I'm 20 and just feel like I'm cruising by, doing nothing I'm passionate about, having a bit of fun but not loving life and I feel like I should be. How old are you and what are some things that bring you the most happiness (not to be ageist but <35 age preferred thanks)
Fun, what the hell is fun. I enlisted at 19 (almost 20) & at 22 & 23 to nearly 24 I was in Vietnam.
I sort of made up for lost time when I got out & it backfired on me in so many ways.
Fun was being a kid 5 to 15 playing any game with a ball at the end of it & all sorts of war games & running around sumps & vacant lots.
Now I am happy to be healthy, comfortably well off & live in a nice quaint area except for the fact that my wife died 2+ yrs ago.
I never had any valid goals in life. Set your site on goals & go at them one step at a time. Just make sure you like what you do & leave some time for socializing.
And always remember there will always be someone else worse off than you & someone else better off than you. And life does not owe you a living, everyone has to fend for themselves.
I am 27 now but I started some of these hobbies when I was 15 up until now
skate boarding, never got really good
rock climbing in/outdoor
built a log cabin with hatchets, that was when I was 12
sky diving, only been a few times
guitar, never got any good though