• After having sex for the first time with the guy I am talking to...who should text first, the guy or me ?

    I’m interested and seeing how this guys day is going but I feel as though I should wait till he reaches out...thoughts ?
    I’m interested and seeing how this guys day is going but I feel as though I should wait till he reaches out...thoughts ?
    22 answers · Singles & Dating · 21 hours ago
  • Is it ever okay to cheat when your being neglected?

    So I know the obvious answer is no but I don't know how to handle this situation. My husbands and my relationship somewhere down the line became a business arrangement. Divorcing would be complicated at best and without us having children, I'd be taking a chance of losing my home. He's threatened to... show more
    So I know the obvious answer is no but I don't know how to handle this situation. My husbands and my relationship somewhere down the line became a business arrangement. Divorcing would be complicated at best and without us having children, I'd be taking a chance of losing my home. He's threatened to basically stalk me if I ever try to leave, he'd never leave me alone and I believe he loves me but I'm miserable. I'm completely sexually unsatisfied due to his lack of effort and his attitude keeps me anxious all the time just waiting for the next time he flips for no reason. My best guy friend and I use to have sex all the time and of course haven't since I've been with my husband but the opportunity did present itself again recently. I've asked for an open marriage but he refused. Question is, if you thought you might could be happier with your husband if you were getting what he wouldn't give you from somewhere else and no one would ever know, for sure. Would it ever be acceptable? I will add that my husband cheated on me 2 years ago and our sex life hasn't been good in about 4 years. I'm not the person who would usually ask such a stupid question but I don't really have a way out of my marriage right now and I really need some intimacy, I've begged my husband and even begged to go to counseling but he refuses. He isn't going to work on it but I can't leave him right now no matter what I want. I know my secrets safe with my bff and no one would have to get hurt...
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 18 hours ago
  • How to be happy being a loner?

    15 answers · Friends · 3 hours ago
  • Can my parents forbid me from having sex?

    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    Best answer: No your parents can not stop you , you are at the age we’re you can make up your own mind .
    58 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Did you have a religious marriage?

    My fiance and I are planning our wedding and her parents are refusing to come unless it is in a Catholic Church. She is technically Catholic, but not a practicing one. I absolutely abhor the Catholic Church, I honestly believe it is one of the worst institutions mankind has ever created. The wedding should always... show more
    My fiance and I are planning our wedding and her parents are refusing to come unless it is in a Catholic Church. She is technically Catholic, but not a practicing one. I absolutely abhor the Catholic Church, I honestly believe it is one of the worst institutions mankind has ever created. The wedding should always be about the bride but I don't feel comfortable lying about commitments to God that I do not intend to keep. All my commitments are to her. Should I put my foot down and say no to a wedding in a Catholic Church or just play along?
    41 answers · Weddings · 2 days ago
  • Stormed out of parents house?

    So I’m 16 years old, and lost my patience with my parents (don’t wanna get into it) I took some money,phone,charger and packed some spare clothes and Just walked right out. So what now? I know eventually I will come back, but what do I do now? I have a job as a waitress, so I kind of earn money? I don’t have much... show more
    So I’m 16 years old, and lost my patience with my parents (don’t wanna get into it) I took some money,phone,charger and packed some spare clothes and Just walked right out. So what now? I know eventually I will come back, but what do I do now? I have a job as a waitress, so I kind of earn money? I don’t have much money, and I know in a couple of days i’ll Come back, but for now I don’t want to see their faces. Should I stay at a cheap hotel? Where are the cheapest hotels in central London? What do I for the days where I’m not with them lol
    10 answers · Family · 6 hours ago
  • Im not interested in being social with people?

    95 percent of the time, I prefer to be alone. Others try to talk to me when I am not interested. I dont like to be asked many questions. I just love to stay to myself like a one man army. Why am I like this? What should I do?
    95 percent of the time, I prefer to be alone. Others try to talk to me when I am not interested. I dont like to be asked many questions. I just love to stay to myself like a one man army. Why am I like this? What should I do?
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 hours ago
  • What are you living for?

    28 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Why did it take boyfriend awhile to text me back?

    Best answer: those are the answers that we DONT KNOW, there is no way for us to know why, ask him directly, trust me you don't want to speculate because you could get the wrong idea easily.
    Best answer: those are the answers that we DONT KNOW, there is no way for us to know why, ask him directly, trust me you don't want to speculate because you could get the wrong idea easily.
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 hours ago
  • Found someone better, should I dump girlfriend?

    Best answer: I think your current girlfriend is upset that you're seeing this other girl without her knowing much about what's going on. I mean you're technically not cheating, but please let both your current girlfriend and this new girl know of your intentions before it becomes a problem. Just be honest when... show more
    Best answer: I think your current girlfriend is upset that you're seeing this other girl without her knowing much about what's going on. I mean you're technically not cheating, but please let both your current girlfriend and this new girl know of your intentions before it becomes a problem. Just be honest when talking to the both of them, but also be genuine about it and don't leave it on a bad note.

    I think if you're only going to be in a temporary relationship with this new girl just because your current girlfriend is stressing over her life/career tho, then I suggest you stay with your current girlfriend but you guys can just take a break if that's what both of you want. It should be fine if you hang out with this other girl as long as your current girlfriend knows that you two are just friends and nothing more.

    Just don't take it too far cause then you'll just be cheating on your current girlfriend. There is a certain degree of risk with whatever you're trying to do so just break up with your current girlfriend if you have to and rethink your decision.

