My boyfriend seem to have lost interest, but still does things and wont brake up with me. what shoul I do?

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My boyfriend seem to have lost interest, but still does things and wont brake up with me. what shoul I do?

For example, his friend flirted with me, and I heard he told him that he doesnt want to be his friend, because I am his woman and he disrespected him.

Still is affectionate. However, today he at 6am woke me up and told me to go with him to pick up his friend up from jail. I told him no one picked him up when he needed them to when he went to jail for tickets. So he went alone, I stayed. He came back. Then offers to take me out...to McDonalds?? I said fine but I didnt eat because I have McDonalds all the time. Then he said WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO, I CANT READ YOUR MIND? I said its ok. just lets go back to your place. Then 4 more friends come to visit, I left and went shopping assuming he would be free when I'd come back. When I came back he said, Babe, I have to go out and see my daughters, Will your phone be on later?? So I looked for my keys and walk out and he came after me, Babe babe babe, Will I see you later? I said yes babe. I left home feeling left out.

What you yall think? How can I get him interested?
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Yes, but its like this all the time, it just seems like he is ALWAYS WITH SOMEONE, he does have a business, but still. Everything is fine, its just that I never get alone time. As long as he loves and treats me well I guess I can put up with this.

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Yes, but its like this all the time, it just seems like he is ALWAYS WITH SOMEONE, he does have a business, but still. Everything is fine, its just that I never get alone time. As long as he loves and treats me well I guess I can put up with this.

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I have been with him approx 1 year 1/2

OMG Fatima, YOU NAILED IT. Yes I will spice it up, and you know I am always doing so and you just helped me realize it. Yes he is lovely and I do feel like I am just there, thats why I am always trying to suprise him and do things to make it exciting! Ha lovely!

Answer 1

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I feel like I have the same problem with my boyfriend. & I know what you mean by he's always with someone... Like you know he's not cheating, is just that he's so busy. & in his busy lifestyle, you sort of feel like you're just there & he takes you for granted. Some guys are just assholes like that, once they have the girl, they aren't as romantic & sweet as before. Simply because guys just love to chase.. it's the being tied down thing that makes most of them get bored. Surprise him sometimes.. don't make everything so "routine" like. & if he's busy all the time, understand that's how his life is & he can't do anything about it. Support him instead of giving him more problems. If seeing him happy, makes you happy, then sacrifice a little bit of you from time to time & just try to make the most of it. Just the fact that he's still with you even though the relationship isn't so exciting shows that he's really attached to you.. because most guys, just dump girls after a month or two because 'they get bored."

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you nailed it

Answer 2

You break up with him then.

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Answer 3

it depends on what you want first off, if he is cheating, but all you care about is him loving an treating you right, then all that shouldn't matter.. take a break, if you are unsure and unhappy.. in that time, he will show his true colors of how much he cares, if he still has a interest to pursue you..

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