• Why does my dog bark at things like this?

    I have a 7 year old welsh corgi and we got her as a puppy. Shes been a really good dog ever since we got her and I love her to death. One behavior that I cannot tolerate from her however, is her excessive barking. she barks and growls whenever there would be a loud noise or some sort of commotion. For example, someone laughing loudly, the smoke... show more
    I have a 7 year old welsh corgi and we got her as a puppy. Shes been a really good dog ever since we got her and I love her to death. One behavior that I cannot tolerate from her however, is her excessive barking. she barks and growls whenever there would be a loud noise or some sort of commotion. For example, someone laughing loudly, the smoke alarm going off, and sometimes at nothing at all. She even lies on the floor and growls under her breath, for no apparent reason. This has gotten to the point where its become extremely annoying. Ive politely told her to stop, given her treats to distract her, and have gone as far as yelling at her when nothing else has worked. I know yelling isnt the right way to go about it, but I don't know what else to do at this point, as this behavior has become more and more prevalent in her. Why does a dog do this, and is there a remedy? I should add, that she got hit by a four wheeler when she was a puppy and almost died. Could she have suffered some kind of brain damage or developed a fear or anxiety from this trauma? Thanks for your help.
    2 answers · Dogs · 5 years ago
  • Ladies help? what does she mean and what do i do now? im confused!?

    I was in a long distance relationship (2hrs) with a women for about 8 months. Im 28, shes 26. It started out great, and then fizzled quickly. We just recently broke it off. We both had our reasons, mainly it was the distance and she told me she didnt like it. We had our differences, things we did and didnt like in the other person, etc. It ended... show more
    I was in a long distance relationship (2hrs) with a women for about 8 months. Im 28, shes 26. It started out great, and then fizzled quickly. We just recently broke it off. We both had our reasons, mainly it was the distance and she told me she didnt like it. We had our differences, things we did and didnt like in the other person, etc. It ended with us being bitter with each other, talking down on each other, which i believe came out of anger and frustration. One thing she said was " i havent found what will make me happy yet and im not sure you are ready yet". What?!? Im not sure what to think of this! Now i planned on moving to this town, not just to be with her, but for a job as well. Before our falling out, she told me she wanted to start over when i move there. But right now with her being cold and not wanting to talk to me, im not sure what she wants now. She wont tell me. She told me in our last chat that when we are both "mature", we could talk again. Whats going on here?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies help! where is this going? need honest advice!?

    I was in a long distance relationship (2hrs) with a women for about 8 months. Im 28, shes 26. It started out great, and then fizzled quickly. We just recently broke it off. We both had our reasons, mainly it was the distance and she told me she didnt like it. We had our differences, things we did and didnt like in the other person, etc. It ended... show more
    I was in a long distance relationship (2hrs) with a women for about 8 months. Im 28, shes 26. It started out great, and then fizzled quickly. We just recently broke it off. We both had our reasons, mainly it was the distance and she told me she didnt like it. We had our differences, things we did and didnt like in the other person, etc. It ended with us being bitter with each other, talking down on each other, which i believe came out of anger and frustration. One thing she said was " i havent found what will make me happy yet". Im not sure what to think of this! Now i planned on moving to this town, not just to be with her, but for a job as well. Before our falling out, she told me She wanted to start over, and i still do. My question is, do i have a chance at getting her back or is it too late? Shes been really distant and doesnt want to talk. But i know she still wants something because she told me that when we are more "mature", we can talk again. What do you think?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies, help? why do women do this?

    I dated a women for 8 months and it was long distance (2 hrs). Well we ended up breaking up, we both had our reasons. For her it was the distance, me apparently not being not mature enough for her i guess. I Didnt handle it too well and came off as being too serious and childish about the whole thing. For me, it was the mind games (she tested me to... show more
    I dated a women for 8 months and it was long distance (2 hrs). Well we ended up breaking up, we both had our reasons. For her it was the distance, me apparently not being not mature enough for her i guess. I Didnt handle it too well and came off as being too serious and childish about the whole thing. For me, it was the mind games (she tested me to no end and purposely failed me.) I couldnt do anything to make Her happy. I told her she was being immature at the same time for calling me names and making me feel bad, blaming me for everything that happened.I unfriended her off fb after this, And It pisssed her off. The last thing she texted me was " when were both mature, maybe we can talk again." I told her i didnt see it happenin. I then told her, we could, if she was civil with me. Well now she just BLOCKED me on fb. To get a rise out of me or get my attention? I dont know what shes thinking. Its sad because our relationship was going good and then ends with bitterness. Your thoughts?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies help? what did she want from me? fast 10 pts?

