• What should I do about my fiance cheating and getting another woman pregnant?? I don't want him to have anything to do with the woman/baby?

    We have two beautiful children. I love the ground he walks but he has cheated on me several times. We'd get past it and get back together. And a few months or so I'd find out he's done it again. Well just when I think we are in a good place, discussing setting a wedding date and possibly having another... show more
    We have two beautiful children. I love the ground he walks but he has cheated on me several times. We'd get past it and get back together. And a few months or so I'd find out he's done it again. Well just when I think we are in a good place, discussing setting a wedding date and possibly having another baby guess what happens?? I am contacted by a woman that says she has been screwing him for 6 months and they have a baby on the way. I was sad, shocked everything. I dropped everything and contacted him about it via text because he wasn't answering my calls. I went to his job meanwhile asking the woman to send me proof of the affair and she did. Messages for months between them and even the positive pregnancy test. I was heart broken. And eventually with the proof he admitted it but claims he doesn't love her doesn't want to be with her and doesn't want the baby. She wants to keep it, but I don't want any parts of it. He begged me to forgive him and I did but now I just don't know if I can deal with this woman now being apart of our world and she already knows his whole family and they know about the pregnancy... I am heartbroken. I made him change his fb status to engaged to me because it seemed that he was trying to hide me altogether I also made him set a date for us to marry immediately. If we marry will he change and commit to me? Also I don't want him at the hospital during delivery either am I wrong for this?
    43 answers · 4 days ago
  • Help I really need an answer?

    I live in kansas. I'm a 17 year old girl. Hypothetically speaking, if I went to Missouri to live with a friend because my family is extremely abusive, could they bring me back? I know Missouri's legal age is 17 for being an adult.. but I dont know if being In kansas has anything to do with it. Could someone... show more
    I live in kansas. I'm a 17 year old girl. Hypothetically speaking, if I went to Missouri to live with a friend because my family is extremely abusive, could they bring me back? I know Missouri's legal age is 17 for being an adult.. but I dont know if being In kansas has anything to do with it. Could someone please help?
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Neighbors are really loud?

    I moved into my new apartment about 3 weeks ago. I live on the first floor and have really loud people living above me. When I first moved in, they threw a party and at 2 am I woke up from how loud it was. They were blasting music and yelling/talking super loud until like 4 am. The next few days go by and every... show more
    I moved into my new apartment about 3 weeks ago. I live on the first floor and have really loud people living above me. When I first moved in, they threw a party and at 2 am I woke up from how loud it was. They were blasting music and yelling/talking super loud until like 4 am. The next few days go by and every night they continue to be loud. They haven't thrown any more parties but I hear them banging doors shut, they have their TV on really loud, etc. I ignored this but I don't know how much more I can take of the noise. I never hear them during the day, only at night at like 2 am. Last night I heard them stomping and it sounded like they were moving furniture. Right when I fell asleep, I woke up from a loud banging noise (as if someone literally jumped off a bed and onto the floor) I wouldn't mind this during the day but they only get loud at night. What should I do? I hate to seem like a mean neighbor but I have to wake up early most days and I can't fall asleep because of this
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Guy at work rolls his eyes when I talk about my hair?

    He's fine with other women except me when they talk about stuff like that. How come?
    He's fine with other women except me when they talk about stuff like that. How come?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • My fiance told me he will not contact the woman that he got pregnant behind my back......?

    He says she means nothing to him and he doesn't want the baby but will support it if it is his. He carried on this affair with her for 6 months until she contacted me and told me about it. She claims she didn't no about me until recently and he lied to her about being single.He begged me to forgive him and... show more
    He says she means nothing to him and he doesn't want the baby but will support it if it is his. He carried on this affair with her for 6 months until she contacted me and told me about it. She claims she didn't no about me until recently and he lied to her about being single.He begged me to forgive him and stay with him and I did. I will admit this is not the first time of his cheating as mentioned earlier. I don't want him communicating with her until he knows this is his baby I don't want him at the birth either. He agrees but I am scared that he will start to communicate with her behind my back. We are engaged and on and off for 18 years I just want our family and to put this all behind us. I am hoping it is not his baby but he admits they did not use protection. Do you all think he will not talk to her for 9 months? I will be really hurt if I find out he does.
    19 answers · 4 days ago
  • Sex anxiety due to religious upbringing?

    Best answer: Just another example of how religion poisons everything. You have to remember that your self worth isn't based on the mileage on your genitals. That sex is great and it's perfectly natural to have it and want it. It's really messed up how religion tries to treat women like things instead of people. ... show more
    Best answer: Just another example of how religion poisons everything.

    You have to remember that your self worth isn't based on the mileage on your genitals. That sex is great and it's perfectly natural to have it and want it.

