He loves me and i know it’s not intentional. But why is it that everytime he feels someone is rude to him or criticize him, he does it ten times harder back and try to say something nice but with a “little shade.” Especially me whenever i make fun of him in a joking way he’d come back at me or when i try to tell him like, babe can you pick up your dirty shoes. He would be like well last time you....” etc. how do you deal with defensive people. It’s really annoying.