    I had been dating this women for about 6 months long distance (2 Hrs). I met her at a bar in my hometown. Well we actually slept together the second night we hung out. Idk why but it happened. We started dating and became official after four months (her idea). I believe we were both happy and it was actually going somewhere. But one argument was all... show more
    I had been dating this women for about 6 months long distance (2 Hrs). I met her at a bar in my hometown. Well we actually slept together the second night we hung out. Idk why but it happened. We started dating and became official after four months (her idea). I believe we were both happy and it was actually going somewhere. But one argument was all it took for her to have sudden loss of interest. Now after two weeks, with her suddenly busy and not wanting to talk, i called her and told her i needed answers. She pretty much said "i liked you, but you did this, you didnt do that, etc" pointing out every fault in me. And then ultimately saying we were done. Idk what i did wrong! She has all the signs of someone being emotionally unavailable, by how quickly she accepted me and then dumped me, maybe thats why. The last thing she told me "when were both mature, we can talk again." What? Was i just a rebound or is she actually looking for an honest relationship?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies opinions on this? honest answers please! 10 quick pts?

    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored these initial red flags when i started... show more
    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored these initial red flags when i started seeing her, but we actually hit it off great. Doing everything together and enjoyed every bit of it. and We had Discussed at one point, me moving there to be with her ( i had planned on moving there before we even met.) Things suddenly went south when she told me she didnt like the long distance thing. Frustrations grew and she started nitpicking, finding every little flaw in me, and pointing them out, "are you a mamas boy?are you a pretty boy? You seem like it..", things like that. She became unusually cold after an argument we had over this, calling me a child and telling me i need to grow up. I admit i didnt handle it well and walked out. She told me that maybe i dont know if im ready to date her. Im almost 30 and i know what i want in life, so why make a comment like that? now she has completely shut me out. I Cant seem to get through to her right now, like shes got a wall up. Doing research, she gives me all the signs of someone being emotionally unavailable, especially when her exes were brought up and how she expressed hurt and anger toward them. Shes done this a few times while talking to one of her friends, and ive been fortunate enough to listen in! She told me she liked me alot and said at one point that if i did move there, we could start over. But with her recent lack of communication, and hiding her feelings, im doubting her initial interest in me as being geniune and whether or not she was ever looking for a meaningful relationship with me . My question is, was she playing me or does she really want something from me? Even if did move, and we worked out our differences, would it be worth saving?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies opinions, where do things go from here, need advice!?

    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored the initial red flags when i started... show more
    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored the initial red flags when i started seeing her, but we actually it off great. Doing everything together and enjoyed every chance we got to see eachother. We had Discussed at one point, me moving there to be with her ( i had planned on moving there before we even met.) Things suddenly went south when she told me she didnt like the long distance thing. Frustrations grew and she started nitpicking, finding every little flaw in me, and pointing them out, "are you a mamas boy?are you a pretty boy? You seem like it..", things like that. She became unusually cold after an argument we had over this. And now has completely shut me out. Doing research, she gives me all the signs of someone being emotionally unavailable, especially when her exes were brought up and how she expressed hurt and anger toward them. Shes done this a few times while talking to one of her friends, and ive been fortunate enough to listen in! She told me she liked me alot and said at one point that if i did move there, we could start over. But with her recent lack of communication, and hiding her feelings, im doubting her initial interest in me as being geniune and whether or not she was ever looking for a meaningful relationship with me . My question is, was she playing me or does she really want something from me? Even if did move, and we worked out our differences, would it be worth saving? Any advice?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies opinions, what does she want from me? 10 pts?

