• My husband said he wouldn’t rape me????

    Best answer: You have nothing to worry about. You were talking about two different things. Your question was based on a sanitized, romanticized idea of rape (do you read a lot of romance novels?); your husband's answer was based on the reality. Yes, he loves you. He recognizes rape as the degrading angry act that it is,... show more
    Best answer: You have nothing to worry about. You were talking about two different things. Your question was based on a sanitized, romanticized idea of rape (do you read a lot of romance novels?); your husband's answer was based on the reality. Yes, he loves you. He recognizes rape as the degrading angry act that it is, while you were imagining the fantasy bodice-ripper version.
    17 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 15 hours ago
  • Is it possible to feel so much love for someone?

    I like her so much and I want to protect her from everything, but I can't because we're not together, plus because of our culture (albanians) we cannot properly date and her dad hates me and has beaten her for talking to me. But I do love her and I can't tell her. Last time I also told her to go away... show more
    I like her so much and I want to protect her from everything, but I can't because we're not together, plus because of our culture (albanians) we cannot properly date and her dad hates me and has beaten her for talking to me. But I do love her and I can't tell her. Last time I also told her to go away and made her cry so she would give up on me because I cannot stand the idea of her being shouted or beaten up. I miss her so much. We just talked a few times meeting on the streets and now when I'm here on my bed alone I imagine her sleeping next to me in PJ full of teddy bears and me holding her and hearing the smell of her skin and long hair. Sometimes I hear her laugh out of nowhere, or remember the dimples on her face, or her silly face or when she blushes. I miss her. But I cannot have her. When she told me her dad beated her I was so mad. But I understand, I am not the typical white guy, I'm a damned eastern european who cannot have her because of my life and my upbringing. I miss her, I miss the poems se wrote for me, I learnt them by heart. I know maybe it's the best choice since I cannot offer her a nice life, but we understand each other at first sight. I want to defend her from everything but I cannot even defend her from her dad.I'm torn apart,: sometimes I think of rejecting HR cause it's the most logical thing, but then I think I love her and she makes me happy, she's innocence in person and I don't want to pose her. What do I do? I myself I know I dont deserve her.
    44 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 days ago
  • My dying ex asked me to marry him what do i do ??!!?

    My ex, who i was with very recently, is dying of cancer. We ve been together since we were practically in the womb and we also have a 3 year old daughter together. I m 19 and he s 20. He is in the last stages of leukemia and probably has about 3 months to live and he asked me that i marry him before he dies....we... show more
    My ex, who i was with very recently, is dying of cancer. We ve been together since we were practically in the womb and we also have a 3 year old daughter together. I m 19 and he s 20. He is in the last stages of leukemia and probably has about 3 months to live and he asked me that i marry him before he dies....we were engaged for about 6 months before we broke up completely. We broke up very very recently, about 2 months ago. I don t want to deny a man of his dying wish but I don t know if i should. Pls help me
    16 answers · Weddings · 1 day ago
  • Person at school keeps trying to be my friend?

    there's this girl at my school who i can tell is trying really hard to be my friend, asking to hang out and stuff, but i just don't really want to... she's not dumb or mean or anything, but she sometimes kind of annoys me and she's rrrreally hard to hold a conversation with. i don't want to hang... show more
    there's this girl at my school who i can tell is trying really hard to be my friend, asking to hang out and stuff, but i just don't really want to... she's not dumb or mean or anything, but she sometimes kind of annoys me and she's rrrreally hard to hold a conversation with. i don't want to hang out with her because i feel like it would be awkward and not enjoyable at all for me, but i don't know how to turn her down without seeming like a jerk when she keeps asking, especially since she doesn't seem to have many friends
    17 answers · Friends · 1 day ago
  • Will sperm die in the washer machine?

    My bf came on my sweatpants and I want to wash them with other clothes in the washer too but I don’t want any sperm remaining and spread to other clothes like my underwear and risk getting pregnant.
    My bf came on my sweatpants and I want to wash them with other clothes in the washer too but I don’t want any sperm remaining and spread to other clothes like my underwear and risk getting pregnant.
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 13 hours ago
  • How to get my boyfriend to eat me out?

    So me and my boyfriend are both 18 and he doesn’t like eating me out. He says it’s nothing wrong with me and that just the act of him going down on me feels weird? We’ve been dating for almost 6 months and within those 6 months he’s only eaten me out 4 times and each of those times lasted like 5-10 minutes tops. I... show more
    So me and my boyfriend are both 18 and he doesn’t like eating me out. He says it’s nothing wrong with me and that just the act of him going down on me feels weird? We’ve been dating for almost 6 months and within those 6 months he’s only eaten me out 4 times and each of those times lasted like 5-10 minutes tops. I just want him to eat me or and appreciate me more. I always have to beg him to eat me out and i can tell he just doesn’t wanna do it. How could i make him more willing to do it? i give him head all the time. is there anything i could do to make it more enjoyable for the both of us?
    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Would you let your husband date your best friend after you die?

    I don't want my husband to date, kiss or sex my best friend when I die. Why? because I know he would like it too much and forget about me.
    I don't want my husband to date, kiss or sex my best friend when I die. Why? because I know he would like it too much and forget about me.
    35 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • My mum won't let me do anything.?

