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Hi, Im a nice male recently going through an identity crisis.

  • Is this a pipe dream or do some women actually look this way?

    I see skinny yet busty female celebrities and all of them have said to be on the internet to have had breast augmentation. The ones on pornos look fake too. Are you skinny( and I mean slim) but have large breasts? Do women like that exist. Also I’ve never been with a woman for obvious reasons. 

    1 AnswerWomen's Health1 hour ago
  • Do you think anyone has masturbated to a picture of you?

    This is an incredibly creepy question; I know but people do things they aren’t proud of in private and I was wondering if anyone wonders if people secretly are attracted to you. I only masturbated to 2 pictures. Most of my masturbation comes from porn from women I don’t know. 

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 day ago
  • Do you think anyone has masturbated to a picture of you?

    This is an incredibly creepy question; I know but people do things they aren’t proud of in private and I was wondering if anyone wonders if people secretly are attracted to you. I only masturbated to 2 pictures. Most of my masturbation comes from porn from women I don’t know. 

    7 AnswersMen's Health1 day ago
  • Do any women feel this way about men that I feel about women?

    I honestly love the female form and find all features extremely attractive at certain times and occasion. Face, hair, breasts, midriff, butt, legs- you know, everything. Do some women love male stuff?

    1 AnswerGender Studies6 days ago
  • Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

    My mother always says things happen for a reason and she’ll point it out when something good or even serendipitous, happens. I don’t know what to believe. I know probability is a shaky science and a lot of occurrences might be quantum but I don’t know. Was I always destined to be a loser to go to grad school at age 27 and have no money and live with my parents. Lots of my teachers expected a lot from me but obviously that wasn’t the plan. 

    3 AnswersPsychology2 weeks ago
  • What could this be? A hematoma or worse?

    My mother is having serious pain in her leg. She thinks it’s a hematoma but it keeps traveling up her leg and nothing seems to alleviate it. She wants to go to the doctor but it’s Labor Day weekend so she is probably going to go to CityMD. She is scared. I read Hematoma can last 1-4 weeks but she thinks it is something more serious like a vascular clot. What else could it be?

    Other - Health2 weeks ago
  • Do you have a super-high IQ and if so; how are you different?

    My great-uncle had a 180 IQ and was a Mensite and a lawyer. He had more books than anyone I’ve ever met. He taught himself to read and was reading at a ridiculously young age, excelled in all subjects and was very creative and talented. I was THOUGHT to have a high IQ because of my grades and my writing talents but this is sadly not the case. I do have a lot of deep existential thoughts and consider myself very woke but I do not have a genius mind. What about any of you? Do you have an IQ that is off the charts and if so- what is different about you?

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys3 weeks ago
  • How do you alleviate debilitating nerve pain?

    My grandfather had surgery on his spinal cord because he has a form of scoliosis and they said the operation is a success. And he can walk, yes but he is still in a lot of pain and nothing the doctors give him can help. He’s had several shots. He can’t do medical marijuana because he had a kidney transplant.  Does anybody have any ideas on what can help him?

    1 AnswerPain & Pain Management3 weeks ago
  • I really wish I was dead.?

    I am looking at my syllabus for my upcoming grad program and I don’t think I can do this. Yet, I have nothing else to fall back on. I couldn’t find a job so I decided to try grad school. Now I don’t think I can ever keep up or do all this work. I was an English Lit major in Undergrad and I barely got through college because I am stupid. I don’t know what to do. My family has high expectations for me but I don’t have the intelligence or skills to achieve anything. Honestly, I wanna just close my eyes and never wake up. I really am better off dead. I am just spinning my wheels and wasting my family’s money by being alive. I have no options, no future. What should I do. 

    Also I have been in therapy for 10 years and I am currently in therapy and take anti-depressebrs. 

  • Can you make a lot of money day trading?

    One of my old childhood friends has decided to be a day trader. Can he make a lot of money. It’s just him and his computer. 

