• My girlfriend is a mean ***** to me every day?

    We’ve been together for a year and a half and in the beginning she was sweet but now she’s been a nasty despicable ***** to me every day. She’s always in a pissy mood and she always makes a sarcastic or stupid comment to me about everything. She doesn’t like the way I walk, the way I talk etc. she didn’t really... show more
    We’ve been together for a year and a half and in the beginning she was sweet but now she’s been a nasty despicable ***** to me every day. She’s always in a pissy mood and she always makes a sarcastic or stupid comment to me about everything. She doesn’t like the way I walk, the way I talk etc. she didn’t really say that but you know what I mean. It’s every day, and when she does it I separate myself from her because I don’t appreciate her stupid comments and she comes and asks me in a tone “oh so now you’re not talking to me you big baby? Ok” It’s gotten to a point where I want to be as far away from her as possible and if I don’t text her or wanna hang with her she texts me “god forbid my boyfriend comes and sees me” or “apparently I’m not worthy of your company even if I’m being bitchy, I thought you loved me.” Please help me deal with this psycho
    16 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Who should get their own room?

    4 kids, 3 rooms to split between them. 2 kids get their own room, 2 have to share. 13/yo girl, 12/yo girl, 9/yo boy, 5/yo girl. Who should share and who should get their own room?
    4 kids, 3 rooms to split between them. 2 kids get their own room, 2 have to share. 13/yo girl, 12/yo girl, 9/yo boy, 5/yo girl. Who should share and who should get their own room?
    21 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Why do women tend to gravitate towards black/latino/mixed men in general? Why are Asian and white men generally "the last resort"?

    I was raised being told that human beings are equal regardless of their race, culture, language, religion, etc. For most part I think it's true and even though racism is still a huge problem in this modern society I have hopes that it will get better. But that's about the racism that we see and witness... show more
    I was raised being told that human beings are equal regardless of their race, culture, language, religion, etc. For most part I think it's true and even though racism is still a huge problem in this modern society I have hopes that it will get better. But that's about the racism that we see and witness daily, but there's another form of racism that I like to call... hidden racism. One form of this racism is the one that I notice in the vast majority of women regardless of their race, ethnicity, culture or age (maybe a few exception on the older side). Women for most part seem to ignore Asian and white men, many not even taking into consideration the possibility of having a partner that is either white or Asian. I don't want other races to feel as if I hate you or anything. What I wanna know is why women do this? Why are women generally more likely to fall for darker races while Asian and white men tend to be the "last resort"? I understand that we are different and that people have preferences but I'd except a more BALANCED society, EQUAL CHANCE. In this modern society it seems that white and Asian men have a very hard time with women while other races such as black/mixed or latino have a rather easy time. Now you might call it as you want, but I call this UNFAIR! So why?
    11 answers · Singles & Dating · 16 hours ago
  • Why are men so quick to label women golddiggers?

    Best answer: There are going to be different reasons. Men who’ve managed to only date women with nothing in the way of a career or other plans for the future. And then they believe those women are the norm. These men are probably the men who have a bit of a disliking for career women because supporting a woman is what gives... show more
    Best answer: There are going to be different reasons. Men who’ve managed to only date women with nothing in the way of a career or other plans for the future. And then they believe those women are the norm. These men are probably the men who have a bit of a disliking for career women because supporting a woman is what gives them their role in life. They can’t see beyond it.

    Then there’s the type that falls for propaganda from the manosphere that treats women in developed countries like women in strictly defined castes in India and assumes women are all like that. Men who take this idea to heart take offence at the idea that, for a woman to “marry up”, it means the man is “ marrying down” and since traditionally men make the proposals, it is the man who has decided on this deal.

    Another reason men might say it, is when they’ve been through nasty divorces. It’s human nature to defend your position and divorces easily turn bitter. The wife can believe she is after the best outcome for her children but the man can see it as her being a gold digger.

    In general, it’s men with little, or limited experience in dating, and those who like to stereotype about women who believe this.
    45 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • Is this normal for gamers or does he have a serious anger problem?

    My husband and I share an upstairs studio apartment, so we can hear everything the other person is doing. With most of his free time he plays games online. And by free time, I mean every second he's not eating or at work. When something bad happens and another player does something that makes him angry, ... show more
    My husband and I share an upstairs studio apartment, so we can hear everything the other person is doing. With most of his free time he plays games online. And by free time, I mean every second he's not eating or at work. When something bad happens and another player does something that makes him angry, he'll say something like "I hope your family dies in a fire" or "I hope your first born child dies of AIDs". Anything horrible a person can possibly wish on another person, he'll say it. He breaks at least one controller every six months on average. And when his team mates tell him to calm down its only a game, he starts to curse them out. Anyone that knows anything about playing online will know that a wide range of ages play online, from young children to people fairly up in age. He's told little children to go and kill themselves... A while ago when he kept yelling at someone online he kept telling them of all the ways he hopes they die, I finally lost it and said "SHUT UP! JUST SHUP UP!" He turned around slowly to look at me, purple faced and told me to never speak to him like that again. He bolted twords me pretending like he was going to punch me and stopped about an inch from my face. I screamed and one of his friends online told him to calm down as they all heard me scream near the mic. He later apologized when he stopped playing and acted like it never happened... Also he's 26, if age means anything. I didn't know he was like this.
    26 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Why does my boyfriend asked me about my ex during sex?

