I’m a 21 year old girl in college, and I met my boyfriend on POF. We immediately hit it off, started dating real fast and saying I love you. He soon moved to my college town some months after we started dating, and I currently live with him. Lately however, I’ve been having these thoughts that he’s not the one and that I don’t love him anymore. I’ve been really distant, not talking to him much anymore, not being intimate, etc. we never really hang out besides at home at night because of our work/school schedules (no dates or anything) I really want to love him because he’s so sweet, caring, and can tell he loves me a lot.
Whenever that we are intimate, I immediately cry afterwards because I feel like I’m hurting him. I still say I love him but it feels like a lie. We’ve already talked about getting married and such, and I don’t want to ruin everything by breaking up with him if I’m just in a slug