Should i get back with my girlfriend?

Question

Basically I and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for five months, the other day i came across a message between her and another guy from about when we where two weeks into the relationship, the guy said to her he needs sex and told her to come and she was saying she would but its too far away, she hasn't spoke to him since but after i seen this message i ended our relationship, but i think she actually loves me now, not when we two weeks into the relationship. She has been crying constantly since i broke up with her and is very upset and claimed the message meant nothing, she was only trying to say no in the best way possible and would never meet up with him. I asked her how i know she knows how bad it is and what shes done and how do i know she'll never do it again, and she's wanted to kill herself because of it. She has tryed to kill herself in the past, and now she wants to kill herself without me. Should i take her back? How do i know she'll never do it again? I really do love her, but I just don't want this to happen again.

Answer 1

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No, she sounds high maintenance and seems to be highly manipulative (ex: threatening to kill herself). Bottom line, she broke your trust by entertaining the idea of having sex with someone else WHILE she was dating you. Her saying that she wanted to have sex but that she was just two far away to do so does not sound like a rejection, at least to me. I would absolutely not trust her, but that's just me.

I'm just wondering...what were you doing checking her text messages?

Best of luck?

Answer 2

Yes. please do. That is tragic I honestly don't think she was lying. I wouldve done the same thing to let someone down easy. That poor girl "/