    14 AnswersInvesting4 weeks ago
  • Is “Kat” a good name for a cat?

    My sister is insistent that naming our cat “Kat” is funny and creative. I think it’s silly and I want to keep her name as Izzy, the name she was given when we adopted her. She insists that Kat is a great name for cat but I disagree. What does everyone else think?

    20 AnswersCats1 month ago
  • If God exists, why do some people get “miracles” and others don’t ?

    I’m not saying I believe in God or don’t BUT if he does exist; why would some people recover from a life threatening injury or avoid suffering and others don’t?

    10 AnswersReligion & Spirituality1 month ago
  • Why is sex pleasurable?

    Why is the reproduction process so desirable? Having children is a big decision and shouldn’t be something to be sneezed at. Yet humans feel great when they have sex and can’t stop thinking about it. I just think it’s a distraction. 

    3 AnswersPsychology2 months ago
  • What would it take to make a TRUE universal translator?

    In Star Trek, they have a “universal translator” but it could only translate languages within the Federation. In Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, their is a Babel Fish that you put in your ear and it uses telepathy to translate. But what would it take to make a hand held non-organic machine translate ANY language it encountered?

    2 AnswersLanguages2 months ago
  • Why is the brain so amazing yet it’s stats are so mundane?

    The human brain is amazing. It has more power and potential than any computer we could ever build. Unlimited thoughts can be formed and the memory storage is near infinite. Yet the thing only weighs 3 pounds, runs on the energy to think equivalent to light a light bulb (look it up) and it erodes easily. It doesn’t make sense. What the heck is it? Why is it so complicated yet so simple at the same time 

    2 AnswersPsychology2 months ago
  • Should I message my crush?

    I have a rekindled crush for a girl I knew in high school. I saw her 3 years ago and all of a sudden I want to be with her but I’m scared of embarrassing myself. My friend said to just try being friends and message her on Facebook but I feel it might be very creepy since we haven’t seen each other in so long. Should I do it? What should I do?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating3 months ago
  • Why are my feelings for this girl resurfacing all of a sudden?

    Their was a girl from high school that I had a crush on Freshman and Sophmore year but she didn’t even notice me and I would never be dumb enough to try and go for her. Junior and Senior year; she was cordial and polite to me but nothing else. Then I see her in college and she seemed friendly and then I saw her at my graduation. Now 3 years later, with zero contact; I started thinking about her. My repressed feelings have resurfaced and I’ve been thinking about her a lot for the last week or so. Why is this happening? How can I banish her from my mind?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating3 months ago
  • I really don’t understand the concept of death?

    I get that once you die; your consciousness is snuffed out and that’s it but I just don’t understand how it affects your perception. Is it like sleep? Is the state you’re in while asleep, what its like when you’re dead? I just don’t know where the energy that runs your neural receptors is converted into. It doesn’t have to be an afterlife. Could it be as simple as lying on your back in the coffin in total darkness like a blind person?

    6 AnswersReligion & Spirituality4 months ago
  • Why can’t I remember this event?

    I have an extremely good memory. I remember stuff when I was a toddler and I was always good at memorizing facts. Yet, my mother just told me a story of when I was 10 and spent Christmas Eve at my great-grandmother’s house and we ordered calamari. I can’t even bring up an image in my mind of any of that stuff. It’s like it never happened. Yet it did. Talking with mom; I also can’t remember meeting our crazy neighbor at McDonalds after seeing Finding Nemo and seeing Mulan with my family friends. All these events occurred in my late childhood. Why can’t I remember? Was it never “recorded” in my brain or is it in their somewhere, deep in my mind? I have OCD, so these things bother me. 

    1 AnswerPsychology4 months ago
  • Let’s pretend God exists. What is the “reason” for this global pandemic?

    Theists, if God is real; why is he punishing us. My grandmother is very religious and thinks God is angry. If I was a theist, I would agree with her. I personally think all intelligent species face this type of event to keep them from leaving their planet. Look up the Great Filter. 

    Why would a “God” do this to us?

    26 AnswersReligion & Spirituality6 months ago