• Dating and feeling insecure about my body?

    So I’m 21, and single. I’m a guy and I haven’t really tried hard enough to find a girlfriend because I’m scared that they will see me as a nice attractive guy on the outside but once it gets to the next level and we get naked they will change their mind because of my body. I’m not fat I just lack the toned look so I’m worried :( Am I overthinking... show more
    So I’m 21, and single. I’m a guy and I haven’t really tried hard enough to find a girlfriend because I’m scared that they will see me as a nice attractive guy on the outside but once it gets to the next level and we get naked they will change their mind because of my body. I’m not fat I just lack the toned look so I’m worried :( Am I overthinking this? It’s really holding me back. I need your advice
    2 answers · Friends · 2 months ago
  • What do you do in your free time?

    In my free time I do some study or watch YouTube. Like I feel depressed because I don't have friends I can hang with and do stuff so I just walk around the house all day, what can i do? :(
    In my free time I do some study or watch YouTube. Like I feel depressed because I don't have friends I can hang with and do stuff so I just walk around the house all day, what can i do? :(
    2 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • Why has my friend stopped texting me?

    I met a new friend and we’ve hung out twice. The last time we hung out was almost 3 weeks go. Before then he would send me a message at least each week . But for some reason he’s one quiet and that was since I last saw him when I slept the night at he’s house. I’m kind of unsure why he would stop talking too me , he claims he’s been extremely busy... show more
    I met a new friend and we’ve hung out twice. The last time we hung out was almost 3 weeks go. Before then he would send me a message at least each week . But for some reason he’s one quiet and that was since I last saw him when I slept the night at he’s house. I’m kind of unsure why he would stop talking too me , he claims he’s been extremely busy at work but I’m not sure. If I text him he will answer but he just stopped initiating. What can I say to him without seeming to clingy?
    2 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • Why is everyone always so busy with friends with their lives?

    It seems everyone I know is always with friends, hanging out, going out for dinners, and just always busy. I’m feeling depressed because I don’t have friends I can hang out with , if I’m not studying I’m working and if I’m not working I’m just sitting at home all day bored . Some days I just cry constantly because of it. I feel so ashamed , and... show more
    It seems everyone I know is always with friends, hanging out, going out for dinners, and just always busy. I’m feeling depressed because I don’t have friends I can hang out with , if I’m not studying I’m working and if I’m not working I’m just sitting at home all day bored . Some days I just cry constantly because of it. I feel so ashamed , and when people ask me what I do for fun I can’t even answer that . What can I do? :(
    3 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • How do I stop feeling attached to someone and being jealous?

    I only have a few friends, most of them barely talk to me. And to be honest if I disappeared I doubt any of them would notice :( Anyway, I meet a new friend on Tinder, and we went to the movies last week, meeting for the first time, he said I looked uncomfortable and so I explained to him that I have anxiety. And he was fine with it. A week later... show more
    I only have a few friends, most of them barely talk to me. And to be honest if I disappeared I doubt any of them would notice :( Anyway, I meet a new friend on Tinder, and we went to the movies last week, meeting for the first time, he said I looked uncomfortable and so I explained to him that I have anxiety. And he was fine with it. A week later he invited me to he's house for some drinks with him and a couple of he's friends. I did feel awkward because they all knew each other pretty well and were all talking about going to music festivals and were planning some more. I kind of felt jealous because it seemed like he had tonnes of friends. He is so nice to me, i don't know whether thats because he's gay and he likes me or not. Why do I always feel so attached to new friends? If he has tonnes of friends why would he want to be my friend? And how on earth do I stop feeling jealous about him having heaps of friend?
    4 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • How to be more social when I'm an introvert?

    So I made a new friend on Tinder, and we have hung out a few times but I always can't think of anything too say, its like an awkward silence. What do I do? Last night he invited me for some drinks and he had some other friends there. I felt strange since they were all talking about music festivals they were planning to go too and friends, I had... show more
    So I made a new friend on Tinder, and we have hung out a few times but I always can't think of anything too say, its like an awkward silence. What do I do? Last night he invited me for some drinks and he had some other friends there. I felt strange since they were all talking about music festivals they were planning to go too and friends, I had no idea who these people were. That night he said I could crash for the night, so I slept in he's bed. When I woke up he asked if he could je*k and I was fine with it. But I felt awkward because I was laying there with my eyes closed. How do I become much better at talking and being more social to avoid these awkward situations?
    4 answers · Friends · 3 months ago
  • Why does my car take a few seconds to start up and fuel goes fast?

