• I caught my husband pleasuring himself?

    I'm not sure what to do about this. I feel a little insulted and he is a little embarrassed. My husband was down in his work room a while ago fixing something - or so he claimed. I heard a grunt at one point so I just went to see if he was alright or something. When I walked in, he was sitting on a chair... show more
    I'm not sure what to do about this. I feel a little insulted and he is a little embarrassed. My husband was down in his work room a while ago fixing something - or so he claimed. I heard a grunt at one point so I just went to see if he was alright or something. When I walked in, he was sitting on a chair pleasuring himself to his Carrie Underwood poster on the wall. I don't mind that poster because I know he's a fan and always has her music playing. Yes she's talented, yes she's beautiful but I didn't know he was doing that kind of thing. He grabbed a kleenex and apologized but I left the room. How do I deal with knowing what he has been doing for who knows how long. He's got a concert DVD of her that I'm tempted to break.
    29 answers · 2 days ago
  • If we are still married but separated do I have a right to know where my children lay their heads?

    I am still married to the mother of my children. We live in seperate cities in Oregon. Her new boyfriend is not comfortable with me knowing where they live because he does not like me. My wife is also trying to dictate when I can see my children (one day a week).
    I am still married to the mother of my children. We live in seperate cities in Oregon. Her new boyfriend is not comfortable with me knowing where they live because he does not like me. My wife is also trying to dictate when I can see my children (one day a week).
    16 answers · 17 hours ago
  • I need a non biased opinion.?

    If your husband challenges you to prove he s cheating what does that mean?
    If your husband challenges you to prove he s cheating what does that mean?
    16 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Husband gets mad when I cook for a friend. Is he right ?

    I love cooking it’s a passion for me and my husband knows that so occasionally (like ones a month ) I will cook a meal and take it out to my bestfriend ( a female ) but whenever I do that my husband goes furious and says I’m disrespecting our house because it’s OUR kitchen and I shouldn’t be cooking for anyone else... show more
    I love cooking it’s a passion for me and my husband knows that so occasionally (like ones a month ) I will cook a meal and take it out to my bestfriend ( a female ) but whenever I do that my husband goes furious and says I’m disrespecting our house because it’s OUR kitchen and I shouldn’t be cooking for anyone else I’m it. We always fall out about it because I don’t think it’s wrong to cook for a friend in my kitchen at home.
    35 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do i catch a cheating husband?

    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • Older husband?

    My husband is 24 years older than me. I’m 25 he is 49. I’m starting to feel unhappy and feel more acted to younger guys. Is this normal?
    My husband is 24 years older than me. I’m 25 he is 49. I’m starting to feel unhappy and feel more acted to younger guys. Is this normal?
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • What's a nice way to tell your wife that you like her to look pretty without making her think that you only care for her body?

    And without being controling?
    And without being controling?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • I needed my husbands signature to get us a new apartment for us and the kids, he didn't do it, now he's sorry, should I divorce?

    We are in a family shelter, so getting out is more important than anything. So after being there for over 1 and 1/2 years I finally found us the solution to moving out. He was supposed to come to appointments and bring paystubs documents but he never did it, so that lead to us missing out. He has his own personal... show more
    We are in a family shelter, so getting out is more important than anything. So after being there for over 1 and 1/2 years I finally found us the solution to moving out. He was supposed to come to appointments and bring paystubs documents but he never did it, so that lead to us missing out. He has his own personal reason he said he didn't do it, but now he's doing everything in his power to fix it, but it's like we have to start the process over. And it's a headache. I feel he didn't want to do it because he was tired of the relationship, but now I'm pregnant he's so nice. And wants to fix things. Should I just move on Without him? A baby is not a reason to stay and be nice to me. Can I forgive him after he let us down and we are still in the shelter. I feel he should have don't it the first time around.
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • I’m turning 28 and am unmarried?

    I’m not meeting anyone in real life and I’m trying to meet people on apps but people I’m liking that I’m attracted too don’t swipe back on me. I don’t know what to do about it. Also my mom told me she wants me to get married this year. According to her culture I’m supposed to be married with kids already at 28 I... show more
    I’m not meeting anyone in real life and I’m trying to meet people on apps but people I’m liking that I’m attracted too don’t swipe back on me. I don’t know what to do about it. Also my mom told me she wants me to get married this year. According to her culture I’m supposed to be married with kids already at 28 I don’t know what to do
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • My husband said I was just a warm mouth to him! I really need advice!?

    my husband and I had an argument Sunday night after attending a friends birthday He had been drinking and I was sober. Our argument started after he got jealous because I had been laughing and talking to the bartender whenever I ordered drinks, this continue when we got home. I told him he was acting like a jerk... show more
    my husband and I had an argument Sunday night after attending a friends birthday He had been drinking and I was sober. Our argument started after he got jealous because I had been laughing and talking to the bartender whenever I ordered drinks, this continue when we got home. I told him he was acting like a jerk and that he mustn't really love or trust me to which he just coldly replied saying that I was nothing but a warm mouth to him. I was absolutely shocked that he said that to me, I slapped him and left to stay with my friend. He has tried calling and seeing me but I'm refusing because u really don't know what to say to him and how to deal with what he said. We are married 2yrs and together 6, I am so hurt by his words. How do I handle this,I need some outside advice. Thanks
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Husband said I was just a warm mouth to him! I really need advice!?

