I'm not the kind of person to ask for a lot. And when I do, it's rare and I make sure it's not too expensive. Anyway, months in advance, I asked him for gift ideas for anniversary. I got him 6 things. He never asked me what I wanted and it got so close to the date that I ended up asking a few candy bars which is duable since he lives 5 minutes WALKING distance from a store. So anniversary comes and he's opening all my gifts but doesn't have a thing for me :( the year before for anniversary he got me stuff and he used to get me things for no reason but he doesn't anymore. I don't think I was asking for a lot, I'd be happy with just flowers. I never expect anything in return when I get him things either. It's just that it was a special day and I was so disappointed. Small gestures mean so much to me but it made me really upset because this was our day to celebrate each other and it felt more like it was his birthday or something. I'm worried that when my birthday or Christmas comes, he won't have anything for me then either. I love buying him gifts, it makes me feel better than receiving them, but at the same time, I don't want to feel like I'm being taken advantage of and I don't like it when there is only one person in a relationship making all the effort. So should I stop? Or not give him as much? Because I pay for everything and spoil him. People often tell me that I'm setting a bad example or that "it should be the other way around". I just want to be a good girlfriend.