• How can I break it off with this kid and not hurt his feelings, or lose him as a friend?

    I am 42 years old, and for the last 10 months I have been hooking up with this kid who is 23. I have enjoyed the sex with him, and I thought that that was all there was, but he has caught serious feelings for me. He's kinda naive, he was sheltered as a kid. When we started doing this I figured it would be... show more
    I am 42 years old, and for the last 10 months I have been hooking up with this kid who is 23. I have enjoyed the sex with him, and I thought that that was all there was, but he has caught serious feelings for me. He's kinda naive, he was sheltered as a kid. When we started doing this I figured it would be mutually beneficial, I would get something, and at the same time I would help teach him about life, romance, sex, and all those things. And I have to say I have grown really fond of him. I am proud of what he has become as a person. He has a heart of gold, and I really admire that, and that's actually what attracted me to him in the first place, cuz he was a decent guy. He had an innocence about him that I found very refreshing. Thing is I didn't think he would develop the feelings for me like he has. I thought it was clear that this was just a casual thing, and it wasn't just sex, but we would hang out as friends, sometimes we wouldn't even have sex, just enjoy each other's company. But he's taken it seriously. In fact, he told me last night he loves me, and I could tell he meant it. I do care for him, deeply, and I would never do anything to hurt him, but I'm afraid I already have. What can I do? I don't want to lose his friendship, yes he's that important to me, but I know the longer we keep going, the more he's gonna fall for me. So how can I end this, yet still save our friendship?
    18 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • My father is a bad person, what do I do?

    Best answer: Stop having anything to do with him.
    Best answer: Stop having anything to do with him.
    19 answers · Family · 2 weeks ago
  • I cant have sex before marriage. I am over 35 female. This guy asked em out and I accepted, but I think when I say I cant have sex he will?

    Best answer: I think you're kinder missing the point here. The guy asked you for a date, yet despite how most guys operate, I doubt someone that's possibly close to your own age is going to be thinking, is she a virgin or not. I know that it might sound somewhat odd to you but it appears that you're the one putting... show more
    Best answer: I think you're kinder missing the point here. The guy asked you for a date, yet despite how most guys operate, I doubt someone that's possibly close to your own age is going to be thinking, is she a virgin or not. I know that it might sound somewhat odd to you but it appears that you're the one putting pressure on yourself. Not wanting to have sex before marriage isn't something Alien to men, yet at the same time having some fun until you feel comfortable to inform him how you feel re marriage and sex. Placing a hurdle/barrier up long before it's needed will only cancel out your chances of even possibly meeting a man that will happily wait until marriage before wanting to have sex with you. Just because you may have experienced it many times before, that's because you put the cart before the horse so to speak. Dating is about getting to know one another, however, anyone that brings up someone's sexual history on the 1st date isn't worth going on a 2nd with. To be perfectly honest I myself have never asked a girl for her sexual history as I see a clean slate because it wasn't sex that attracted me to he in the 1st place. Asking someone out is all about visuals, nice smile, beautiful eyes, accent, blonde, brunette tall, short, big breast, small breast, there are many deciding factors why we are attracted to a person. This guy, yes this guy, love many things about you which is why he asked you out in the 1st place. So, please don't do yourself a disservice by placing too much value on what other jerks have done in the past. Treat it as if it was your first every date, whereby you have butterflies in you stomach knowing he could have chosen many other girls to ask for a date be it was beautiful you.
    33 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • No Sex After 2 Months???? Thoughts?

    I am a 21 year old male, she is a 19 year old female. She is still a virgin, I am not. I was her first kiss and she is a shy girl. So basically until now I was taking her out every week, paying for dinners, movies, desserts, etc. for the last 2 months, she never payed for anything. Also we would hang out during... show more
    I am a 21 year old male, she is a 19 year old female. She is still a virgin, I am not. I was her first kiss and she is a shy girl. So basically until now I was taking her out every week, paying for dinners, movies, desserts, etc. for the last 2 months, she never payed for anything. Also we would hang out during the week so we would see each other 2 - 3 times every week. Now the most we did was kissing and taking her shirt off, and that's it, we did this about 8 times now. I asked her when she would be comfortable to have sex and she said she does not know. I had a conversation with her telling her that it was frustrating for me to keep making out and getting naked and nothing happens, she doesn't even want to do any hand stuff on me and always backs away from it. We both like each other a lot, as we spend a lot of time together, but I don't like the fact that the relationship has no intimacy after this amount of time. So my question is what would you guys do in my situation? Any advice helps.
    48 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Could your stomach cope with five hamburgers all at once?

    Best answer: It is not possible unless the stomach is like a mini warehouse.
    Best answer: It is not possible unless the stomach is like a mini warehouse.
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Do men prefer fit or big girls?

    Best answer: Some like fit, some like big. They all want different things.
    Best answer: Some like fit, some like big. They all want different things.
    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Why am i always out of breath when my boyfriend and i have sex?

    Best answer: When he puts your legs on his shoulders it folds your body into a position that makes it harder to take in air. If your head is also on a pillow, that will make it even worse. The lack of enough oxygen while he is pumping away on top of you is what causes you to feel tired. You need to make a big choice here. ... show more
    Best answer: When he puts your legs on his shoulders it folds your body into a position that makes it harder to take in air. If your head is also on a pillow, that will make it even worse. The lack of enough oxygen while he is pumping away on top of you is what causes you to feel tired.

    You need to make a big choice here. If he continues to insist that is the only sexual position, then you may want to consider an ultimatum. For example - the next time sex happens, you are on top or sex won't happen.

