How can I convince him to get back with me ?

Question

I'm fourteen, fifteen in october and he's sixteen. I love him, I've sucked him off, tossed him off and he's fingered me.
I've been with him for almost two years, he's in a gang, been in jail, took drugs, dealt drugs, been stabbed and stabbed someone.

He broke up with me three days ago, he was crying himself. He said he'd never forgive himself if i got hurt and i can do so much better than him and he's breaking up with me to keep me safe.

I bbm'd him today saying

Me - Jay? I love you so much, I don't care if I get hurt, I want to be with you and stick by you forever, I know were young but I'll never feel this way about anyone ever:(<3<3

Jay - Amy:/ i love you and you know i do, but i do care if you got hurt and i would never forgive myself but look how beautiful you are? you need to get someone who's done well at school and someone who will keep you safe. I'll always love you but i have to let you go for your sake:/<3<3

I love him though, what do I do?

Answer 1

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It the age your its natural to feel the emotions that you are feeling, but you should respect his wishes for the moment and break it off. He knows his life style could get you hurt or injured and he would never forgive himself if such a thing happened to you. If hes done all the things you described it will only be a matter of time before he ends up in jail for a long period or worse. I would suggest waiting a couple of years, A heart can mend.

Answer 2

I can tell you what I'd do. I'd ask him, "If you want me to have someone better, why don't you get better?" Get him to clean up and try. Then he can be the man he wants you to have. You get a guy who won't end in you getting hurt, and he can fly straight.

Answer 3

You do exactly what he said. Run and don't look back. He is trouble! You will find the someone who is right for you when you get a little older. I know that is not the advice you want to hear but listen to it and do it anyway.

Answer 4

Both of you make me sick...

Answer 5

If you love him, let him go. Sometimes if you love someone, you have to let them go. He's already accepted that things aren't right and that you need someone else. Yes right now you may love him and feel like he's the only man in the world but I promise you there's so many others. Loving him means letting him go. It's what is best for both of you. He needs to get himself sorted out...being in a gang, being in jail, stabbing someone, dealing drugs...those are all extremely dangerous things. He loves you enough to know that being with him will only hurt you. You have to let him go. It will be tough, but if you love him, respect his wishes.

Answer 6

Sorry to hear this. He is either 1) genuine and doesn't want you to get caught up in his gang stuff coz he loves you.... or 2) using that as an excuse to dump you...
either way, this guy is bad news, i know u love him hunny but seriously, do you want to risk getting killed or your face scarred for a young bloke who hasn't sorted himself out yet...
If he see's that you've moved on he will want you back, just get on with your life, grieve for him but go through it and move forward. If he carried on he will only end up dead or in prison. Believe me, it's no life. It may look and feel real but it's a dead end..good luck