• How to cope with a disrespectful coworker?

    Over the course of two years I've worked my way up from a dishwasher to a prep cook in the restaurant I work in. One of my coworkers was at some point my close friend and was the one who convinced me to ask about switching positions in the first place. After a spiraling downfall of her coming in in one bad mood... show more
    Over the course of two years I've worked my way up from a dishwasher to a prep cook in the restaurant I work in. One of my coworkers was at some point my close friend and was the one who convinced me to ask about switching positions in the first place. After a spiraling downfall of her coming in in one bad mood after another and taking it out on me, I had had enough and I spoke to my boss about the condescending disrescpet I was greeted with every evening. He had a talk with her and now she has not spoken to me in months. She will not communicate with me for work purposes, she rolls her eyes and scoffs at me whenever I walk by her or I'm within he right, she has attempted to hit me by kicking trash cans in my direction as I'm walking down the hall, she's even referred to me as "f*cking idiot" when I accidentally hit her with the revolving restaurant doors as she was walking in and I was walking out. I will be the first to admit that I am sensitive and I hate confrontation. I have tried to be very passive about the whole situation. I still try to treat her with the same respect and fairness that I give to my coworkers, but she's really starting to wear me down.
    8 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Is it rude for a customer to arrive at a store to go shopping within minutes of closing?

    Best answer: Not at all. If the shop is open, it should be accepting customers. The shop can announce that it will be closing in five minutes and advise all shoppers to make their purchases by then and refuse to accept payments for anything once the till has been closed. The shop does not have to stay open just because there... show more
    Best answer: Not at all. If the shop is open, it should be accepting customers. The shop can announce that it will be closing in five minutes and advise all shoppers to make their purchases by then and refuse to accept payments for anything once the till has been closed. The shop does not have to stay open just because there are customers in the shop. If the customer is known to the management, however, and likely to spend a lot of money, then the shop will stay open a little longer but the staff are entitled to overtime.
    16 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it appropriate to have my pajamas on when I have company over?

    I know it is inappropriate if I wore my underwear or if I was naked when I had guests over but what if I am in my pajamas and just getting out of bed and have my pajamas on while meeting with a client or having company over whether they are my friends or not. Is this appropriate
    I know it is inappropriate if I wore my underwear or if I was naked when I had guests over but what if I am in my pajamas and just getting out of bed and have my pajamas on while meeting with a client or having company over whether they are my friends or not. Is this appropriate
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • Who thinks it's rude for a cashier or associate to just say "ok buh bye" when you say "thank you"?

    This happened to me when I was registering and paying for a class at the college front office. If a customer says "thank you" and the worker who helped the customer just says "ok buh bye" it seems like they're saying "alright whatever, just leave" I just feel they should at least... show more
    This happened to me when I was registering and paying for a class at the college front office. If a customer says "thank you" and the worker who helped the customer just says "ok buh bye" it seems like they're saying "alright whatever, just leave" I just feel they should at least throw in a "Thank YOU" or "You're welcome" and/or even "have a good day" when the customer is not only being polite but is also making their job possible and making contribution to their paycheck(s). Thoughts?
    8 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Is it normal that I am 21 and would rather not be drunk ?

    I am more of a stoner. When I am stoned I am still in control of my own actions. When I get drunk I stumble around,knock things over, and get emotional.
    I am more of a stoner. When I am stoned I am still in control of my own actions. When I get drunk I stumble around,knock things over, and get emotional.
    8 answers · 13 hours ago
  • This goth chick cut in line at the checkout of the grocery store to get cash?

    Best answer: Yes, you should ignore it. Don't waste your emotional energy on stuff like this unless you want to be like one of those sad people on daytime TV creating a drama of their life by pointlessly escalating some petty feud. Put your time and energy into something more productive instead like studying, sports, or a... show more
    Best answer: Yes, you should ignore it.

    Don't waste your emotional energy on stuff like this unless you want to be like one of those sad people on daytime TV creating a drama of their life by pointlessly escalating some petty feud.