    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored the initial red flags when i started... show more
    I will make this as short as possible. I had been dating this women for 8 months long distance (2 hrs) seeing her at most, twice a week. Now when i met her, it was in a bar, normally i dont do that kind of thing. We slept together the second time we hung out, which i did not want, it just happened. I ignored the initial red flags when i started seeing her, but we actually it off great. We had Discussed at one point, me moving there to be with her ( i had planned on moving there before we even met.) Things suddenly went south when she told me she didnt like the long distance thing. Frustrations grew and she started nitpicking, finding every little flaw in me, and pointing them out, "are you a mamas boy?are you a pretty boy? You seem like it..", things like that. She became unusually cold after an argument we had over this. And now has completely shut me out. Doing research, she gives me all the signs of someone being emotionally unavailable, especially when her exes were brought up and how she expressed hurt and anger toward them. Shes done this a few times while talking to one of her friends, and ive been fortunate enough to listen in! She told me she liked me alot and said at one point that if i did move there, we could start over. But with her recent lack of communication, and hiding her feelings, im doubting her initial interest in me as being geniune and whether or not she was ever looking for a meaningful relationship with me . My question is, was she playing me or does she really want something from me? Even if did move, and we worked out our differences, would it be worth saving?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Ladies help me, what do i do now? 10 pts?

    Long story short, i was in a long distance relationship (200 miles) with a women for 8 months. We hit it off extremely well but suddenly hit rock bottom a month ago. She said she didnt want the long distance thing anymore, and that she was willing to start over if i moved closer, since we had discussed this a couple months prior. She got extremely... show more
    Long story short, i was in a long distance relationship (200 miles) with a women for 8 months. We hit it off extremely well but suddenly hit rock bottom a month ago. She said she didnt want the long distance thing anymore, and that she was willing to start over if i moved closer, since we had discussed this a couple months prior. She got extremely distant after the last argument we had a couple weeks ago, when frustrations and anger spilled out, on my part mostly. Ill admit i acted extremely childish in the way i handled it and she pointed it out. The only time she texted me, was a week after no contact, asking me how i was doing. When i asked what She was up to a couple days later, she replied three days after that and apologized saying she was busy. To make things worse, i acted extremely desperate in the last couple days, apologizing, explaining how i felt, asking her to talk , etc. She didnt care to listen to any of it and got even more distant. One of the last things i told her was id like to start over, and only time will tell if shes willing. She came back with "i havent found what will make me happy yet, only time will tell." What Does she mean by this, using some of the same words in her response? Does this mean she is no longer interested or am i supposed to read into this? Im not sure what her intentions are right now, and i know she wont tell me even if i asked. Second question is, should i write a letter expressing my thoughts and true intentions, stop there and Then leave her alone? Its sad that something started great and then comes down to this. I Feel ive Already messed this up beyond repair, But i adore this women and i know she Still has some feelings for me, or she wouldnt be staying in contact. Im willing just to leave her alone at this point and let things happen on their own. If you could give me your thoughts on this, i Would appreciate it, and please be brutally honest!
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • What does she mean by this comment? ladies help, 10 pts?

    I dated a girl in a long distance relationship for 8 months. In the last month it got pretty rocky. We both knew it wasnt going to work considering the distance. She told me it wasn't working and told me that if i moved closer, she wanted to start over. We got into a couple arguments over this and i admit i acted childish over the way I handled... show more
    I dated a girl in a long distance relationship for 8 months. In the last month it got pretty rocky. We both knew it wasnt going to work considering the distance. She told me it wasn't working and told me that if i moved closer, she wanted to start over. We got into a couple arguments over this and i admit i acted childish over the way I handled it and she pointed this out, telling me i have growing up to do and that maybe im not ready. Im 28 and right now i do know what i want. Shes been really distant lately, taking her time answering my texts, and only texts me when she wants to know what im up to. I told her a couple days ago that i would be open to the idea of starting over and that time will. She comes back with "i havent found what makes me happy yet, only time will tell." What does this mean when shes using the same words in her response? Am i supposed to take it literally by what shes saying, or read into it? What she truly wants is to be done or for me to get my s##t together and try again if The time comes? I adore this women and i know she still has feelings left for me, or she Wouldnt be staying in contact. Any advice?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • What does she mean by this? ladies? quick 10 pts?