    This guy sounds like a control freak and you really need to examine your relationship and think about what kind of future you might actually have with this guy. It sounds like it is time to move on.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Crush only likes body?

    My crush would rather choose body over face and personality. I have both but not the type of body he likes. I like him sooo much im so in love
    My crush would rather choose body over face and personality. I have both but not the type of body he likes. I like him sooo much im so in love
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • If I am close to my Dad should I still cut him out of my life?

    Best answer: You don't have to cut him out, just keep your distance and see him now and then.
    Best answer: You don't have to cut him out, just keep your distance and see him now and then.
    6 answers · Family · 2 weeks ago
  • I told you how a woman contacted me claiming that she was also dating my partner?

    And my partner denied but didn't block her as she kept calling/texting. Now I found his first text to her since it all came out, he was asking her to meet somewhere to talk. Do you think he wants to tell her to leave us alone?
    And my partner denied but didn't block her as she kept calling/texting. Now I found his first text to her since it all came out, he was asking her to meet somewhere to talk. Do you think he wants to tell her to leave us alone?
    34 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Would she stab me in the back??????

    I'm a 23 year old guy, I have a small crush on this older woman named Amanda who is 35. Shes married and she knows I like her but shes pretty cool about it........by the way i respect the fact that shes married. Anyways, I deliver documents to her in person thought the day. I always go around... show more
    I'm a 23 year old guy, I have a small crush on this older woman named Amanda who is 35. Shes married and she knows I like her but shes pretty cool about it........by the way i respect the fact that shes married. Anyways, I deliver documents to her in person thought the day. I always go around Amanda's desk and I randomly begin having long conversations with her, and everything seems fine and she enjoys talking to me. Someone told me she might even find me attractive by the way she looks at me. But from what I heard, shes been complaining about alot of workers because she thinks shes better than everyone else in her department. Someone even told me to be careful and to watch what I say around her, and to not talk to her much. But I feel like she treats me nicer and little bit more different than any workers. Do you guys think she would complain about me tho ????????? The last lady that would deliver documents to her, was fired because Amanda put soooo many complains about her
    21 answers · Friends · 2 weeks ago
  • Can he get my address somehow?

    This guy I’ve had a long distance relationship with has become controlling so I blocked him now he’s making a new account each time I haven’t blocked him this time but I won’t accept the messages either but I’m only asking this is because my mom asked if I opened the door as she locked it last night but it was wide... show more
    This guy I’ve had a long distance relationship with has become controlling so I blocked him now he’s making a new account each time I haven’t blocked him this time but I won’t accept the messages either but I’m only asking this is because my mom asked if I opened the door as she locked it last night but it was wide opened this morning we also always have the door locked I don’t think this would happen but I’m curious now. We also have weird neighbors who I could also see breaking in.
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 weeks ago
  • Is just to be disapproved my relationship from my parents in this situation?

    I have a boy friend that I have been meeting for 4 months. And I m 20. He is from bali, indonesia. And I am from south korea. I was living together in his house during that time, which i slept with him already. And also which I don t regret. But the problem is when I came back to korea My parents are quite shocked... show more
    I have a boy friend that I have been meeting for 4 months. And I m 20. He is from bali, indonesia. And I am from south korea. I was living together in his house during that time, which i slept with him already. And also which I don t regret. But the problem is when I came back to korea My parents are quite shocked already about that I slept with him. And strongly disapprove with relationship with him because they think he will maluse of me when it comes to money. As he was born in a quite poor house. Also because he has a lot of tattos. They disapprove in a lot of senses and never let me go back, especially in the sense of i will live with him when I go there and if I leave for him they say they will disown me What I feel sad is that I want to consider it just love not related to money or things like that. He tries to earn his own money with his own corporate. And also said that He will travel with me when he has enough money as My dream was travelling around the world. I of course love as the way he is regardless of tattoos, or financial status, or family background. But i feel my parents look at him with too much prejudices about that country, which i don t really understand. I am sad that they seem to think about him too slyly,, which I just wanna consider just as love. Do you think it s too much if I just leave them and live my life ? Or just follow my parents and forget him? I want to know how this looks from 3rd party. I want to hear your opinion. Thanks
    10 answers · Family · 2 weeks ago
  • My brother is angry about me wanting to play video games and I need advice.?

    Ok so my brother is a gamer and he has a ps4, he used to play on the xbox360 but you know he upgraded. he told me I could play with his ps4 when he wasn't, as long as I played my own games. Then seemingly out of nowhere he got super mad at me for using his ps4 and told me never to play on it again, I ignored... show more
    Ok so my brother is a gamer and he has a ps4, he used to play on the xbox360 but you know he upgraded. he told me I could play with his ps4 when he wasn't, as long as I played my own games. Then seemingly out of nowhere he got super mad at me for using his ps4 and told me never to play on it again, I ignored his demands for a while, but he started being super mad at me all the time, so I felt I had to stop (he's still a total **** to me when I bring up games) I know I didn't do anything to his ps4 or his account since I never touched or changed anything and I always played offline. But anyway to the real problem I'm having at the moment. I ended up asking for a PlayStation for myself for my birthday and Christmas present from my parents (they agreed) (I'm currently buying a small 4k tv with the money I get from my part-time job) I was keeping it a secret from my brother for awhile until about a week ago when he found out. now all I get from him is nasty scowls and mean comments he also complains about me to my other sibling a lot, I find it hard to understand his actions since I will not be using his PlayStation anymore and so I thought he would be happy but in actual fact he's even more mad about it. Its almost like he doesn't want me to play video games at all even though I really enjoy it. So I was wondering if anyone else had had similar problems with their sibling and if you may be able to give me some advice. Thank you
    15 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 2 weeks ago