13 and possibly pregnant?

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I don't need the crap about blah blah you should have thought about this before! We used a condom!!! But I think might be pregnant. I haven't taken the test yet but I think I might be. And Im not gonna tell my parents!! I'm getting an abortion if I am. But I need more info on abortions and how they work/ cost of them.... If you've had one your advice will truly mean a lot. I feel so stupid and I'm so scared :'( I need help ASAP!!! Pleaseee I'm soooo desperate!!!! I

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I live in CA i don't need a parent to get an abortion just fyi

Answer 1

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You must be feeling terrified, not knowing who to turn to for help, scared of what your parents will say, trying to figure out how you could have a baby so young--a million things running through your mind. Maybe you think you don't have any choices. You do.
http://www.realalternatives.org/

You don't need to have an abortion, there are other choices for you. Would you be willing to call a Crisis Pregnancy Hotline? They can help you with whatever you might need: 1-800-848-LOVE They can help with the pregnancy test, medical care, a safe place to stay if you need it, help telling your parents, baby clothes etc.

Also, your parents can't force you into doing what you don't want to do. You have rights.
http://thejusticefoundation.org/wp-conte…

Being that you are 13, your mom and dad love you very much and want you to be safe. Unless you feel like you might be harmed, talk to them...they would be heartbroken if they knew you were feeling so lonley, scared and confused and you didn't let them help.

*****Sending you super strong energy and courage to do the right thing**** You go girl!

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Asker's Comment:

Thanks!You're too sweet. But i just can't have the baby. My parents wouldn't be happy at all. They don't even know i have a boyfriend and they don't even like me hanging out with boys.i feel bad bc my boyfriend would be happy with me keeping it but he agrees we cant and if i am, we'l both chip

Answer 2

You need a parents consent to have an abortion so you have to tell your mom or dad.. your to young to have kids so get on birth control quick an abortions cost from 300-600 deppending on how far you are they dont do it past 25weeks

Answer 3

Abortion is serious and many women who have them regret the decision and have deep pain for the rest of their lives. Be honest and tell your parents, they love you and will help you.

Answer 4

You need your parents to consent you're underage