    I will make this short as possible without leaving any details. Dated a girl for about 8 months, which was long distance to begin with (2 hrs). It went great for the first 6 months but then things got rocky about a month ago. She told me it wasn't working out for her. Arguments got started over this and I didn't take them well. I admit i... show more
    I will make this short as possible without leaving any details. Dated a girl for about 8 months, which was long distance to begin with (2 hrs). It went great for the first 6 months but then things got rocky about a month ago. She told me it wasn't working out for her. Arguments got started over this and I didn't take them well. I admit i acted childish and needy by apologizing and trying to make sense of it to her, and she pointed my behavior out to me and very clearly didnt like it. I believe this led to her losing alot of interest in me. Right now shes been extremely distant, and only texts to see what im up to. I send friendly texts that go unanswered, and she only replies when she feels like it. She told me at one point that if i moved there, she wanted to start over ( i planned this move before i met her, for a career opportunity coming up). i told her this about a week ago "im open to starting over if you want to give it another try and that time will tell." She comes back with "i know what i want and havent found it yet, only time will tell." What does she mean by this? That shes not interested anymore or is she waiting on me? Shes also used the marilyn monroe quote, saying " everything happens for a reason" in some of her texts she sent me . If you could, read it, and help me make sense of this. Right now im questioning if she ever took the relationship as seriously as i did. Reading this quote tells me two different scenarios... ive changed for the worse and shes letting me go, or something good went wrong and shes waiting for something better to happen with us. there still a chance of making something work or is it time to let go? You can call me an idiot, because im probably looking to far in to this. But i appreciate any help! Thanks!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • What do her mixed signals mean? ladies help me!?

    I will make this short as possible without leaving any details. Dated a girl for about 8 months, which was long distance to begin with (2 hrs). It went great for the first 6 months but then things got rocky about a month ago. She told me it wasn't working out for her. Arguments got started over this and I didn't take them well. I admit i... show more
    I will make this short as possible without leaving any details. Dated a girl for about 8 months, which was long distance to begin with (2 hrs). It went great for the first 6 months but then things got rocky about a month ago. She told me it wasn't working out for her. Arguments got started over this and I didn't take them well. I admit i acted childish and needy by apologizing and trying to make sense of it to her, and she pointed my behavior out to me and very clearly didnt like it. I believe this led to her losing alot of interest in me. Right now shes been extremely distant, and only texts to see what im up to. I send friendly texts that go unanswered, and she only replies when she feels like it. She told me at one point that if i moved there, she wanted to start over ( i planned this move before i met her, for a career opportunity coming up). i told her this about a week ago "im open to starting over if you want to give it another try and that time will tell." She comes back with "i know what i want and havent found it yet, only time will tell." What does she mean by this? That shes not interested anymore or is she waiting on me? Shes also used the marilyn monroe quote, saying " everything happens for a reason" in some of her texts she sent me . If you could, read it, and help me make sense of this. Right now im questioning if she ever took the relationship as seriously as i did. Reading this quote tells me two different scenarios... ive changed for the worse and shes letting me go, or something good went wrong and shes waiting for something better to happen with us. there still a chance of making something work or is it time to let go? You can call me an idiot, because im probably looking to far in to this. But i appreciate any help! Thanks!
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • What does she want from me right now? quick 10 pts?

    This might be long but ill try to make this as short as possible. I recently broke up with a girl in a long distance relationship of about 6 months about a month ago. We met while i was visiting family in my hometown. Things went smooth with her until about a month ago, when we got into an argument. There had been quite a few with both of us... show more
    This might be long but ill try to make this as short as possible. I recently broke up with a girl in a long distance relationship of about 6 months about a month ago. We met while i was visiting family in my hometown. Things went smooth with her until about a month ago, when we got into an argument. There had been quite a few with both of us expressing our frustrations. She told me the long distance wasn't working. Ever since that last argument, shes been extremely cold to me. She went as far as calling me a child because of my behavior (me getting upset with her and telling her shes playing games with my head.) One of the last things she mentioned in our last phone conversation was that she wanted to start over if i moved, which we discussed at one point. But just recently, shes been giving me mixed signals. Only texts when she wants to know what i'm up to, in a sense to keep tabs on me. I've tried to initiate a few conversations, only to have her respond a day later, and being short with me. I honestly don't know what she wants from me right now. the last time i came down, she refused to spend any time with me, saying she was busy. After a week of no contact I texted and told her that after i move, id be open to the idea of starting over and that only time will tell. She comes back with " i don't know what i want, i mean i do, but just haven't found it yet, only time will tell". Am i supposed to read into this to find out what she wants? i told her that i'm tired of her pushing me away and i cant do this anymore. Unfriended her on fb and told her i have to cut all ties with her. She got upset with me saying this so i know she cares and still wants something. SHE JUST WONT STRAIGHT UP TELL ME! I must add, based on what shes told me about her past, shes been cheated on by her last boyfriend of three years It tells me she might by emotionally unavailable right now and is afraid of commitment. Any advice on what to do?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • What does this mean? i need advice! 10 pts for good answers?

