Guys: How would you like for a female to romance/woo you?
I read a question about how women expect men to do all these romantic things for them, but they never reciprocate. It got me thinking, and I have to admit, I haven't the slightest notion on how to romance a guy. If you're a guy, then what would you like for a woman to do for you that would sweep you off your feet (intercourse aside). And if you're a woman, what do you do for your guy (or what would you do, if you're single) to show that you truly care about him?
I guess it varies from one to another so i can't say for certain.
However i personally would strongly appreciate a nice long warm hug along with some words like "I really care about you" or something along those lines and maybe a kiss? Maybe something unexpected and romantic, i dunno?
I guess it's cause i'm just a guy who appreciates emotion and romance...hehe?
Okay, so a few years back, when I was in high school, I took a ceramics class. During February around V-Day, I was sitting at my table and sketching out a new pot I was going to make, and this girl came up to me and handed me a vase in the shape of a heart. Painted, glazed, all that jazz. Honestly, this blew me away and I was just stunned. This woman was someone whom I never payed any attention to before, but after she did this, I admired her and eventually we ended up dating.
Moral of the story; there is a billion things you can do. Creativity comes very handy is situations like these.
Oh honey there is so much you can do!!!! :) first you can get a hotel room even if you have your own apt. It's much hotter!!!! Set it up real nice with rose pedals all over. Wine or whateva you guys like to drink. Fruit is good:) whipped cream if u like. Dress up for him all sexy!!!!! You could also cook for him. Whatever his favorite meal is. Run his bath water after a long day with a massage!!!!!! I could go on and on but i'm not!!! :) all of theses things will show him you care trust me!!!! Oh also give him a striptease they love that!!!! Well my boyfriend does he loves me and haven't gone anywhere in 7 yrs!!!!! Very satisfied:) good luck
Back when I was dating (and now that I've married), I've always given random little gifts and tucked love notes into odd places to find later. I've sent flowers, emails with cute pictures, made cookies...really, it depended on the guy and what I thought he'd like.
Unfortunately, I've never dated a guy who did those types of things for me, but after awhile I found that I got a lot of pleasure in being the one providing the romance.