    So I have a Volkswagen Trendline 2007 Diesel. For a while my car takes a little while to start up, usually only when I leave the car off for a while. At first I thought its my battery but I got a car service and my battery test was fine. Now my car petrol is going fairly quickly. If I drive to the city, 74KM(45 Miles) my petrol will go down a fair... show more
    So I have a Volkswagen Trendline 2007 Diesel. For a while my car takes a little while to start up, usually only when I leave the car off for a while. At first I thought its my battery but I got a car service and my battery test was fine. Now my car petrol is going fairly quickly. If I drive to the city, 74KM(45 Miles) my petrol will go down a fair bit. For a diesel car this is very unusual!! Do you think my fuel filter is the problem here?
    5 answers · Maintenance & Repairs · 4 months ago
  • How to deal with an attention seeker at work?

    Theres this guy who will be working with me this month and he's always making jokes and getting all the attention. Its frustrating because while I do enjoy some jokes, sometimes it gets too much and he can be bossy, especially that Ive been in the company far more longer than him. He gets so much attention, sometimes I feel like everyone... show more
    Theres this guy who will be working with me this month and he's always making jokes and getting all the attention. Its frustrating because while I do enjoy some jokes, sometimes it gets too much and he can be bossy, especially that Ive been in the company far more longer than him. He gets so much attention, sometimes I feel like everyone pushes me away and i start feeling depressed about it, I'm already lonely enough. What can I do?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • Does social media make people look busier than what they are?

    It seems heaps of people are always posting pictures of themselves with friends or at weddings or doing stuff and I’m alone with barely any friends. So does social media make people look busier than what they actually are?
    It seems heaps of people are always posting pictures of themselves with friends or at weddings or doing stuff and I’m alone with barely any friends. So does social media make people look busier than what they actually are?
    3 answers · Friends · 5 months ago
  • I have no friends outside of work and I’m feeling lonely and crying !?

    How do I make friends at my age of 21. I’m a guy . Seems like everyone at work gets tonnes of messages from friends and I’m lucky to even get 1 message :( it’s like I’m nobody to anyone and I’ve been having thoughts on life in general and don’t know what to do? :(
    How do I make friends at my age of 21. I’m a guy . Seems like everyone at work gets tonnes of messages from friends and I’m lucky to even get 1 message :( it’s like I’m nobody to anyone and I’ve been having thoughts on life in general and don’t know what to do? :(
    1 answer · Friends · 5 months ago
  • Why does my manager act like he likes me one day and not the other day?

    So last night I went to a christmas party for work and the drinks were free so it was fun. Anyway my manager kept hugging me then sometimes he would kiss my cheek. A couple of times he slapped my butt. When I was waiting for my Uber to get home and we said bye he grabbed my bum and slapped it. Does he have some type of feeling for me? He does... show more
    So last night I went to a christmas party for work and the drinks were free so it was fun. Anyway my manager kept hugging me then sometimes he would kiss my cheek. A couple of times he slapped my butt. When I was waiting for my Uber to get home and we said bye he grabbed my bum and slapped it. Does he have some type of feeling for me? He does have a girlfriend so I am confused but that, but might he secretly like me? He told me he's pretty immune to alcohol and he didn't seem that drunk compared to me. Thoughts? Also it’s like one day he seems to show a bit of care and the next day he acts like all straight and cool like “hey man” , why is that?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago
  • Give me a reason as to why I should live? Depression is crushing me :(?

    I’m 21 year old male . I’m probably the most down to earth person you’ll meet. I’m respectful, genuine and I don’t judge anyone . I do have social anxiety and it makes me nervous in social situations. I used to have a Bestfriend and I was so happy but we both parted ways :( since then(4 years ago) I’ve struggled through day and night trying to... show more
    I’m 21 year old male . I’m probably the most down to earth person you’ll meet. I’m respectful, genuine and I don’t judge anyone . I do have social anxiety and it makes me nervous in social situations. I used to have a Bestfriend and I was so happy but we both parted ways :( since then(4 years ago) I’ve struggled through day and night trying to recover. Here I am 4 years later, I feel miserable, depressed, anxious, I feel confused and lost. I am lonely . Everyone at work has a busy life with friends and are in relationships. Here I am, single, posting my feelings online. I constantly feel like crying because there are days where I feel everyone is against me or hates me . Nobody messages me , only if they need something. What is the point in living? My life is already over as we know it! :(
    3 answers · Friends · 5 months ago
  • Why did my manager keep hugging and kissing me then slapped my ***?

    So last night I went to a christmas party for work and the drinks were free so it was fun. Anyway my manager kept hugging me then sometimes he would kiss my cheek. A couple of times he slapped my butt. When I was waiting for my Uber to get home and we said bye he grabbed my *** and slapped it. Does he have some type of feeling for me? He does... show more
    So last night I went to a christmas party for work and the drinks were free so it was fun. Anyway my manager kept hugging me then sometimes he would kiss my cheek. A couple of times he slapped my butt. When I was waiting for my Uber to get home and we said bye he grabbed my *** and slapped it. Does he have some type of feeling for me? He does have a girlfriend so I am confused but that, but might he secretly like me? He told me he's pretty immune to alcohol and he didn't seem that drunk compared to me. Thoughts?
    7 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 5 months ago
  • Why do I look skinny from the front but fat from the side :( ?