    These are a few things you can consider as to whether you should dump your girlfriend or not. Whatever you do, however, don't start cheating on your girlfriend or lie about your true intentions because it won't end on good terms if either of them find out.
    42 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Would you tell your husband/partner about private talks you have a with a friend (of the same sex)?

    Would you tell your husband or partner about those private conversations and what your friend tells you in confidence? In my situation it’s about her not feeling good enough and struggling with confidence/self esteem very private stuff. She has only ever really opened up to me but wants it kept between only us. we... show more
    Would you tell your husband or partner about those private conversations and what your friend tells you in confidence? In my situation it’s about her not feeling good enough and struggling with confidence/self esteem very private stuff. She has only ever really opened up to me but wants it kept between only us. we are both girls. Should I tell my family
    28 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • How to get a guy to love you?

    Best answer: Turn that frown upside down, like your question here, cause the right guy will be like a puppy at your feet. He will will smile and be pleasing! Happiness will enter your life. Be praying for him now and have faith because God has a good plan for your life!
    Best answer: Turn that frown upside down, like your question here, cause the right guy will be like a puppy at your feet. He will will smile and be pleasing! Happiness will enter your life. Be praying for him now and have faith because God has a good plan for your life!
    35 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • What should I do....im so angry? My lover...is crazy?

    I met a man in the same boat as me...we were both unhappy....he didn't love his so called female friend living with him....and I git away from an abusive soon to be ex husband......so after a year we became lovers and he would come over my place almost everyday. Dated fir a yr and All of a sudden he goes on a... show more
    I met a man in the same boat as me...we were both unhappy....he didn't love his so called female friend living with him....and I git away from an abusive soon to be ex husband......so after a year we became lovers and he would come over my place almost everyday. Dated fir a yr and All of a sudden he goes on a tip to CA with her.....i was angry...i stopped calling him After three months of no contact he tells me that he thought he would never see me again and was almost in tears. Then we met up somewhere and one thing led to another. My feelings are deep for him and I don't know what it is he is so sttractive....he is like 58 but I'm 39. The female friend that lives with him is 57. I honestly thought he would love me but no after two years no. He hasn't let her go just recently he went his uncle bday and pics surfaced on social media of them together. She hit all close to my lover/man. I asked him about it and he said a picture is nothing and he didn't post it and how was I able to see it. It doesnt show the real situation between us. I like whatever. I wish I had a pic of me and another man that would piss him off. I'm upset and don't know what to do. I mean we never met each other families we were just lovers
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 21 hours ago
  • Should I apologize to his family for dumping him?

    I know it sounds stupid, but I am breaking up with my so of 5 1/2 years tonight after I get off work. I have come to love his dad and step-mom, his half siblings and niece. They even told me to get rid of him as he is a complete slacker going no where, just like his mother. There is more to it than that but would... show more
    I know it sounds stupid, but I am breaking up with my so of 5 1/2 years tonight after I get off work. I have come to love his dad and step-mom, his half siblings and niece. They even told me to get rid of him as he is a complete slacker going no where, just like his mother. There is more to it than that but would take to long. Anyway I feel like I owe them an explanation after I dump him. They have been my family since my mom and granny died last year.
    22 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • I know this question is weird... But is that normal for a 55 years old man so addicted to porn? Help me im so confused:"""(?

    Ok so yesterday i found a porn im my dad s gallery He is 55 years old(and that why im trigered af) my dad always telling me not to watch a porn but he himself did it:") He have a healty wife wich is my mother my mom is really healthy and ready to be ****** anytime Please help me im confused:"")
    Ok so yesterday i found a porn im my dad s gallery He is 55 years old(and that why im trigered af) my dad always telling me not to watch a porn but he himself did it:") He have a healty wife wich is my mother my mom is really healthy and ready to be ****** anytime Please help me im confused:"")
    17 answers · Family · 12 hours ago
  • Is it wrong that I don’t want my fiance’s Daughter at the wedding?

    I get that she’s his child, but shes so much hard work. She’s 14 years old. I put up with it because I love him and I get that she’s always going to be in his life. She constantly tells me that she doesn’t want me to be with her dad or apart of her life, but when her dad’s around she’s as nice as pie. Both her and... show more
    I get that she’s his child, but shes so much hard work. She’s 14 years old. I put up with it because I love him and I get that she’s always going to be in his life. She constantly tells me that she doesn’t want me to be with her dad or apart of her life, but when her dad’s around she’s as nice as pie. Both her and my fiance are strict vegans, but I have persuaded him to have meat at the wedding for our none vegan guests. Yet I know she’ll sit there, making faces that other people are eating meat around her, making the whole thing about her and her beliefs. The wedding originally fell on a weekend where he wouldn’t have her, but he and his ex already arranged to swap weekends so she can attend. I’m having to her as a bridesmaid, but I didn’t want her as one as I was only planning having one in my sister. She doesn’t even want to be a bridesmaid, all she does it complain about it. She doesn’t like the dress I’ve chosen and keeps asking to have a shawl or sleeves as it has thin straps and she feels “exposed” in it. She’s just nitpicking as there’s nothing wrong with it. I do feel like I’m always playing second best to her. We were on holiday last month, and he left half way through because she’d been knocked off her bike and was in hospital for a couple days. He didn’ even consult me, he just called his ex, asked how she was and then informed her that he was coming home. We only had 2 days of our holiday left, she had her mum with her, it could have waited.
    16 answers · Weddings · 8 hours ago