    Put your time and energy into something more productive instead like studying, sports, or a hobby and you'll have a happier life.
    8 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Why do some drs and nurses have such bad people skills and are rude?

    Best answer: Because they are human beings. There are a whole host of reasons why a doctor or nurse may be in a bad mood. Like everyone else they, too, can find it challenging to paint a smile on their faces and be polite with everyone. Try politely challenging it. Do not accept it and ask why they are being rude to you.
    Best answer: Because they are human beings. There are a whole host of reasons why a doctor or nurse may be in a bad mood. Like everyone else they, too, can find it challenging to paint a smile on their faces and be polite with everyone. Try politely challenging it. Do not accept it and ask why they are being rude to you.
    22 answers · 5 days ago
  • If you made an effort & sent your sister who lives interstate.. a birthday card & small gift on her b’day in Jan & she just sent you a card?

    Best answer: There could be a hundred reasons for this. She might be broke. She might not know what to get you. She might be overwhelmed, or depressed, or... or... or.

    If you're going to make this an even exchange, don't bother. Gift giving isn't about what you get back. It's about showing you care.
    Best answer: There could be a hundred reasons for this. She might be broke. She might not know what to get you. She might be overwhelmed, or depressed, or... or... or.

    If you're going to make this an even exchange, don't bother. Gift giving isn't about what you get back. It's about showing you care.
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Uk) was his insulting meaning I’m ugly?

    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling at me and looked me down at my side/arm idk when I looked at her, (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too... show more
    I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling at me and looked me down at my side/arm idk when I looked at her, (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had a one or two layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard noises (wasn't laughing I think) a while later I was standing at the gantry and 2 of them were ordering at the bar, on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the other girl) on her own walking back to her table and when I looked over she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth, I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them regardless, I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me, (I think they were) later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. but were they putting me down/making fun of me? Im in the UK btw This is me if it helps:, https://imgur.com/a/mmlqB (4 photos)
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Best friends girl always includes herself in what was going to be a guys night, should I say something?

    I m good friends with both of them but this is getting annoying. Like tomorrow we re going to a Mets game we ve had planned for a week that she couldn t go to because she had to work. Well, today shes all "Guess what, I told them I can t work so I m going" Uh, wtf? Stuff like this happens all the time,... show more
    I m good friends with both of them but this is getting annoying. Like tomorrow we re going to a Mets game we ve had planned for a week that she couldn t go to because she had to work. Well, today shes all "Guess what, I told them I can t work so I m going" Uh, wtf? Stuff like this happens all the time, she ll say she doesn t want to hang out with him tonight, then I ll come over and she ll say "Actually I changed my mind, I m coming over" Its like shes jealous or something. Should I say something and risk pissing them off or leave well enough alone?
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why is it rude for me to ignore a personal question asked by a coworker who bullies and harasses me all the time?

    One moment he screams at me for some stupid reason and next moment asks a personal question as if nothing happened. Isn't it confusing? this guy always twists facts around, lies and spreads rumors against me. isn't it obvious you want to stay away from this person?
    One moment he screams at me for some stupid reason and next moment asks a personal question as if nothing happened. Isn't it confusing? this guy always twists facts around, lies and spreads rumors against me. isn't it obvious you want to stay away from this person?
    5 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Is rudeness respected more than politeness and manners?

    Best answer: All things being equal, courtesy always wins in the end. Between two guys of equal talent, if one is arrogant and the other polite, I know which one I'm going to keep when we have to downsize. I also know who most people are going to go to for help, and who will do better in the rankings, and get paid more.
    Best answer: All things being equal, courtesy always wins in the end. Between two guys of equal talent, if one is arrogant and the other polite, I know which one I'm going to keep when we have to downsize. I also know who most people are going to go to for help, and who will do better in the rankings, and get paid more.
    21 answers · 5 days ago
  • Guys, urinal etiquette with friends?