    I’m really feeling down about my body , I look skinny with a shirt on from the front but underneath I look horrible and from the side I look fat :( Photo of me: https://imgur.com/a/hAGjt I’ve been doing excersice for the last week and I feel good but haven’t seen much difference. Some say I’m fat some say I’m skinny :( it’s making me feel down... show more
    I’m really feeling down about my body , I look skinny with a shirt on from the front but underneath I look horrible and from the side I look fat :( Photo of me: https://imgur.com/a/hAGjt I’ve been doing excersice for the last week and I feel good but haven’t seen much difference. Some say I’m fat some say I’m skinny :( it’s making me feel down ,I’m feeling like I’m never going to have a girlfriend looking the way I am inside , what do I do?
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 5 months ago
  • Can you send songs on Snapchat?

    Someone on Youtube wants me to add them on snapchat and send them some songs, how do I do that? Just link them to the song in the Snapchat Chat?
    Someone on Youtube wants me to add them on snapchat and send them some songs, how do I do that? Just link them to the song in the Snapchat Chat?
    1 answer · PDAs & Handhelds · 6 months ago
  • Why is everyone so busy but me?

    All my friends at work are always going out to dinners, clubs or just doing something with their friends and family. Occasionally we all go out together from work. But the thing is I study online at home, I work and I never have anything exciting to do, nobody ever messages me "hey lets go to dinner tonight". etc. Im almost 21 and I feel... show more
    All my friends at work are always going out to dinners, clubs or just doing something with their friends and family. Occasionally we all go out together from work. But the thing is I study online at home, I work and I never have anything exciting to do, nobody ever messages me "hey lets go to dinner tonight". etc. Im almost 21 and I feel pathetic that I never have anything to do :( Why is everyone else so popular and have so much friends and I don't ?
    3 answers · Friends · 6 months ago
  • How to deal with parents that always ask who your going out with?

    I Live at home and Im 21 in a week. I can't move out yet because Im paying off my car. So when I was younger I used to lie about going to work so I could hang out with my friends, I was like 13, 14, because I knew my mum would say no. Anyway I don't lie anymore obviously, it seems when I tell her I'm going out like "to the... show more
    I Live at home and Im 21 in a week. I can't move out yet because Im paying off my car. So when I was younger I used to lie about going to work so I could hang out with my friends, I was like 13, 14, because I knew my mum would say no. Anyway I don't lie anymore obviously, it seems when I tell her I'm going out like "to the movies" she always questions "who with?" Its really annoying and It doesn't help me since I'm trying to find new friends shell just question how I even know these people. What can i do? Should I just not care since I'm legally an adult now?
    9 answers · Friends · 6 months ago
  • Why am I getting nullPointerException in Java?

    I need to search through an array to find an object but assuming the arrays are partially full. This is my code, but its not working, what am I doing wrong here? private static void postMessage() { System.out.println("Post Message Feature"); System.out.println(); // implement your code for Stage 2 Requirement... show more
    I need to search through an array to find an object but assuming the arrays are partially full. This is my code, but its not working, what am I doing wrong here? private static void postMessage() { System.out.println("Post Message Feature"); System.out.println(); // implement your code for Stage 2 Requirement C) here //temp reference for search ItemSale found = null; System.out.print("Enter Item Number of ItemSale: "); String itemNumber = sc.nextLine(); for(int i = 0; i < sales.length; i ++) { if(sales[i].getItemNumber().equals(itemN... found = sales[i]; //if the search has failed if(found == null) { System.out.println("Item Number: " + itemNumber + " not found!"); } else { System.out.print("Enter Message: "); String message = sc.nextLine(); sales[i].addMessage(message); System.out.println("Message posted successfully for item " + itemNumber); } } }
    3 answers · Programming & Design · 6 months ago
  • I feel sad and depressed but why do people keep away from me? No sympathy?

    I have depression and long story short I feel lonely sad , I have no friends beside work friends. People seem to care but sometimes some people kind of have no sympathy for it and just say “go see a doctor” . What do I do in this situation?
    I have depression and long story short I feel lonely sad , I have no friends beside work friends. People seem to care but sometimes some people kind of have no sympathy for it and just say “go see a doctor” . What do I do in this situation?
    2 answers · Mental Health · 6 months ago
  • How do I ask someone for there Snapchat?

    I get along with my manager really well so its not like it would be strange to ask, but I don't know how to ask without feeling creepy or creeping him out. Any tips? I have anxiety so maybe I'm thinking to much !
    I get along with my manager really well so its not like it would be strange to ask, but I don't know how to ask without feeling creepy or creeping him out. Any tips? I have anxiety so maybe I'm thinking to much !
    2 answers · Friends · 7 months ago