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  • I put in my notice from my job. They want me to sign a termination release - do I need to sign?

    In the release it doesn’t clarify that I quit. I don’t want anything to imply that I was fired just in case it will affect me in the future. Should I sign? Why isn’t my resignation letter enough?

    3 AnswersLaw & Legal2 weeks ago
  • Credit repair question (Canada)?

    When I was 18 I signed up for a gym and defaulted on my payments and they sent

    the balance to collections. That was almost 4 years ago. Should I wait until the 7 years is up or pay it off? If I negotiate with the collections agency to pay it off in full and immediately will they take it off my credit report? What advice do you have for someone in my position? Believe me I’ve learned my lesson 

    4 AnswersCredit3 months ago
  • I got arrested and charged with domestic violence at 12 in Scottsdale, Arizona. I’m an adult now is everything off my record?

    I did a diversion program. Also please don’t judge me my mother was extremely unstable and sometimes verbally abusive at the time and she and her then boyfriend fabricated a story because she was angry with me. I didn’t purposely hurt anyone and I was a kid and I was scared and I should have fought it. Not that anyone cares I could just do without the judgement 

    3 AnswersLaw & Ethics5 months ago
  • Am I a narcissist/sociopath?

    Most of the time I am am empathetic toward others but at other times I will say whatever I want and do whatever is necessary to get what I want especially when it comes to my boyfriend. I don’t think im a full sociopath because I definitely have empathy, it’s just when I’m angry you are dead to me and I have no problem REALLY ******* you over. Nothing really made me this way I’ve just been this way for as long as I can remember. I want to know if I have sociopathic tendencies or I’m just a psycho ***** lol help 

    2 AnswersPsychology6 months ago
  • My uncle smokes and it makes me sick ?

    My uncle is disabled and always wants me to get a coffee with him while he’s in the car going through the drive thru. We sit in his car for hours and he chain smokes and it really bothers me but I don’t want to be mean to him. What should I say or do when he starts smoking? It’s obviously his choice but I’ve started to avoid him because of it. I hate smelling like smoke and it makes my throat hurt

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 months ago
  • Doctor is giving me anxiety lol?

    Last week went to go see my doc for birth control and he sent me for some tests beforehand. 

    Today they call me and tell me that both my boyfriend and I need to come in?! Is it an std or what lol

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 months ago
  • Unfair criticisms by my boss? ?

    I had my first serving shift EVER last night. for context read below. I would like advice on how to deal w/ the owner. 

    -owner is manipulative, cruel, and unjust (not just my opinion, in my city there are threads about him from former employees and customers who say they won’t be back because of how he yells and belittles staff in front of them)

    -staff warned me he was in a bad mood

    -berated next the whole time for following reasons

    -forgot to bring chips, didn’t bring water to table that said they didn’t want water (keep in mind water isn’t free so I don’t want to force them to pay for something they don’t want) 

    - I was bringing dirty dishes to the dishwasher and someone else left dirty dishes on the pass, my hands were full and I couldn’t grab them so I put those dishes in the sink and when I turned around he was there and told me I was insulting him and when I tried to explain he got angry. Coworkers apologized to me 

    -threw my pad when I showed him an order for a table at his request since it was my first shift 

    -took me off serving and had me bussing

    - asked me to do something I’ve never been trained on doing. I started to fill chips in bags and then he got mad and showed me his way (which was more effective but again first time doing it)  and told me that I will know by the end of tonight whether or not I have common sense or I should be working at McDonald’s down the street (in front of customers,btw) 

    -pulled me into his office w manager and told me how bad I look 

    5 AnswersLaw & Ethics8 months ago
  • Fitbit Versa 2 or Apple Watch?

    I mostly want it for calories and steps tracking but I like the message feature on Apple Watch. Opinions? Which is better and more accurate?

  • Should I call to follow up about a job?

    I got hired somewhere and came 

    on for a trial shift. The manager said I did amazing, and when I asked if I’d get a call back to finalize my training schedule she said yes but it’s been four days and she hasn’t called me. Did I mess it up by asking her? Should I call her?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 months ago
  • Heeeelp did I mess up?

    So I just got hired at had my first trial shift. Manager said this shift will determine if I’m brought on permanently. I just finished and she said I did amazingly and I said (in what I meant to be a joking manner but idk if it came off that way) so are you guys going to call me back then? She nodded yes but idk why I feel so embarrassed did I **** up?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • Fundraiser ideas! HELP!?

    For my university I’m in a project management class and I have been selected as project manager. My uncles own a huge sports bar and I think it would be fun to host our event there, but how do I drive people there? What can we do for the actual fundraiser? I’ve thought about a silent auction but I’d like some other ideas as well. 

    1 AnswerHomework Help9 months ago
  • Whats a really unique fundraising idea?

    I’m the project manager for a school project where I’m raising money for my program. I think I’ll host it at my uncles sports bar but I’m looking for ideas?

    2 AnswersPrimary & Secondary Education9 months ago
  • Tips for holding a tray full of drinks and holding a tray full of food in general?

    It’s the only thing I’m worried about as a server 

    4 AnswersFast Food9 months ago
  • Is tip pooling bad?

    Just got hired at a restaurant where they have tip pooling and I’m wondering if it’s a bad thing?

    9 AnswersMaintenance & Repairs9 months ago
  • What’s a polite way to say I don’t need your permission ?

    Long story short, my boss promoted this girl to “director” but made it very clear she’s not our boss and just there to help managers where we need her. She keeps stepping on my toes so I need a clever way to tell her to **** off without really saying it

    3 AnswersLaw & Ethics9 months ago
  • Should I get an Apple Watch or a Fitbit?

    I’m more interested in the fitness aspect of things. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • Labour law question in Alberta?

    I’m a manager of a beauty studio in Alberta. I’m required by my boss to wake up on weekends when I’m not working and coach my team and be available to them when I’m off. I’m never really “off the clock” meaning I’m always expected to participate in group chats when I’m not working and I’m not paid for it. I’m not paid a salary- this is an hourly job. If this is legal I’ll shut up about it, but it seems to me I’m working a salary job for an hourly wage?

    4 AnswersLaw & Ethics9 months ago
  • How long until I can get abs/fitness tips?

    Hi! I’m 5’1 and 130 lbs. I don’t have any muscle, and my dream body is Ariana james’ aka @ariana on Instagram. I know it doesn’t happen overnight, but how do I get a body like that and how do I create a meal plan? At what point should I hire a trainer?

    2 AnswersDiet & Fitness9 months ago
  • Who do you invite to big weddings?

    I don’t get it. I just can’t wrap my head around it because I don’t even know 100 people I suppose. If I were to get married tomorrow I would only have my family and two close friends to invite. Big wedding people, let me pick your brain! Lol

    24 AnswersEngagements & Weddings9 months ago
  • Colonization double standard?

    Why is there such a double standard in regards to colonization in North America? Throughout history practically every territory colonized and enslaved other territories, but people in North America conveniently forget that and hold colonization of the native Americans to a different standard? To me, this sentiment is almost uniquely North American and I’m wondering why?

    5 AnswersOther - Cultures & Groups10 months ago