• Is a courthouse wedding then a surprise party down the road ok?

    Any way to include just your parents at the courthouse? In any case, its your life and you should do what you want, but I think if both your parents are alive they'd want to be there.
    Any way to include just your parents at the courthouse? In any case, its your life and you should do what you want, but I think if both your parents are alive they'd want to be there.
    19 answers · Weddings · 3 weeks ago
  • Why is he so afraid of being controlled by me?

    Are you a very assertive person? Do you try to boss him around? Do you give him the ability to discuss things and work them out together? We don't know what his past is like, but if you treat him with respect and as an equal, it should work out.
    Are you a very assertive person? Do you try to boss him around? Do you give him the ability to discuss things and work them out together? We don't know what his past is like, but if you treat him with respect and as an equal, it should work out.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Question about guys not meeting up?

    So maybe you need to slow down a little. Quit being so clingy and asking them over and over to hang out. Give the guys a chance to ask you. I think you are coming on too strong to these guys and scaring them away. So don't break your phone. Instead relax, be friendly but don't ask them first, be a little hard to get and they will find... show more
    So maybe you need to slow down a little. Quit being so clingy and asking them over and over to hang out. Give the guys a chance to ask you. I think you are coming on too strong to these guys and scaring them away. So don't break your phone. Instead relax, be friendly but don't ask them first, be a little hard to get and they will find you more interesting.
    1 answer · Friends · 3 weeks ago
  • I’m dating a guy who has opposite political and religious views.... he’s the sweetest guy and we click well together and I had asked him in?

    The answer to your question is such a personal one no stranger can really offer a clear answer. Many people with different views date, get married and have kids and things work out fine. The important ingredient is that you both allow the other to have their own views and respect them. You can have discussions and disagree as all couples do, but... show more
    The answer to your question is such a personal one no stranger can really offer a clear answer. Many people with different views date, get married and have kids and things work out fine. The important ingredient is that you both allow the other to have their own views and respect them. You can have discussions and disagree as all couples do, but you can't make it personal based on religion. If you can do that and you are a mature person, your family and friends need to respect your decisons and mind their own business.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Am I being unreasonable or is my husband being a chiid?

    Some things to consider: His gaming may be his calming place. Where he can relax and escape some tension and anxiety. Kind of like his psychiatrist, only much cheaper. If you can get to the root of why he loves his game so much, maybe you can both move toward an understanding of his needs vs the family money needs and come up with a... show more
    Some things to consider: His gaming may be his calming place. Where he can relax and escape some tension and anxiety. Kind of like his psychiatrist, only much cheaper. If you can get to the root of why he loves his game so much, maybe you can both move toward an understanding of his needs vs the family money needs and come up with a compromise. Yelling and accusing him of being irresponsible will only make him take his behavior more underground and out of your sight. I would work out an acceptable amount of money you both feel can be spent on his recreation. Remember, he probably views his game like you view a new outfit or pair of shoes. Work together toward a resolution.
    19 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 weeks ago
  • Does he like me? Please help a girl out!!?

    Sounds like he does like you. Now you'll have to see if he asks you out or you can ask him.
    Sounds like he does like you. Now you'll have to see if he asks you out or you can ask him.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Am I stupid for thinking about doing this?

    If I were you I'd suggest a local place for your first date. You don't want to be alone in the wilderness with someone you don't know.
    If I were you I'd suggest a local place for your first date. You don't want to be alone in the wilderness with someone you don't know.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • What are your thoughts on friends grad gift to my son?

    She may not know the exact amount you gave her son. He may have just cashed the check or used the money. I think you gave what you thought was appropriate and she gave what she thought was appropriate.
    She may not know the exact amount you gave her son. He may have just cashed the check or used the money. I think you gave what you thought was appropriate and she gave what she thought was appropriate.
    5 answers · Friends · 3 weeks ago
  • Advice for someone going to college with no dating experience?

    First of all, no one will know how much you dated nor who or how many you kissed or didn't kiss. Just be yourself and be friendly. Don't try to be someone you are not. There are guys out there for every type of girl and you'll find the nice guys to date who like quiet girls. Enjoy!
    First of all, no one will know how much you dated nor who or how many you kissed or didn't kiss. Just be yourself and be friendly. Don't try to be someone you are not. There are guys out there for every type of girl and you'll find the nice guys to date who like quiet girls. Enjoy!
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • Boyfriend I live with wants to take our vacation together but, wants his friend to come for half of it?

    Overall it seems like your bf enjoys having other people around and not being with you alone. As you say with the brother and this friend always in the picture, you feel like just one extra person in his pack. You need to think about more than just the week off for vacation. You need to think if you want to stay with a man who needs his buddies... show more
    Overall it seems like your bf enjoys having other people around and not being with you alone. As you say with the brother and this friend always in the picture, you feel like just one extra person in his pack. You need to think about more than just the week off for vacation. You need to think if you want to stay with a man who needs his buddies around all the time because this will be your life with him. You would think he'd want alone time with you as much as you want it with him....but no he doesn't. So you can make a fuss about his annoying friend joining you, he will get mad and you'll be considered the annoying person. Your bf is the annoying person and you need to figure out if you want this for the rest of your life. They don't change.
    5 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago
  • I’m 17 year old and I have been applying for jobs at stores like Walmart and target. I didn’t get a response. Is it better to apply in store?