    This might be long but ill try to make this as short as possible. I recently broke up with a girl in a long distance relationship of about 6 months about a month ago. We met while i was visiting family in my hometown. Things went smooth with her until about a month ago, when we got into an argument. There had been quite a few with both of us... show more
    This might be long but ill try to make this as short as possible. I recently broke up with a girl in a long distance relationship of about 6 months about a month ago. We met while i was visiting family in my hometown. Things went smooth with her until about a month ago, when we got into an argument. There had been quite a few with both of us expressing our frustrations. She told me the long distance wasn't working. Ever since that last argument, shes been extremely cold to me. She went as far as calling me a child because of my behavior (me getting upset with her and telling her shes playing games with my head.) One of the last things she mentioned in our last phone conversation was that she wanted to start over if i moved, which we discussed at one point. But just recently, shes been giving me mixed signals. There's times where i wont hear from her, and only when she wants to know what i'm up to, in a sense to keep tabs on me. I've tried to initiate a few conversations, only to have her respond a day later, and being short with me. I honestly don't know what she wants from me right now. the last time i came down, she refused to spend any time with me, saying she was busy. After a week of no contact I texted and told her that after i move, id be open to the idea of starting over and that only time will tell. She comes back with " i don't know what i want, i mean i do, but just haven't found it yet, only time will tell". Am i supposed to read into this to find out what she wants? i just told her that i'm tired of her pushing me away and i cant do this anymore. Unfriended her on fb and told her i have to cut all ties with her. She got upset with me saying this so i know she cares and still wants something. SHE JUST WONT STRAIGHT UP TELL ME! I must add, based on what shes told me about her past, shes been cheated on by her last boyfriend of three years It tells me she might by emotionally unavailable right now and is afraid of commitment. Any advice on what to do?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 years ago
  • Dating an emotionally unavailable girl, need advice?

    I've been dating a girl for about 6 months now and right now its getting pretty rocky. we live 2 hrs apart and that has been making it extremely difficult to see each other. Arguments have stemmed from this and frustrations grew. The thing is, we didn't meet in a way two people should meet (met her in a bar, but it wasn't a one night... show more
    I've been dating a girl for about 6 months now and right now its getting pretty rocky. we live 2 hrs apart and that has been making it extremely difficult to see each other. Arguments have stemmed from this and frustrations grew. The thing is, we didn't meet in a way two people should meet (met her in a bar, but it wasn't a one night stand or casual hookup to start.) Our relationship grew from just meeting each other for drinks, dinner, hanging out with her friends and then the same next time i come to visit. We got very close, but in the last month, shes been really cold to me. Shes mentioned things that have happened to her with the last guy she was with (3 years and she was cheated on). Reading into what shes saying, tells me she has a trust issue with me. Right now i'm feeling like a rebound, just a guy to fill in a void. I feel like we are on two different pages right now and she doesn't seem all that interested anymore. I don't know even know if its something i said or did, to be honest. All Shes told me is that if i move closer, we could start fresh, and see where things go, which i suggested since i have family in the same town. I'm not sure what to do. My gut tells me to walk away, but i don't want to give up that easily. Any Thoughts or suggestions?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Dating an emotionally unavailable girl, need advice?

    Ive been dating a girl for about 6 months now and right now its getting pretty rocky. we live 2 hrs apart and that has been making it extremely difficult to see eachother. Arguments have stemmed from this and frustrations grew. The thing is, we didnt meet in a way two people should meet (met her in a bar, but it wasnt a one night stand or casual... show more
    Ive been dating a girl for about 6 months now and right now its getting pretty rocky. we live 2 hrs apart and that has been making it extremely difficult to see eachother. Arguments have stemmed from this and frustrations grew. The thing is, we didnt meet in a way two people should meet (met her in a bar, but it wasnt a one night stand or casual hookup.) Our relationship grew from just meeting each other for drinks, dinner, and then the same next time i come to visit. We got close, but in the last month, shes been really cold to me. Shes mentioned things that Have happened to her with the last guy she was with (3 years and she was cheated on) Right now im feeling like a rebound. Just a guy to fill in a void. All Shes told me is that if i move closer, we could start fresh, and see where things go. Right now im not sure what to do. Any suggestions? My gut tells me to walk away. Dont know what to do.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Should i keep pursuing her? need advice!?

