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Hi, Im a nice male recently going through an identity crisis.

  • Why are girls so mean?

    Their are hot girls who know they are hot and dress provocatively  to show off their stuff. Then loser guys like me are visibly attracted to them and they get angry and creeped out when I am just reacting as every man would. I don't understand why so much hate.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating1 week ago
  • What should I do at the end of the semester?

    I am in my first semester of Library Sciences grad school. I am taking 3 classes. One class I have an 80 out of 140 which isn't great and I have a ton more assignments to go. Class 2, I have a 90 on on the first essay but it is a computer coding class and my "projects" are piss poor and my professor refuses to help me and ignores all my emails. Finally Class 3 is a complete disaster. I have an evil professor who hates everything I do, even when I try really hard to follow all her rules. Its very possible I might fail 2 if not all 3 of my classes. If that occurs, I should drop out of the program, correct?

  • I think I’m autistic? Help?

    It was always long suspected that I was autistic. I have an intense interest in Star Wars and futurism and I  don’t like deviations on my schedule. Even though I am very friendly and personable, I’ve never had a girlfriend and really can’t form friendships with anyone. I have many other tics based on various things and I have to have things a certain way for me to be comfortable. When I was a kid, I used to play make believe with my hands and make sound effects. Other children often picked on me and I was never included in things. Not even when I was in the honors program where the kids were nicer. Now as a 27 year old man- I listen to music every night while I pace around my house. Women think I am creepy and weird and the thought of sex with me repulses them. I also sometimes have weird thoughts and say weird things. I can sometimes be funny but usually it’s my way of doing things rather than my jokes. Yet, I am aware of all these quirks and I don’t like it. It causes me deep sadness that I am such an outcast to society. I’m autistic but I am also meta. I know it and I’m powerless to fix it. I also love to repeat things like songs and phrases. I’m a mess and I don’t know what to do. Every year I get a little better in some ways and worse in others but I just get sadder and sadder. What should I do? Should I get tested for autism and make it a crutch? E.g. I still live with my mommy and daddy at age 27. However I am in grad school right now so it has a silver lining, I guess

    2 AnswersPsychology1 month ago
  • I have manic highs and lows mood swings and I don’t know why?

    I was diagnosed with OCD in 2012 and I am on tons of meds for it. Lately, I have been feeling very quick and abrupt mood swings where I go from feeling ecstasy to feeling super glum and depressed. Everything I do has to be all and nothing. I either want the best or I want nothing. My therapist doesn’t think it’s bipolarity disorder. What’s wrong with me?

    3 AnswersMental Health1 month ago
  • Is their such thing as “familial attraction”?

    Do some people from the same family sometimes have a shared “type” when looking at prospective mates? I mean all the Kardashian/Jenner girls like black men and from my school, two sisters ending up with the same guy, yet they did not meet him at the same time. Also my sister looks exactly like my brother and they both think I am dorky looking. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Is this a pipe dream or do some women actually look this way?

    I see skinny yet busty female celebrities and all of them have said to be on the internet to have had breast augmentation. The ones on pornos look fake too. Are you skinny( and I mean slim) but have large breasts? Do women like that exist. Also I’ve never been with a woman for obvious reasons. 

    2 AnswersWomen's Health2 months ago
  • Do you think anyone has masturbated to a picture of you?

    This is an incredibly creepy question; I know but people do things they aren’t proud of in private and I was wondering if anyone wonders if people secretly are attracted to you. I only masturbated to 2 pictures. Most of my masturbation comes from porn from women I don’t know. 

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Do any women feel this way about men that I feel about women?

    I honestly love the female form and find all features extremely attractive at certain times and occasion. Face, hair, breasts, midriff, butt, legs- you know, everything. Do some women love male stuff?

    1 AnswerGender Studies2 months ago
  • Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

    My mother always says things happen for a reason and she’ll point it out when something good or even serendipitous, happens. I don’t know what to believe. I know probability is a shaky science and a lot of occurrences might be quantum but I don’t know. Was I always destined to be a loser to go to grad school at age 27 and have no money and live with my parents. Lots of my teachers expected a lot from me but obviously that wasn’t the plan. 

