• Fantasy to see wife with other men? advice? advice to get started? not get started? why are people saying ill soon be divorced?

    will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please
    will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Should you always be available to your spouse?

    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work... show more
    My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work she sends me a text to say she wanted to go to the movies. She wanted to see the new Incredibles 2 movie. I'm almost 49 and she's 48. We don't have young kids anymore but she said that when our kids were younger and we bought the first Incredibles movie on DVD that she assumed I wanted to see the sequel. Honestly, I don't. I guess I've aged out of cartoon movies. But now she's upset that I seem to not want to do anything with her today. Oh, and as far as the movie goes, she had planned a night of dinner and a movie but she told me she wasn't going to pay for everything so I needed to kick in on one or the other. Thanks for spending my money without asking. She feels she doesn't have to ask me what I have planned on Sat because as her wife I should always be available for her. I actually have plans myself. My sister wants me to come to her house and put up a couple of ceiling fans. My daughter wants me to change the oil and spark plugs on her car. But the most important thing I'm working on is a woodworking project making a piggy bank for one of our granddaughters. I've been working on it a couple of weeks and had plans to do other things to it this
    21 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Advice on a family matter?

    I live 4 hours away from my sister and I'm in town visiting. She lives with her son and her son's father. They've been asking for me to move in with them for years. I've lived with them once for all of one month about 6 years ago and I left. I left because I felt like they were only using me for... show more
    I live 4 hours away from my sister and I'm in town visiting. She lives with her son and her son's father. They've been asking for me to move in with them for years. I've lived with them once for all of one month about 6 years ago and I left. I left because I felt like they were only using me for rent, cleaning, and day care services. Six years later, they're still struggling financially. I'm temporarily unemployed, but I'm living with my dad. My sister's son's father is trying to demand that I stay with them until their lease expires because they need help and nobody is helping them with anything. They've burned all of their bridges by borrowing money from people and never paying anyone back. I've lost track of how much money I lent them over the years. Anyway, he says that he has sacrificed a lot for my sister and that nobody in my family will help them with anything, and that someone else needs to step up. He was recently fired from his job because he couldn't find someone to take care of their son. Nobody in his family is helping, either. I have been here since Thursday and have watched my nephew between Thursday and Saturday. I've given money that I don't really have to help them with their bills. When my sister gets back from the hospital, they want to discuss a few things and I know they're both going to mention wanting me to move in with them again. I don't want to do it. I have no freedom, personal space, or independence here. Suggestions?
    12 answers · Family · 9 hours ago
  • Why do some racists on here cry about this "white" race nonsense and all this conspiracy theory nonsense of being wiped out?

    Why do some racists on here cry about this "white" race nonsense and all this conspiracy theory nonsense of being wiped out?

    First of all race is mostly a social construct. Secondly no one is being genocided and there is no such thing as the Illuminati. It's time these redneck racist conspiracy theorists actually grow up and try to take responsibility for their own life instead of crying nonsense on places on the internet.
    First of all race is mostly a social construct. Secondly no one is being genocided and there is no such thing as the Illuminati. It's time these redneck racist conspiracy theorists actually grow up and try to take responsibility for their own life instead of crying nonsense on places on the internet.
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 9 hours ago
  • I'm hurt I didn't get a happy father's day?

    I've been with my girlfriend almost 4 years, and she didn't say happy father's day to me, and I'm actually hurt. I am not her child's biological father, but I sre myself as his dad. I try my best to be a good father figure, so that's why I am so hurt this year. The real father is not in the... show more
    I've been with my girlfriend almost 4 years, and she didn't say happy father's day to me, and I'm actually hurt. I am not her child's biological father, but I sre myself as his dad. I try my best to be a good father figure, so that's why I am so hurt this year. The real father is not in the picture, and took before he was even born. All she said is "I am thankful for everything, but he's not asking questions, and he doesn't call you dad. I don't want to make anything confusing, and I don't want explain things until I have too. I don't wany to jump in on the deep end if I don't have too" That statement she made only made me more hurt. Am I wrong for being hurt?
    10 answers · Family · 2 hours ago
  • Hello! I'm 15 and I really need help on my life.?

