the type to let them hang out alone in his room, I would say no. Or you could talk to the parents first just to find out and get reassurance since you'll need to talk to them at one point anyway, if you haven't already.
    62 answers · 3 days ago
  • I love this guy but he said sex first?

    he said he need to see if we are sexually compatible first before we start dating. i really love him and i let him do it without condom since he wants to feel it from actual genital contact. now he is dating with me and another gal, he said he would dump me if that gal is more sexually compatible with him. i am... show more
    he said he need to see if we are sexually compatible first before we start dating. i really love him and i let him do it without condom since he wants to feel it from actual genital contact. now he is dating with me and another gal, he said he would dump me if that gal is more sexually compatible with him. i am worried and how i can keep him? tips and suggestion?
    20 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I’m 20 and I want to have a relationship?

    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    I never had a boyfriend,I had dates but nothing works out (dates with guys I met online)😭 ,Am I the problem? Is because Im fat? I’m 5’1 ,162l
    59 answers · 3 days ago
  • My boyfriend refuses to give me oral sex or to allow me to use toys?

    I have never had an orgasm for four months because he just refuses to let me do anything to help me finish and doesn’t want to give me head he used to and then he just refused to and he always expects me to give him head
    I have never had an orgasm for four months because he just refuses to let me do anything to help me finish and doesn’t want to give me head he used to and then he just refused to and he always expects me to give him head
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • At 22 is it to late for a male to become good with woman and gain sexual experience?

    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    Best answer: your a late bloomer nothings going to change
    55 answers · 5 days ago
  • My boyfriend and I are working through my being unfaithful do you think he will ever completely forgive me?

    We have been together for close to a year and about 2 months ago I made a terrible decision. We were a really good couple he was really sweet , funny and very handsome. Way too good for me. I’m an overweight 19 year old with a bad attitude. He’s also 19 but he’s kind of got his **** together minus I think he may... show more
    We have been together for close to a year and about 2 months ago I made a terrible decision. We were a really good couple he was really sweet , funny and very handsome. Way too good for me. I’m an overweight 19 year old with a bad attitude. He’s also 19 but he’s kind of got his **** together minus I think he may have a slight drinking problem. But at the time we were arguing a lot and we weren’t hanging out every day like we used to. Also we liked to smoke weed together. I went to get weed from our dealer and he offered to smoke me out with his friend and I was really really high and felt unsafe and they came onto me and I agreed to have sex with them but the thing that breaks my hear is that day he went to my house with flowers and wanted to work through stuff more :(.... but I didn’t know the guys filmed it and sent it to him because they had some kind of problem. We are still together and my heart breaks every day and I have been trying everything I just can tell I hurt him. We haven’t had sex since then. I even try to give him head and I used to never do that. He bough me a really nice Christmas present today. Which made me happy that it showed he still cared. But he has been spending all his time at the gym because he feels insecure now.. i feel awful and I love him so much.. I just wished he knew I love him
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • What do you look for when you answer questions?

    personally myself- I put some unintelligible nonsense
    personally myself- I put some unintelligible nonsense
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • What if I don't marry?

    11 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Would you break up with someone if they were sexually texting other girls?

    I found messages on my bf's facebook of him talking to other girls and flirting with them about having sexual fantasies with them. He sent them his phone number ,so who knows what else went on... I know I snooped, but I had an intuition something was going on and tried talking to him about it and he said I was... show more
    I found messages on my bf's facebook of him talking to other girls and flirting with them about having sexual fantasies with them. He sent them his phone number ,so who knows what else went on... I know I snooped, but I had an intuition something was going on and tried talking to him about it and he said I was crazy for thinking something was going on. I found him talking to several girls and then messages of him sending them his phone # on his facebook. When I confronted him, he said I was making a huge deal about it and blowing it out of proportion. He said that they "aren't" talking anymore, but when I asked to see the messages of him ending it, he wouldn't show me his phone. He says that I expect him to be perfect, but he chose to talk to these girls and lied to me. He wants to stay together, but I don't see the point. Would you stay with this person?
    12 answers · 23 hours ago
  • What s wrong with me?

    12 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Would you ever have Sex with a Pornstar 😛?

    Best answer: I'm kind of a germaphobe. I might let her give me a bj.
    Best answer: I'm kind of a germaphobe. I might let her give me a bj.
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • Would you have an intimate relationship with someone 10 years older/younger than you?

    Or is that too much of an age gap? I'm speaking within legal adult age 18+ (no underage drama with laws)
    Or is that too much of an age gap? I'm speaking within legal adult age 18+ (no underage drama with laws)
    138 answers · 7 days ago