    Its best to walk around where there are many retail and food places. Those needing help will have Help Wanted posted in their windows. Go in there and ask where to apply. You'll have better luck than online. Online you are just an unknown email, in person you can make an impression.
    Its best to walk around where there are many retail and food places. Those needing help will have Help Wanted posted in their windows. Go in there and ask where to apply. You'll have better luck than online. Online you are just an unknown email, in person you can make an impression.
    8 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 3 weeks ago
  • Boyfriend is so dependant on weed?

    You can leave. Everyone giving him money, including you, is condoning his drug use. Obviously he's a very heavy user and can't stop. Don't be one of those women who spend their lives and money trying to save someone who doesn't want saving. He wants drugs. Move on.
    You can leave. Everyone giving him money, including you, is condoning his drug use. Obviously he's a very heavy user and can't stop. Don't be one of those women who spend their lives and money trying to save someone who doesn't want saving. He wants drugs. Move on.
    8 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 3 weeks ago
  • Should I quit cutting my dad's grass?

    Just put the ball back in his court and tell him that you are doing the best you can. That you divide it into two days because its hot and you feel better doing it that way. And if he really doesn't like the job you are doing you can help him find a professional who can do a better job.
    Just put the ball back in his court and tell him that you are doing the best you can. That you divide it into two days because its hot and you feel better doing it that way. And if he really doesn't like the job you are doing you can help him find a professional who can do a better job.
    11 answers · Family · 3 weeks ago
  • Water On Sofa Please Read?

    Are you asking if mold will form? As long as you get it completely dry it shouldn't get mold. Mold forms when something is kept wet over a long period of time.
    Are you asking if mold will form? As long as you get it completely dry it shouldn't get mold. Mold forms when something is kept wet over a long period of time.
    1 answer · Maintenance & Repairs · 3 weeks ago
  • Feelings for best friend?

    I think you should break up with current bf. If you have no feelings for him you are just wasting his and your time. Then you are free to talk with your friend if you want to. He may really like you but no way for us to know. But even if best friend doesn't want to date you, there are other guys out there. Don't stay with someone you... show more
    I think you should break up with current bf. If you have no feelings for him you are just wasting his and your time. Then you are free to talk with your friend if you want to. He may really like you but no way for us to know. But even if best friend doesn't want to date you, there are other guys out there. Don't stay with someone you don't like.
    2 answers · Friends · 3 weeks ago
  • How much should it cost in the UK to have a gardener draw a garden design within a budget but you hire your own gardeners or do it yourself?

    You need to contact three landscape designers and ask them. Of course it will be cheaper if you buy the plants and hire your own gardeners, but the cost for the design will depend on how large a yard you have, how much of it you want to design and how much left as grass, watering plans, proper drainage plans, etc.
    You need to contact three landscape designers and ask them. Of course it will be cheaper if you buy the plants and hire your own gardeners, but the cost for the design will depend on how large a yard you have, how much of it you want to design and how much left as grass, watering plans, proper drainage plans, etc.
    4 answers · Garden & Landscape · 3 weeks ago
  • Guy mentioned his mom wanting to meet me?

    Depends on how long you've been dating. A year or so, then you should probably meet his mom. Less than that, he may not feel comfortable with the idea yet. There is an unspoken thing about meeting the parents that means you are getting more serious. He may need more time to get there. You should stay if you love him and things are good. ... show more
    Depends on how long you've been dating. A year or so, then you should probably meet his mom. Less than that, he may not feel comfortable with the idea yet. There is an unspoken thing about meeting the parents that means you are getting more serious. He may need more time to get there. You should stay if you love him and things are good. Give him time to process.
    9 answers · Family · 3 weeks ago
  • Should I remain friends with my depressed friend?

    You shouldn't worry about what will happen if you leave the "friendship". Its not a friendship, its some kind of torture you are allowing this girl to dump on you. Keep in mind, she told you she manipulated some guy to have sex with her, so she's already admitted she likes to manipulate people. And that's what she's... show more
    You shouldn't worry about what will happen if you leave the "friendship". Its not a friendship, its some kind of torture you are allowing this girl to dump on you. Keep in mind, she told you she manipulated some guy to have sex with her, so she's already admitted she likes to manipulate people. And that's what she's doing to you. Don't let her. Quit socializing with her and block her. She thanks you for being a friend not because she likes you, its because you let her use you. Move on, get her out of your life. She'll be fine, she'll just find some other kind human to manipulate which isn't your problem.
    2 answers · Friends · 3 weeks ago
  • Is my MIL invading my privacy?

    Maybe you could just quit receiving fb posts from your sister, you don't have to unfriend her, there is a way to just stop seeing posts. That way you won't know whats being said, it won't bother you and you can just live your life and leave them to live theirs.
    Maybe you could just quit receiving fb posts from your sister, you don't have to unfriend her, there is a way to just stop seeing posts. That way you won't know whats being said, it won't bother you and you can just live your life and leave them to live theirs.
    8 answers · Family · 3 weeks ago
  • How do I politely decline a coffee invitation from a girl? Should I call her or text her?

    You should respond in which ever way she used to ask you.
    You should respond in which ever way she used to ask you.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 weeks ago