    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their... show more
    I really hate my parents. I get into a lot of fights with them and sometimes leads me being kicked out if the house. My mom yells at me everyday about not getting awards or finding out that I played videogames without her permission. Just recently, I got in a fight with them because I bought McDonalds without their permission with my money that I earned. That lead to me deciding not to go to disneyworld with them (it was our summer vacation). I was scared if I went, I wouldn't have much fun due to her constant yelling for the smallest things. However, she had already bought the tickets for flight and the parks. When I told her, it turned into a full blown argument (mainly her yelling). Afterwards, she told me that she wasn't going to pay for me and told me to pay her back for the tickets and housing. She took the money that I had earned working at my cousin's restaurant (around $405). Not only that, but she said I had to pay back all of the things she bought that wasn't required by law (including a $5000 violin). She also said that I wasn't allowed to work in my cousin's restauant and I had to find some other job to pay back all of that money. Is this legal? If so, does anyone know any jobs that a 15 year old could have or is willing to offer one. I can't seem to find any. I live in Catonsville Maryland. Thank you for reading and understanding. I hope no one would have to deal with these types of problems with their parents or kids.
    14 answers · Family · 22 hours ago
  • Am I wrong for wanting to keep celebrating me and my husbands dating anniversary?

    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and... show more
    My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and all of a sudden he tells me it’s not that important! Am I wrong for being angry?! Not to mention he works 6 days a week unscheduled hrs so we hardly have time because we also have children! I feel bad for being angry but I’m not because he goes out more than I feel a married man should when I’m the one stuck in the house with kids!
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • How do I finally breakup with the man that I love?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We started off as fwb when I was 17 started dating when I turned 18 and now I’m 22(he’s 23). When we first started off I was madly in love with him, he was my first boyfriend and he was someone I was proud to call mine. I used to worry that he was the one... show more
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We started off as fwb when I was 17 started dating when I turned 18 and now I’m 22(he’s 23). When we first started off I was madly in love with him, he was my first boyfriend and he was someone I was proud to call mine. I used to worry that he was the one that would leave me, I used to be jealous of other girls and I’d be jealous if he’d text/Snapchat/like any girls stuff. Fast forward 2 years we’ve been living together for officially a year and I’m starting to feel really comfortable with our relationship. I’ve always been a confident girl but 2 years into our relationship I got even more confident(I started modeling) and social. My boyfriend on the other hand became more of an introvert(when we first met it was at a party, he used to go out on the weekends and chill with friends), he stopped hanging out with people(mostly because once he moved off campus he lost the easiness of being able to see his friends when ever he wanted), he became more shy whenever we would go out instead of talking and socializing. I’m the complete opposite, I love the attention on me, I’m super social.
    28 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Why do I crave sex?

    I’m a 15 year old girl who lost her virginity 4 months ago I’ve had sex many times with my boyfriend. Before I didn’t crave sex now suddenly I do. Why’s that ?
    I’m a 15 year old girl who lost her virginity 4 months ago I’ve had sex many times with my boyfriend. Before I didn’t crave sex now suddenly I do. Why’s that ?
    35 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • Advice you'd give to a 15 year old?

    just in general
    just in general
    10 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 6 hours ago
  • Are my parents overreacting?

    Best answer: The police don't accept missing person reports until a person is gone for 24 hours.

    And you're over 18... not sure why they'd have such a fit, if they even did?
    Best answer: The police don't accept missing person reports until a person is gone for 24 hours.

    And you're over 18... not sure why they'd have such a fit, if they even did?
    19 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Should I be upset that my family didn’t come to my graduation?

    I graduated 8th grade 2 days ago and I feel like crap. Only my father and my brother that’s 16 came. My oldest brother that’s 21 did not come because he had to work. It was at 2pm and I feel like he could have got off early to come. I went to his graduated three years ago so I felt like he should have been there.... show more
    I graduated 8th grade 2 days ago and I feel like crap. Only my father and my brother that’s 16 came. My oldest brother that’s 21 did not come because he had to work. It was at 2pm and I feel like he could have got off early to come. I went to his graduated three years ago so I felt like he should have been there. And then none of aunties or uncles even came. It’s just that other people in my class had so many family members there and I feel like no one really cared idk. I didn’t act like I was upset but I am. How can I get over this?
    11 answers · Family · 16 hours ago
  • What will it be like being a househusband? Will me wife love and respect me as much as before we had children?