    I'm turning 18 this year but I'm not allowed to meet friends, have sleepovers (same gender), go out alone (during daytime of course),play computer games,stay up past 10, eat sweets, wear shorts (not booty shorts, normal ones), grow my nails,wear makeup, watch movies/tv series, dye my hair (normal colours)... show more
    I'm turning 18 this year but I'm not allowed to meet friends, have sleepovers (same gender), go out alone (during daytime of course),play computer games,stay up past 10, eat sweets, wear shorts (not booty shorts, normal ones), grow my nails,wear makeup, watch movies/tv series, dye my hair (normal colours) or get an ear piercing amongs many more things my classmates are allowed to do. Of course I don't want to smoke or drink like a lot of my classmates, some of which are only 15-16 but I would at least like to have sleepoverd.
    20 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Wow was my mother right to do this ?

    Best answer: Sound like your mother is such a Bitchz and she is making you feel bad, guilt tripping and messing around your head.
    I suggest stay away from if she is unsupportive. The best revenge is she never gets to be your son's grandmother if she is being nasty toward you.
    Best answer: Sound like your mother is such a Bitchz and she is making you feel bad, guilt tripping and messing around your head.
    I suggest stay away from if she is unsupportive. The best revenge is she never gets to be your son's grandmother if she is being nasty toward you.
    20 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • What would you do if you drove by and you saw an 8 year old do this?

    Best answer: I would have felt a bit of sympathy at the time for the 8 year old's feelings and then forgotten all about it. I seriously doubt anyone would have been "horrified" by the sight.
    Best answer: I would have felt a bit of sympathy at the time for the 8 year old's feelings and then forgotten all about it. I seriously doubt anyone would have been "horrified" by the sight.
    18 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • This is kind of spiritual question which is bothering me. Please answer.?

    If i find a girl adorable and love her does it mean that I am lustful. Can I love a girl withoit lust or lust is inevitable for love. If selfless love exists then can it exists for a single person or does it exist for all things god has created.
    If i find a girl adorable and love her does it mean that I am lustful. Can I love a girl withoit lust or lust is inevitable for love. If selfless love exists then can it exists for a single person or does it exist for all things god has created.
    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 14 hours ago
  • If a man shows his wife that he is a better cook than she is won’t she expect him to do all the cooking and make all the meals ?

    Unless his wife likes cooking and actually enjoys it won’t she make and expect him to do all the cooking from now on and cook all the meals from now on ? I like cooking experimenting in the kitchen and am a way better cook than my wife who’s just a novice but I don’t want her pushing all the cooking on to me and... show more
    Unless his wife likes cooking and actually enjoys it won’t she make and expect him to do all the cooking from now on and cook all the meals from now on ? I like cooking experimenting in the kitchen and am a way better cook than my wife who’s just a novice but I don’t want her pushing all the cooking on to me and I don’t want to do all the cooking in the house
    25 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Help? Should i dump my boyfriend?

    Best answer: You are allowed to be attracted to others too when you are with someone but please dump him before you cheat, he doesn’t deserve to be hurt that way. It is better to end it now if you want to be with someone else but ask yourself, are you attracted to your boyfriend or do you just like the way he treats you? If you... show more
    Best answer: You are allowed to be attracted to others too when you are with someone but please dump him before you cheat, he doesn’t deserve to be hurt that way. It is better to end it now if you want to be with someone else but ask yourself, are you attracted to your boyfriend or do you just like the way he treats you? If you really love your boyfriend you shouldn’t even have to consider this. This reminds me of twilight drama except that it is about a black and a white guy instead of a gay vampire and a weird *** werewolf. Good luck!
    105 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 days ago
  • IYO - if any breech of trust i.e. cheating touches your marriage or relationship - is it over or is there any way to save it?

    Best answer: Not for me, it would always be in the back of my mind and a concern and worry for me. You can't get it back imo
    Best answer: Not for me, it would always be in the back of my mind and a concern and worry for me. You can't get it back imo
    29 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • My girlfriend no longer wants to marry me?

    I’m worried about my girlfriend. We live together currently. We are meant to be getting married in April and she keeps saying she doesn’t think she can go through with it. She’s very stressed and keeps worrying about her health every day. She keeps complaining of lots of physical symptoms and saying she is sick... show more
    I’m worried about my girlfriend. We live together currently. We are meant to be getting married in April and she keeps saying she doesn’t think she can go through with it. She’s very stressed and keeps worrying about her health every day. She keeps complaining of lots of physical symptoms and saying she is sick with worry. She doesn’t have many friends and her sister has let her down as her only bridesmaid and hasn’t helped her with any plans and isn’t giving her a hen do. She seems very anxious and depressed. I’ve tried to help her as much as I can when I’m not at work but she seems distant and really low. I am really worried she won’t marry me. She keeps saying it’s all got out of hand and she doesn’t see the point in a wedding reception when there’s no one to invite and she wants to call off all the plans and just have a quick registry office service. Every experience she has has she’s come home in tears saying something has gone wrong and she doesn’t feel supported and she’s alone. I feel helpless I don’t know how else to help her other than tell her I love her and do what I can. What can I do?
    14 answers · Weddings · 1 day ago