    I was dating a girl for about six months, met her while visiting my brother back home and we just recently broke things off. It was a long distance relationship to begin with, which made seeing her difficult.Usually every other weekend when i came to visit my family. I had discussed moving there to be there with her, and also to be closer to... show more
    I was dating a girl for about six months, met her while visiting my brother back home and we just recently broke things off. It was a long distance relationship to begin with, which made seeing her difficult.Usually every other weekend when i came to visit my family. I had discussed moving there to be there with her, and also to be closer to family i dont see often. She told me the long distance thing wasnt working for her and She anticipated me moving their and "start over", considering the situation we were in made me frustrated and bitter feelings came out between us. Arguing on the phone, mean text messages, and jealousy on her part because i believe she has a trust issue with me. She even went as far to tell me im childish because of a few arguments we had and i walked out on. Im not the type of person to sit and argue, apologize, then have it rubbed in my face, like im still the bad guy and im being punished. Its been two weeks now with no contact between us. The last time she texted me she kept prying, asking me why im still "in a relationship" on facebook (i forgot to change it) and her telling me shes still interested in me. Its like shes waiting for me to make a move. My question is, do i contact her again and ask if she wants to hang out again, or just leave her be for now? I Still have feelings for her and i know she does too. I Just dont want to push things with her any farther than i have to. Thanks in advance.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Long distance relationship going bad,?

    This might be kind of long, but i need advice. I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now. Its a two hour drive and we had been seeing each other every other weekend. I have family in the same town so it worked out great. We met in a bar, which should be a red flag, since i dont normally do that. I got her number and we hit it off great.... show more
    This might be kind of long, but i need advice. I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now. Its a two hour drive and we had been seeing each other every other weekend. I have family in the same town so it worked out great. We met in a bar, which should be a red flag, since i dont normally do that. I got her number and we hit it off great. Did everything we could think of together . She told me she had been in two 3 year relationships, in both she was cheated on. She said she is estranged from her father, which should be another red flag to me to just walk away, but anyways, she has become distant, shutting me out and not wanting to talk to me. This came after a heated argument, which there have become more and more of in the last couple times ive visited. She said the long distance thing wasnt workung and telling me that i dont think im ready to be committed to her, which is not true, since i made every attempt to be with her. I told her that maybe we should take a break, and she agreed. Last talk on the phone, she said if i ever move there, which we talked about in the past, that maybe we could start fresh. I told her I wasnt sure we could unless i did and that we would have to work out our differences. I decided to give her some space and not talk to her, but im surprised after a week, i havent heard a word from her. This came completely out of nowhere, and oddly, right after the last argument we had. Im starting to think im just a rebound, maybe even a guy she was looking just to sleep with when we first met, and right now she isnt looking for a committed relationship. I believe she was looking for an escape, and this her way of telling me. Right now i dont know what to do, walk away, or let some time pass and wait for her to come around again. I dont want to give up, but maybe im blind to whats going on. Your thoughts?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 years ago
  • Hiding future posts from certain people?

    My question is, can a person hide future posts, likes, comments, etc from just one friend, and permanently hide all activity without putting them on restricted list. Reason is, my gf has been acting odd lately, and shes maybe trying to hide her fb statuses from me.
    My question is, can a person hide future posts, likes, comments, etc from just one friend, and permanently hide all activity without putting them on restricted list. Reason is, my gf has been acting odd lately, and shes maybe trying to hide her fb statuses from me.
    3 answers · Facebook · 6 years ago
  • Facebook restricted list question?

    I have kind of a difficult question here, but i need some help. My girlfriend unfriended me because of an argument we had then wants to be friends again after. Since then, shes been distant toward me and it seems like shes hiding her facebook activity from me. How do i know if she put me on her restricted list? Because she would post and like and... show more
    I have kind of a difficult question here, but i need some help. My girlfriend unfriended me because of an argument we had then wants to be friends again after. Since then, shes been distant toward me and it seems like shes hiding her facebook activity from me. How do i know if she put me on her restricted list? Because she would post and like and comment on random things pretty much everyday, and now i see only one random post from her in over a week, which was on mothers day. I can still view her profile, pics, old posts, etc. Next question is, is their a way a person can hide future posts from just one friend? (Me, for example). I think its odd because it seems like shes hiding her activities and spying on me at the same time. Im using the mobile version btw, and i see her active everyday, only briefly. And most of the time its moments after i sign in. Sorry for such a long post and please, no bashing me. Only looking for honest answers.
    1 answer · Facebook · 6 years ago