    It's really messed up how religion tries to treat women like things instead of people. How a woman who is not a virgin is "used" somehow. None of that is true. Worse is that with such a focus on virginity do you know what happens after marriage with virgins? They become non-virgins. And it REALLY messes with them because sex is STILL seen as wrong even after they're married. Because the focus was always on their virginity. It's a toxic mentality.

    https://www.xojane.com/sex/true-love-waits-pledge
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do I give back this gift I don't want from these fake assholes?

    Hey, everyone. So I just graduated from university. I have beef with my brother and his wife but my sister, who threw my party, invited them. They know very well we're not okay but when we're in front of people, my brother acts all buddy-buddy with me and his wife doesn't try (thankfully). His wife is... show more
    Hey, everyone. So I just graduated from university. I have beef with my brother and his wife but my sister, who threw my party, invited them. They know very well we're not okay but when we're in front of people, my brother acts all buddy-buddy with me and his wife doesn't try (thankfully). His wife is really petty. To the point where she made her son wear all paraphernalia from my university's "rival school" (her and my brother went there for their bachelor's even though she went to my school for her master's). Anyways, I decided a few months ago that if they got me anything, I would send it back to them. But now I'm thinking, how should I do it? They got me a card and I haven't opened it yet (the party was today and I set up and cleaned up so I'm exhausted) and if there's money or anything, I want to send it back. I was thinking of buying a bigger envelope and putting theirs in it and just writing "no thanks" on the back or something. I know this may seem childish and you're probably thinking "really? You graduated from university and you're being this childish?" But if you knew why this was even a question, you'd understand. It's irrelevant right now and basically I just want some advice. Does my idea sound good orrrr? Thanks, guys.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it okay a random lady to yell at me?

    So i went to this senior graduation ceremony and i was sitting behind this lady. Ill admit I was talking loudly and I asked a bunch of questions to the person next to me. The lady had enough and had practically yelled at me to stop talking since she can’t hear anything. I shut up after that and went on my phone... show more
    So i went to this senior graduation ceremony and i was sitting behind this lady. Ill admit I was talking loudly and I asked a bunch of questions to the person next to me. The lady had enough and had practically yelled at me to stop talking since she can’t hear anything. I shut up after that and went on my phone feeling humiliated...I was so embarrassed that i couldnt even talk for the rest of the ceremony. Was it my fault or should have the lady been more nicer about it?
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was my dentist flirting with me?

    I was at the orthodontist complaining about my loose retainer that I could take out with my tongue ..when I asked my orthodontist he just laughed and asked me if I knew any other tricks with my tongue..he also always laughs and leans in very close to my face and touches my arm..not to mention he is much friendlier... show more
    I was at the orthodontist complaining about my loose retainer that I could take out with my tongue ..when I asked my orthodontist he just laughed and asked me if I knew any other tricks with my tongue..he also always laughs and leans in very close to my face and touches my arm..not to mention he is much friendlier and more bubbly with me than the other patients..was this comment inappropriate or am I reading too deep into it?
    10 answers · 5 days ago
  • Co-Worker Enjoys Farting On Me?

    Best answer: start acting like you're into it, like, sexually. they'll either get uncomfortable and stop or they'll file a complaint against you and have to admit to HR that they're doing it on purpose. or fiction becomes reality and you enter into a beautiful relationship with a charming origin story to tell... show more
    Best answer: start acting like you're into it, like, sexually. they'll either get uncomfortable and stop or they'll file a complaint against you and have to admit to HR that they're doing it on purpose. or fiction becomes reality and you enter into a beautiful relationship with a charming origin story to tell the grandkids when they're over 18. there is literally no possible downside to this.
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • Married co worker asking for sexy pics?

    So I'm friendly and cordial to this co worker at work just like everyone I work with.He is married with 2 kids.He sometimes text me when he wants to exchange shifts etc. However,today he sent me a random pic of his dashboard in his car .Then he asked for one in return.This was during work hours in our break.I... show more
    So I'm friendly and cordial to this co worker at work just like everyone I work with.He is married with 2 kids.He sometimes text me when he wants to exchange shifts etc. However,today he sent me a random pic of his dashboard in his car .Then he asked for one in return.This was during work hours in our break.I sent him one .In return then he sent another one,this time it was his selfie.Then he asked for mine in return to which I sent it to him. After a while he sent another pic of himself and asked for mine but a sexy one this time.like in panties and bra I'm not intrested into turning this personal so how should I handle this?
    18 answers · 5 days ago
  • I need to tell my boss something but I have severe anxiety. Please help!!!!?

    Can someone please help me??? In a week I have to tell my boss that I’m coming back to work after time off ( I work at a daycare camp) he said it was fine if I take the time off and to let him know before I come back but I feel like I need to explain why I was gone (it was for some complications and surgery for a... show more
    Can someone please help me??? In a week I have to tell my boss that I’m coming back to work after time off ( I work at a daycare camp) he said it was fine if I take the time off and to let him know before I come back but I feel like I need to explain why I was gone (it was for some complications and surgery for a medical condition I have) and I know I’m not legally required to give away health information but I have this urge to tell him what happened. I just don’t know if it’s considered “too personal” to explain to him the procedures I had done and why i was away. Basically, I would like to tell my boss but it’s just so awkward to say “I had some life-threatening emergencies and spent weeks in the hospital, now I’m good to go back to work”. If you were my boss would you think of me as a complainer or that I was sharing too much information? And could someone please tell me what I could say???? It would help a bunch!!! Thanks
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Grieving boyfriend?