    Guys let’s say if you and your friend are heading towards the bathroom at the same time and both head for the urinals do you go next to each other because you are friends or do you leave a big space in between? Isn’t that more awkward or not? Any experiences peeing with friends at urinals? Is etiquettes different?
    Guys let’s say if you and your friend are heading towards the bathroom at the same time and both head for the urinals do you go next to each other because you are friends or do you leave a big space in between? Isn’t that more awkward or not? Any experiences peeing with friends at urinals? Is etiquettes different?
    17 answers · 6 days ago
  • What to say to someone who offers you a ride then doesn't bother to tell you they can't?

    At the beginning of night class a classmate offered me a ride to the nearest subway after our night class. I gladly accepted since it's winter time and quite cold and dark. Another girl was also to get a ride. She explained her husband was picking her up and they'd drop us both off at the mall where the... show more
    At the beginning of night class a classmate offered me a ride to the nearest subway after our night class. I gladly accepted since it's winter time and quite cold and dark. Another girl was also to get a ride. She explained her husband was picking her up and they'd drop us both off at the mall where the subway was. I told her it would be great since I had to pick up dinner at the grocery store before it closed and giving me a ride would give me a enough time to do so. When we were getting ready to leave they were taking amongst themselves and sort of leaving me out of the ride arrangements. Nevertheless I said 'We ready to go?'. She said 'Oh, we can't give you a ride, my kids are in the car. And one has the flu.' I looked over at the other girl and she was avoiding eye contact. I realized I wasn't welcome and wanted to save my pride so just left. I later found out from another girl that the kids weren't in the car and they were actually giving THAT girl a ride instead of me! I then just asked 'When were they going to tell me?' All she said was 'It's okay. It's okay'. Almost like she was convincing herself it was okay that they dick_d me over. lol Did I say or do something to prompt their behaviour or are they just rude? Then she asked me how I got home! Now they're acting like nothing ever happened. But she's still giving the other two girls rides and they're talking about grabbing iced tea on the way home, etc. What do you say to people who do stuff like that?
    14 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why Aren't More Girls Strippers?

    Seriously they make like thousands of dollars just on the weekends just for taking their clothes off why wouldn't more girls do that?
    Seriously they make like thousands of dollars just on the weekends just for taking their clothes off why wouldn't more girls do that?
    22 answers · 6 days ago
  • How much to spend on a thank you gift?

    I m about to finish up an internship and I want to get a gift for my supervisor. She s been great, I ve learned a ton and in general I like her as a person. I ve been at my internship four days a week since january, for about eight hours a day. Most of my time has been spent shadowing her, though I ve done some... show more
    I m about to finish up an internship and I want to get a gift for my supervisor. She s been great, I ve learned a ton and in general I like her as a person. I ve been at my internship four days a week since january, for about eight hours a day. Most of my time has been spent shadowing her, though I ve done some work in other areas of my placement. I have a few ideas for presents. I m for sure writing her a nice letter, and then my uncle has bees so I m giving her some honey. From there though I m not sure. She does aromatherapy, so I was thinking essential oils but they can be kinda pricey so I wouldn t know how many to get. I also thought maybe a book in her feild of work, and maybe something for her office. I can knit so I thought maybe I d make her something? But I m not sure what. Thanks.
    18 answers · 6 days ago
  • "When I met you, I thought, what a nice person!"- odd to say?

    I've met one guy who is a neighbor at events around the neighborhood. We're around the same age. (We're both straight men.) The third time I met him was this week. Each time, we'd just introduced each other and had a few minutes of small talk. This last time, when he introduced himself, he... show more
    I've met one guy who is a neighbor at events around the neighborhood. We're around the same age. (We're both straight men.) The third time I met him was this week. Each time, we'd just introduced each other and had a few minutes of small talk. This last time, when he introduced himself, he said, "We've met twice before, and both times, I walked away thinking, 'what a nice person that is!'" How would you have responded to that? Kind of an unusual thing to say. Thanks.
    12 answers · 5 days ago