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PLEASE help me?? It's short? I'll answer yours?

OK so I like this really shy guy (Let's call him James) James has some friends (His normal group) and he tries to hang out with one of the popular kids because I think he wants to be popular
Anyway, so there are some signs. So I was in his study hall and I sat with him and his friends and they were playing poker (Just for fun) and then when I came over, his friends were like 'You can sit next to James'
Also, I saw him looking at me in class and when I was with his friends. And, he was behind me for part of the time when I was with my friend.
But here's the confusing part. I was trying to talk to him (This was in the hallway) and he didn't say anything and when I went up next to him he came to his friend (Not the popular one) and he started talking to him! WHAT IS UP WITH THAT??!! :(
What did I do? Did he not hear? Can someone help?? Thank you all!
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Well by those signs, it sounds like he likes you, but is too shy to talk to you. The biggest sign would have to be his friends saying that you should sit next to him. When his friends are making comments like that, they're definately teasing him, and he's got to be into you. Just be friendly, accept that he's shy, and show that you're into him! If he realizes there's less of a chance of rejection, he'll be more open with you!
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  • Reana by Reana
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    Maybe he didn't answer you because he's shy and he didnt want to mess up in front of you. I think he likes you but is shy. Good luck! :)

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  • Megan by Megan
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    Maybe he is embarrassed!!! Some guys think if someone out of his league likes them, then he might be afraid if he talks to her then he will screw it up! The best thing to do would be to confront him about it or ask his friends.
  • stephan by stephan
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    like you just shy awnser mine plz http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20120417144504AAnaRxn and tell me if i should call or text poem
  • Mckayla by Mckayla
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    he likes you but was nevous of suddenly realized he liked you or you liked him and went into that wierd avoid stage right before he accepts it
  • Rosie by Rosie
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    Ok so it must be really awkward 4 him cause he's proberly hasn't had a g-friend before so u should get his number or start talking to him on Facebook, u know in a less direct kinda way,

    Good luck :)
  • beanie by beanie
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    He likes you he's just shy that's why he didn't talk to you make the first move if he keeps acting same way ask him out
  • Guardian by Guardian
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    your trying too hard. be more casual and don't smother him or make it obvious. back off and see how he responds. guys like hard to get girls

    cheers
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  • Hi, I'm a Person by Hi, I'm a Person
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    He's just shy. Like other people said, don't pressure or smother. Just wait & focus on being friends.
    Best of luck!
  • Veronika by Veronika
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    He is shy.make a first step try to break the ice talk
  • Alisha by Alisha
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    He was probably just nervous. Do not be afraid, I think he likes you ;)
  • Johnny by Johnny
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    sounds odd. idk
  • =l by =l
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    he was nervous as **** and geeked
  • hottie123 by hottie12...
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    well he likes u i can tell(: but he was probably nervouse when u and him were jst talking! plz answer mine tanks love<3
  • Kyle B by Kyle B
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    Why don't you just ask him if he likes you. if "James" is a shy person then hes going to have difficulty talking to someone he likes of the other gender (in my experience thats usually how it works, I used to be really shy by girls i liked and would look for any excuse not to talk to them)

    if he's interested and he knows your interested then that might bring him out of his shell.

    You've got nothing to lose really. Procrastination leads to masturbation... Dont procrastinate and ask him!

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