• My girlfriend left me for another guy and now wants me back?

    Best answer: She broke up with you because she wanted to be with that guy. At the time the four years you were together and the love you had for her didn't matter to her. All that matter to her was that guy. So, it didn't work out with that guy. He probably didn't want to have anything to do with her. But now she... show more
    Best answer: She broke up with you because she wanted to be with that guy. At the time the four years you were together and the love you had for her didn't matter to her. All that matter to her was that guy. So, it didn't work out with that guy. He probably didn't want to have anything to do with her. But now she turns back to you, pouring her heart out with apologies. Did she care when she ripped your heart when she broke up with you? No, she didn't. So, why should you care about how she feels today. If she could do that to you after being with you for four years then she will do it again. Are you willing to risk it and get your heart broken again? I can understand that you still have feelings for her. But she cannot be trusted. And if you get back with her then every day you will wonder if she is going to leave you again. You need to keep in mind that when she broke up with you was because she didn't love you anymore and had given her heart to that other guy. Find someone that you can love and trust.
    29 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Am i being a bad friend?

    My friend asked me if I could give her 200 dollars to go to Mexico. she claims she will pay me back and she says she really wants to go but she has to pay her car insurance. My birthday is in 2 weeks and I’m going to Paris. I really don’t like loaning people money plus my birthday is coming up. Am I being a bad friend.
    My friend asked me if I could give her 200 dollars to go to Mexico. she claims she will pay me back and she says she really wants to go but she has to pay her car insurance. My birthday is in 2 weeks and I’m going to Paris. I really don’t like loaning people money plus my birthday is coming up. Am I being a bad friend.
    31 answers · Friends · 20 hours ago
  • How do I cope with another man raising and putting his hands on my baby son?

    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what... show more
    Best answer: It's sad that she would want to move far away. How can you play your role as his dad if she does that? She is so selfish. Her first priority is your son. Your son needs his father to be there for him. And not her boyfriend. I think that you need to get in touch with a lawyer asap. Your lawyer will tell you what you need to do.
    27 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • So desperate for a relationship - I can't lock one in?

    I want to be in a relationship so much. I am a chronic dater. On my free time I go on dates. Some times it's three in one day. Then I find someone I like. We go on a few dates. I lose interest or they lose interest. It's a constant cycle. My feelings get hurt when I like someone more than they liked me. I... show more
    I want to be in a relationship so much. I am a chronic dater. On my free time I go on dates. Some times it's three in one day. Then I find someone I like. We go on a few dates. I lose interest or they lose interest. It's a constant cycle. My feelings get hurt when I like someone more than they liked me. I feel sad and exhuasted over the time and effort I put in. I'm sure it goes the same way for a man when I'm not interested. My goal is to be in a loving relationship with a compatible partner. I have tried dating apps. Meeting people out. I have no shortage of men trying to get a date with me. It is hundreds of offers a week. I have too many options. I have a big social media account with random dudes following me because of my appearance.. 😩😩 I get hit on in the shops... I can't find the one. I feel my standards are quite reasonable. I'm looking for a connection. I'll date men who earn less. Who are overweight. I'm sad now because I was dating a guy for the last month and it has been blissful. He stopped calling yesterday. I invested so much of me. I can't stand this feeling of being hurt.. but I don't want to be single any more. Note: I read all of the dating articles. Don't have sex until many dates in. Don't call or text too much. Arghh... it's so much work Help. More advice is needed. I don't want to be lonely.
    41 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Why my boyfriend doesn't want to get married?

    Best answer: Simple, he is happy with the relationship as itis and is not willing to make a commitment or involve himself any further than he already has. You need to dump him and find a real man who is looking for a bride. As you get older, the umber of available good husbands shrinks . Stop wasting your time with a guy... show more
    Best answer: Simple, he is happy with the relationship as itis and is not willing to make a commitment or involve himself any further than he already has. You need to dump him and find a real man who is looking for a bride.

    As you get older, the umber of available good husbands shrinks . Stop wasting your time with a guy who does not want to get married.

    My wife and I were casual friends for a couple of years before we dated. But I knew on that first date that this was the lady I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. We were married less than three months later and the total number of our children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren now is over 44.
    53 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • How to do I tell someone we are not actually friends?

    I got speaking to someone at work someone who is a bit of a loner. We got to know each other a bit, We exchanged gifts at christmas, however I was fairly new to the company didn t know anyone and they was someone to talk to. Now I ve got to know people this person I ve tried talking less and less to but they always... show more
    I got speaking to someone at work someone who is a bit of a loner. We got to know each other a bit, We exchanged gifts at christmas, however I was fairly new to the company didn t know anyone and they was someone to talk to. Now I ve got to know people this person I ve tried talking less and less to but they always stop as they pass and say Hi and chat about things. Now to make things worse they have said round the office that "They ve never had a friend before" and they were really happy. This person hasn t done anything wrong, they are an amazing person, just my partner wouldn t like me having them as a friend. How do I break it to this person we aren t friends, just work colleagues? Without totally destroying their world. They have come out of their shell a lot more. or am I just on a path to destroy their world? or would it best to let them have the illusion that they have a friend?
    14 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • My wife wants me to choose, her or my mother, who do I pick?

    Best answer: Neither. Its not your fight, its theirs. Don't allow yourself to get sucked into it. Give your Dad a call, and apologize for not knowing better.
    Best answer: Neither. Its not your fight, its theirs. Don't allow yourself to get sucked into it. Give your Dad a call, and apologize for not knowing better.
    25 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • My crush/ex friend told the counselor on me?