    My boyfriend lost one of his siblings last week and it had been really hard on him. I have tried my best to be there to support him and be there for him through this time. Over the past couple of days he has been really mean to me. We will be having a normal conversation then out of the blue he will make up... show more
    My boyfriend lost one of his siblings last week and it had been really hard on him. I have tried my best to be there to support him and be there for him through this time. Over the past couple of days he has been really mean to me. We will be having a normal conversation then out of the blue he will make up accusations of me “talking to someone else” telling me I’m “a waste of effort” and “life is too short to waste on people who don’t care” even after I literally give every second of my time, every bit of my energy and all of my love to him and I always have.. and especially right now. Then he will go back to pretending like nothing happened the next day. I understand he is going through a difficult time and I couldn’t imagine what he must be feeling. He is grieving and I will not fight back and just remind him I am here, that I love him and give him his space. Is this a normal part of the grieving process? Is there something I am doing wrong? Is there any other way I can help him or give him peace of mind?
    5 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why did he toy with me?

    Hi y'all, I talked to this gorgeous guy who wrote me everyday and never ghosted me. He sent me a lot of snaps. We didn't flirt much but I gave him a chance to take me out, he begged me even when I declined the first time. . However, he stood me up and would send me photos of what he was doing instead. I... show more
    Hi y'all, I talked to this gorgeous guy who wrote me everyday and never ghosted me. He sent me a lot of snaps. We didn't flirt much but I gave him a chance to take me out, he begged me even when I declined the first time. . However, he stood me up and would send me photos of what he was doing instead. I didn't understand why he did it. Did he want me to chase him? because I blocked him instead. I think it upset him and I'm confused as to why he would've done it then...was he trying to regain control because I declined the date the first time around and he wanted to see me get mad? I mean he did ask me if I was...
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • What will you do if you were in this situation? Pls help?

    I am really angry and disappointed. I met a guy who is the son of my mother's friend. Both his dad and mom passed away and he is around 53 I think and I am 31. He is married with kids. So his wife is not working and he would always tell me that he is interested in me and because I am working in office job he... show more
    I am really angry and disappointed. I met a guy who is the son of my mother's friend. Both his dad and mom passed away and he is around 53 I think and I am 31. He is married with kids. So his wife is not working and he would always tell me that he is interested in me and because I am working in office job he would like to be house husband and marry me. He said he is divorcing his wife because she is lazy. I was alarmed hearing his words and found him pathetic. To make long story short I have informed him I am sorry I can really chat with him through the phone anymore because I am busy with my new job and my daughter. From that day he stopped calling me. So this guy has 460 dollars of mine which I requested to transfer to my account. He said in 3 days I will, he never did in two weeks so I requested my mother to contact him and he didn't answer her call and he hang up at her phone. Anyways, we called his old uncle who he respects so he texts me today I don't have the money but I will send when I get money ( he is full time Uber driver works 12 hours and I know he has the money). I really need my money and I am single mother nobody supports me and I feel cheated. I am thinking of contacting his uncle requesting for the money, what would u do if you were in my place?
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • When is everything gonna be made in the USA again?

    Don't you miss back in the 1990s everything was made in the USA?
    Don't you miss back in the 1990s everything was made in the USA?
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it a red flag if he doesn't give me his number?

    We've been talking for 3 months and he finally asked me out but never gave me his number. We chat only on snapchat. He always msgs me and sends me snaps of himself...
    We've been talking for 3 months and he finally asked me out but never gave me his number. We chat only on snapchat. He always msgs me and sends me snaps of himself...
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • Boyfriend deciding to move away but I want to stay ??

    My boyfriend has decided to move away to another state since he has no family here and wants to find a job somewhere else. He currently has no job where he’s moving and no housing plan though I’m sure he’d just live with his parents until he figured something out. He wants me to go with him but I have a job and... show more
    My boyfriend has decided to move away to another state since he has no family here and wants to find a job somewhere else. He currently has no job where he’s moving and no housing plan though I’m sure he’d just live with his parents until he figured something out. He wants me to go with him but I have a job and responsibilities here to tend to here? Also I have no money to take a gamble on a move and with his lack of stability it makes me nervous. We love each other and have been dating for 2 years. But I don’t really want to move to the place his parents live. I’m pretty happy here with him and an working hard to move out on my own soon but I just can’t convince him to stay? He has his mind made up about moving and is convinced an LDR would work for us? But how would an LDR work if I don’t / can’t move to where he is?
    9 answers · 4 days ago