    My wife and I are having our first children - twins, and once they are born, I will quit my job and become a househusband. We already own our home, mostly thanks to me, since I bought it before we were together and earn more since, so we only need one of us to work, and even though my wife earns less, she insisted... show more
    My wife and I are having our first children - twins, and once they are born, I will quit my job and become a househusband. We already own our home, mostly thanks to me, since I bought it before we were together and earn more since, so we only need one of us to work, and even though my wife earns less, she insisted it be her. The last month has been really hard, because we hadn't been able to agree on it, but then she left me over it, and I it absolutely wasn't worth losing her over, so I changed my mind and convinced her to come back. We've talked about what we expect of each other now, and it doesn't seem that hard, to look after our children, and do all of the housework, have dinner waiting for her, etc, if I'm honest. We have her parents and my mother willing to look after them almost any time too. It will be weird giving up responsibility for money though, since she wants to control all of that. My biggest concern is that my wife will see me as less than I was, or less than her. She says that's just gender roles and sexism that I've been taught, and that I don't have to worry and she loves me. Will I enjoy looking after children? They're my children so I'm going to love them very much, but I've never done anything like it. I'm reading and learning about children. I'm really looking forward to a more normal sex life after we have children too, which my wife promised she'd put a lot of effort in to, since her pregnancy has ruined it.
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Do you have fb friends/or other online friends that you rarely ever see in person or don't really talk to outside of fb/social media?

    I don't understand why people that are "friends" online aren't always friends in rl. Can anyone explain it to me?
    I don't understand why people that are "friends" online aren't always friends in rl. Can anyone explain it to me?
    12 answers · Friends · 3 days ago
  • 15 yo and going to get spanked, what shoudl i do?

    Best answer: When I was a kid in the '60s It was common to see misbehaving kids get spanked in public. At home, kids, teenagers included, were spanked bare bottom, over the knee. Like someone else mentioned, after getting spanked, you had to stand in the corner with your pants and briefs around your ankles. And yes it hurt.... show more
    Best answer: When I was a kid in the '60s It was common to see misbehaving kids get spanked in public. At home, kids, teenagers included, were spanked bare bottom, over the knee. Like someone else mentioned, after getting spanked, you had to stand in the corner with your pants and briefs around your ankles. And yes it hurt. And yes it was embarrassing.

    Now, most kids are brats and troublemakers. They run wild in stores and restaurants. They don't listen to their parents. And they are always getting into trouble.
    19 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • What should I do?

    I’m the bride and my closest friend ever is a guy and I want him to be one of the groomsmen. My fiancé doesn’t want him to Bc he wants to pick other people. I understand wanting to pick other people too because the groom picks the groomsmen but idk why he can’t pick all his friends and then I add in my best friend.... show more
    I’m the bride and my closest friend ever is a guy and I want him to be one of the groomsmen. My fiancé doesn’t want him to Bc he wants to pick other people. I understand wanting to pick other people too because the groom picks the groomsmen but idk why he can’t pick all his friends and then I add in my best friend. Idk if this is a thing that people do but I don’t think it’s that weird to include a bride’s friend as a groomsman? Is it unfair of me to think it’s okay for me to pick him to be one of the groomsmen since the groom picks them? What should I do?
    33 answers · Weddings · 4 days ago
  • Withdrawing money without my mom knowing?

    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected... show more
    basically I want to order something off Amazon without my mom knowing about it. I plan on buying a gift card to do it since I'm only 17 and don't have my own credit card, but I need excuse to withdraw cash from bank account to buy it with. I have a job and I have the money, but my mom and I have a connected bank account. are there any suggestions as to what I can tell her I need the money for?
    26 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • My husbands friend "touched" me. What do I do?

    He casually flirts with me and my husband isn't aware of it. They're like best friends and grew up together. The other night he came over to celebrate his birthday and my husband was passed out. His friend was drunk and he tried to kiss me and i pushed him away. I'm very uncomfortable with this. I... show more
    He casually flirts with me and my husband isn't aware of it. They're like best friends and grew up together. The other night he came over to celebrate his birthday and my husband was passed out. His friend was drunk and he tried to kiss me and i pushed him away. I'm very uncomfortable with this. I didn't tell my husband because I didn't want to ruin his relationship with his best friend. They're like brothers. What do I do? He also sends really weird innapropriate texts and blames it on alcohol.
    34 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • Is Senior prom more fun than Junior prom?

    Does someone know? Or is it the same?
    Does someone know? Or is it the same?
    16 answers · Friends · 2 days ago