    So I was obsessed with this guy and I’d always spam text him for almost 2 years and make fake numbers to text when s blocked me and told him I’m bisexual and want to smell his farts and stuff bc fetish and he told the counselor on me bc of harassment and I’m scared their going to tell my parents!!!!
    So I was obsessed with this guy and I’d always spam text him for almost 2 years and make fake numbers to text when s blocked me and told him I’m bisexual and want to smell his farts and stuff bc fetish and he told the counselor on me bc of harassment and I’m scared their going to tell my parents!!!!
    8 answers · Friends · 13 hours ago
  • Is this cheating?

    If I shag my ex one last time before I get married? I’m planning on meeting him for one more night after my hen do. I haven’t seen him for nearly 10 years but he was the best sex I ever had and he would definitely be up for it again. Is it really cheating if it’s just one time and I’m not married yet?
    If I shag my ex one last time before I get married? I’m planning on meeting him for one more night after my hen do. I haven’t seen him for nearly 10 years but he was the best sex I ever had and he would definitely be up for it again. Is it really cheating if it’s just one time and I’m not married yet?
    27 answers · Weddings · 2 days ago
  • How should reply to this girl?

    Best answer: You should definitely text her back! If your texting a girl and she makes her words longer she likes u in most cases for example " thank youuuuuu" but you should definitely text her back. I think she is interested in u bud! :)
    Best answer: You should definitely text her back! If your texting a girl and she makes her words longer she likes u in most cases for example " thank youuuuuu" but you should definitely text her back. I think she is interested in u bud! :)
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 18 hours ago
  • How do I get my friend to stop being a horny internet slut?

    I have an app called whisper and my friend got the app and post nothing but selfies and sexual hints trying to attract pedophiles to have fun with her. She only just realized I could see them after I replied and said to "stop whoring around please, I don't need to see this" she said she wouldn't... show more
    I have an app called whisper and my friend got the app and post nothing but selfies and sexual hints trying to attract pedophiles to have fun with her. She only just realized I could see them after I replied and said to "stop whoring around please, I don't need to see this" she said she wouldn't do it again but now it's getting worse, I won't tell her parents though as she trusts me and she has very strict southern parents who aren't afraid to whoop her ass. Help me convince her please sick of seeing it in my news feed. She is also underaged.
    12 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Husband spent money we saved on something stupid and wont admit he is WRONG?

    My husband is a middle-aged man but acts like a child (it has become worse lately). We have kids, and a house. My family paid cash for the house and he agreed to pay a mortgage + taxes. He has not paid in a year. I have to make a payment plan for them because he spent the money we had on music equipment (is in a... show more
    My husband is a middle-aged man but acts like a child (it has become worse lately). We have kids, and a house. My family paid cash for the house and he agreed to pay a mortgage + taxes. He has not paid in a year. I have to make a payment plan for them because he spent the money we had on music equipment (is in a band) and cigarettes (he refuses to admit how many packs he smokes a week). He made $100 playing a gig yesterday and said he was depositing it for our taxes (which are due asap). Instead, he lied and kept the cash in his wallet and spent it on a vapor cigarette which he claimed he "needed and has has 0 risks". I had to apply for food stamps to feed my kids which is against my morals. He said "he has no regrets about that and that NO WOMAN will tell him how to spend HIS money and I am TRYING TO CONTROL HIM AND HIS MONEY AND UNTIL I CAN ADMIT I am controlling and overbearing, he has nothing to say to me and that there was nothing wrong with this overpriced/unnecessary purchase", What is right here? I am disabled and trying to support my kids and pay bills, and he is stealing acting like a child.
    11 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • My mom is hitting my sister up for money, should I tell our dad?

    So just a little background, we’ve had highs and lows in our family and we’ve had times as kids where our parents borrowed money from us for gas, food, ect. (Birthday + Christmas money) now however we are doing much better, my dad has a good paying job, he spends wisely, and we aren’t rich or well off but we are... show more
    So just a little background, we’ve had highs and lows in our family and we’ve had times as kids where our parents borrowed money from us for gas, food, ect. (Birthday + Christmas money) now however we are doing much better, my dad has a good paying job, he spends wisely, and we aren’t rich or well off but we are doing a lot better than before (my point is there is no need for my mom to bum money off of my 13 year old sister) well my grandparents and aunt also just sent a substantial amount of birthday and Christmas money and my mom isn’t going on shopping sprees, there’s no obvious thing that points to where all this money is going. She’s a teacher and earns that way, my parents split the bills, my dad pays for things if my older brother and I need anything (gas, food, ect.) she does have an alcohol problem but as in drinking beer at home and wine, she drinks a lot however she has the kids wit her all the time so I feel like we would be able to see if she was buying so much alcohol that she’s asking my sister for gas money. I mean my dad could give her gas money, he usually does. Unless she’s hiding something, I don’t know if I should tell my dad or not. What’s your opinion? Thanks!
    6 answers · Family · 21 hours ago
  • Should I get mad that my Boyfriend watches porn?

    I looked on my boyfriends search history and saw that he had been watching porn. We have had this talk before and he knows that it bothers me but he still does it. We have a very active sex life but when he does it it just makes me feel like I have to compare to what he’s watching & my body isn’t as good as the... show more
    I looked on my boyfriends search history and saw that he had been watching porn. We have had this talk before and he knows that it bothers me but he still does it. We have a very active sex life but when he does it it just makes me feel like I have to compare to what he’s watching & my body isn’t as good as the girls he watches it just makes me feel insecure. Should I be mad? Or is it normal
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • How do I give good head to my boyfriend?

    I am not so experienced in this field and I know I totally suck at it. Bless his heart for being so nice about it. I really want to be able to pleasure him though. How can I do better?
    I am not so experienced in this field and I know I totally suck at it. Bless his heart for being so nice about it. I really want to be able to pleasure him though. How can I do better?
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago