• Would you try to repair a relationship with someone who belittles your so and told you on your wedding day "well, nothing is permanent"?

    My Moh started being very condescending to my fiance as the wedding started to get closer. It really bothered me, so I pulled back and mentioned to her that sometimes the way she speaks to him is hurtful. Day of wedding, hair stylist asked if I was nervous and I said I had butterflies at the rehearsal but they faded quickly. Moh says "well,... show more
    My Moh started being very condescending to my fiance as the wedding started to get closer. It really bothered me, so I pulled back and mentioned to her that sometimes the way she speaks to him is hurtful. Day of wedding, hair stylist asked if I was nervous and I said I had butterflies at the rehearsal but they faded quickly. Moh says "well, nothing is permanent!" I took it in but let it roll off as I wanted to enjoy the day. When I told hubby, he was floored. She realized something was up after the wedding (even though for months prior we weren t really hanging out much) and we all went to dinner to talk. She starts crying telling us how much she loves us and is obvious to the things she says. Because she started crying, we never had the chance to tell her what really bugged us because we spent the time consoling her. After that, she only texted when she needed something from me-ride to work, help with a shower, repairing her home. I ve texted and called after our fave shows aired or see how she is doing I just feel so bad this has happened and know I am part of the issue for not being direct and I want to fix it but I don t know if I want to be around someone who talks to me or hubby like this and who makes me feel used.
    8 answers · Friends · 2 months ago