    3 AnswersPsychology3 months ago
  • What could this be? A hematoma or worse?

    My mother is having serious pain in her leg. She thinks it’s a hematoma but it keeps traveling up her leg and nothing seems to alleviate it. She wants to go to the doctor but it’s Labor Day weekend so she is probably going to go to CityMD. She is scared. I read Hematoma can last 1-4 weeks but she thinks it is something more serious like a vascular clot. What else could it be?

    Other - Health3 months ago
  • Do you have a super-high IQ and if so; how are you different?

    My great-uncle had a 180 IQ and was a Mensite and a lawyer. He had more books than anyone I’ve ever met. He taught himself to read and was reading at a ridiculously young age, excelled in all subjects and was very creative and talented. I was THOUGHT to have a high IQ because of my grades and my writing talents but this is sadly not the case. I do have a lot of deep existential thoughts and consider myself very woke but I do not have a genius mind. What about any of you? Do you have an IQ that is off the charts and if so- what is different about you?

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys3 months ago
  • How do you alleviate debilitating nerve pain?

    My grandfather had surgery on his spinal cord because he has a form of scoliosis and they said the operation is a success. And he can walk, yes but he is still in a lot of pain and nothing the doctors give him can help. He’s had several shots. He can’t do medical marijuana because he had a kidney transplant.  Does anybody have any ideas on what can help him?

    1 AnswerPain & Pain Management3 months ago
  • I really wish I was dead.?

    I am looking at my syllabus for my upcoming grad program and I don’t think I can do this. Yet, I have nothing else to fall back on. I couldn’t find a job so I decided to try grad school. Now I don’t think I can ever keep up or do all this work. I was an English Lit major in Undergrad and I barely got through college because I am stupid. I don’t know what to do. My family has high expectations for me but I don’t have the intelligence or skills to achieve anything. Honestly, I wanna just close my eyes and never wake up. I really am better off dead. I am just spinning my wheels and wasting my family’s money by being alive. I have no options, no future. What should I do. 

    Also I have been in therapy for 10 years and I am currently in therapy and take anti-depressebrs. 

    2 AnswersHigher Education (University +)3 months ago
  • Can you make a lot of money day trading?

    One of my old childhood friends has decided to be a day trader. Can he make a lot of money. It’s just him and his computer. 

    14 AnswersInvesting3 months ago
  • Is “Kat” a good name for a cat?

    My sister is insistent that naming our cat “Kat” is funny and creative. I think it’s silly and I want to keep her name as Izzy, the name she was given when we adopted her. She insists that Kat is a great name for cat but I disagree. What does everyone else think?

    20 AnswersCats3 months ago
  • If God exists, why do some people get “miracles” and others don’t ?

    I’m not saying I believe in God or don’t BUT if he does exist; why would some people recover from a life threatening injury or avoid suffering and others don’t?

    10 AnswersReligion & Spirituality3 months ago
  • Why is sex pleasurable?

    Why is the reproduction process so desirable? Having children is a big decision and shouldn’t be something to be sneezed at. Yet humans feel great when they have sex and can’t stop thinking about it. I just think it’s a distraction. 

    3 AnswersPsychology4 months ago
  • What would it take to make a TRUE universal translator?

    In Star Trek, they have a “universal translator” but it could only translate languages within the Federation. In Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, their is a Babel Fish that you put in your ear and it uses telepathy to translate. But what would it take to make a hand held non-organic machine translate ANY language it encountered?

    2 AnswersLanguages4 months ago
  • Why is the brain so amazing yet it’s stats are so mundane?

    The human brain is amazing. It has more power and potential than any computer we could ever build. Unlimited thoughts can be formed and the memory storage is near infinite. Yet the thing only weighs 3 pounds, runs on the energy to think equivalent to light a light bulb (look it up) and it erodes easily. It doesn’t make sense. What the heck is it? Why is it so complicated yet so simple at the same time 

    2 AnswersPsychology4 months ago
  • Should I message my crush?

    I have a rekindled crush for a girl I knew in high school. I saw her 3 years ago and all of a sudden I want to be with her but I’m scared of embarrassing myself. My friend said to just try being friends and message her on Facebook but I feel it might be very creepy since we haven’t seen each other in so long. Should I do it? What should I do?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating5 months ago