    my husband and I had an argument Sunday night after attending a friends birthday He had been drinking and I was sober. Our argument started after he got jealous because I had been laughing and talking to the bartender whenever I ordered drinks, this continue when we got home. I told him he was acting like a jerk... show more
    my husband and I had an argument Sunday night after attending a friends birthday He had been drinking and I was sober. Our argument started after he got jealous because I had been laughing and talking to the bartender whenever I ordered drinks, this continue when we got home. I told him he was acting like a jerk and that he mustn't really love or trust me to which he just coldly replied saying that I was nothing but a warm mouth to him. I was absolutely shocked that he said that to me, I slapped him and left to stay with my friend. He has tried calling and seeing me but I'm refusing because u really don't know what to say to him and how to deal with what he said. We are married 2yrs and together 6, I am so hurt by his words. How do I handle this,I need some outside advice. Thanks.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • My husband and I never spend quality time together. What should I do?

    I know it's way too late to be realizing this, but we really don't have enough in common. His ideal day is sitting at home playing World of Warcraft; my ideal day would consist of snow skiing, rock climbing, and long boarding. When we first started dating, we tried so hard to participate in each others'... show more
    I know it's way too late to be realizing this, but we really don't have enough in common. His ideal day is sitting at home playing World of Warcraft; my ideal day would consist of snow skiing, rock climbing, and long boarding. When we first started dating, we tried so hard to participate in each others' lives because we liked each other that much. I'd sit and play video games with him, and he'd come camping and long boarding with me. This went on for a few years, then as we got settled into our new marriage, he started to admit he didn't really like being outside. I tried to be cool with this; I'd ski during the day by myself and cuddle on the couch watching movies with him at night. I thought it was all fine until we started hanging out with one of his friends from work, which has evolved into said friend and I spending a lot of time together one-on-one because we were both active, but lonely. He's a skier, he climbs, and UGH, he is so beautiful. I'm crushing on him SO hard and I absolutely hate myself for it. I'm constantly frustrated, and it's leaking out as unexplained anger toward my husband. I still love my husband very much, and this situation has caused me to reflect on our relationship and what about it could be wrong to the point I'm craving this other dude's attention over his. I've come to the conclusion that I feel like he just isn't a big enough part of my life anymore because he doesn't want any part in how I prefer to spend my time. What should I do? :(
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • What can I do to get my girlfriend to be more feminine?

    Over this past year, my girlfriend has opted for a more masculine look. Her attire is more masculine, she cut her hair shorter, ditched contact lenses, and started keeping her nails shorter. She was quite feminine prior to last year. Honestly, it's making me less attracted to her, to the point where I... show more
    Over this past year, my girlfriend has opted for a more masculine look. Her attire is more masculine, she cut her hair shorter, ditched contact lenses, and started keeping her nails shorter. She was quite feminine prior to last year. Honestly, it's making me less attracted to her, to the point where I can't get hard. We're in our mid 30s, and we've been dating for 3 years. Our relationship is otherwise great, so I really don't plan to end the relationship because of this. I also don't intend to tell her how to manage her body. That's not right. But I also can't control what I am and am not attracted to. What can I do here?
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • Would you let your husband date your best friend after you die?

    I don't want my husband to date, kiss or sex my best friend when I die. Why? because I know he would like it too much and forget about me.
    I don't want my husband to date, kiss or sex my best friend when I die. Why? because I know he would like it too much and forget about me.
    36 answers · 6 days ago
  • My estranged wife filed for divorce. We have been estranged 12 years. Is it normal I still feel sad she has done this?

    Best answer: It's not abnormal to feel sad when something ends for good,, even if it was actually 'over' long ago. As long as you two remained married, there was the chance (no matter how slim) that you might reconcile. You were still (legally) part of each other's lives. Although it's a bit odd (and risky)... show more
    Best answer: It's not abnormal to feel sad when something ends for good,, even if it was actually 'over' long ago. As long as you two remained married, there was the chance (no matter how slim) that you might reconcile. You were still (legally) part of each other's lives. Although it's a bit odd (and risky) that you two chose to remain married-but-apart for over a decade, the divorce gives the situation a finality it didn't have before. Ideally you should have been emotionally over it many years ago, but that doesn't mean you might not feel a little sad or melancholy now, regardless.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is my husband always running to help this single, emotionally unstable, needy female friend of his??

    We've been married 28 years. I am independent, financially stable and mature. I am not needy, clingy, crazy, helpless and dependent on others. This woman seems to rely on my husband being her hero! And be seems to love to be the one to rescue her! Why would any sane man even involve himself with such a mess... show more
    We've been married 28 years. I am independent, financially stable and mature. I am not needy, clingy, crazy, helpless and dependent on others. This woman seems to rely on my husband being her hero! And be seems to love to be the one to rescue her! Why would any sane man even involve himself with such a mess of a woman? When he has a stable and responsible wife???
    12 answers · 3 days ago