    Best answer: It may just turned him on lol When my man and I are really into it (that means we're both a bit drunk lol!) He asks me who at work I would like to **** and I say Layne.. he gets harder and asks me who else and it just turns him on I'm not sure why lol Some men have no jealousy which makes everything very... show more
    Best answer: It may just turned him on lol
    When my man and I are really into it (that means we're both a bit drunk lol!) He asks me who at work I would like to **** and I say Layne.. he gets harder and asks me who else and it just turns him on I'm not sure why lol
    Some men have no jealousy which makes everything very fun and honest
    Not sure what your situation is.. it could be like mine or something incredibly wrong lol
    64 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • So much anger toward my mother?

    I'm an adult and happily married, but sometimes I feel so angry when I remember the way my mother treated me when I was still living at home. Now that I think of it, I realized she was more like a bitchy sister than a mother. She only loved my brother, and not me. For example, I remember how she hid my Greek... show more
    I'm an adult and happily married, but sometimes I feel so angry when I remember the way my mother treated me when I was still living at home. Now that I think of it, I realized she was more like a bitchy sister than a mother. She only loved my brother, and not me. For example, I remember how she hid my Greek myths books because I loved reading them (I was 8). She didn't even give reasons why she hid them (I did my home works etc.). I had to beg her for months until she returned them to me. Now I know she just hated seeing me enjoying myself. She almost never cooked for me, and often I had to make myself instant noodles when I was in elementary school. If I prefer certain color or things, she'd call them ugly. She also told me every day that I'm ugly and no one would marry me. She always compared me with my cousins, and praised whatever they were doing to belittle me. Every time I was preparing to go out she always said that if I don't be careful I'd get raped and it would be extremely painful. She started saying this when I was in elementary school, even gave graphic description that people could insert things into my v-----. I had troubles in my early days of my marriage because I was so afraid of the idea of sex. Every time I got something from my dad, she wanted it. Now I see her less and less because she always wants everything I have. Sometimes, seeing young women being loved by their mother in public could just trigger a flood of tears. Do you think I'm vindictive?
    17 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • Would you go to the funeral?

    My egg donor was an evil, horrid woman. She made sure I knew she hated me. I was beaten into submission and called names since my earliest memories. My siblings were allowed to treat me badly, and they knew it was permitted. I left as soon as I turned 18. I was still in the same city, but she would get drunk and... show more
    My egg donor was an evil, horrid woman. She made sure I knew she hated me. I was beaten into submission and called names since my earliest memories. My siblings were allowed to treat me badly, and they knew it was permitted. I left as soon as I turned 18. I was still in the same city, but she would get drunk and come looking for me. She insulted me and threatened physical violence. She broke into my home and destroyed my things. I left and moved far enough away that it finally ended. I went back once every few years to see my dad. He finally divorced her due to alcoholism, violence, and staying gone on benders. She continued drinking for many years. A few years ago I was very sick and admitted to the hospital. The doctor told me I wouldn t make it. She didn t come to see me, nor did she call. Some in the relatives think I hate her. I don t. I just don t feel anything. Once I got away, I learned how to block her out. If a thought of the past crossed my mind, I could get it out quickly until it rarely happened anymore. When she died I didn t feel anything. I can t pretend well enough to act like I did so I don t want to go. I don t feel it will affect me at all if I don t go. What would you do?
    27 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • My boyfriend only makes $40k per year. Should I dump him?

    Best answer: Ok, and how much money do YOU make per year? After all, if you make at least as much as that, 80k a year is more than enough to raise a family on. If you aren't working and expect him to support you, then yes, you should break up because he deserves better than you.
    Best answer: Ok, and how much money do YOU make per year? After all, if you make at least as much as that, 80k a year is more than enough to raise a family on. If you aren't working and expect him to support you, then yes, you should break up because he deserves better than you.
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Why am I so stupid?

    No one in my family are that stupid my parents and not stupid. My dad is a bit dumb but at least he can do maths and spell and read. But then there's me I'm so dumb I'm incapable of learning Evan my teachers told me why am I such an idiot?
    No one in my family are that stupid my parents and not stupid. My dad is a bit dumb but at least he can do maths and spell and read. But then there's me I'm so dumb I'm incapable of learning Evan my teachers told me why am I such an idiot?
    10 answers · Family · 7 hours ago
  • 15 and pregnant?

    34 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 4 days ago