My boyfriend says he likes small boobs?

Question

We're in our 20s, in a very serious relationship, not living together, not having sex til marriage (culture & religion thing).

I was in an abusive relationship for over a year, when I was with my ex, my ex used to send me pictures of big boobied girls saying "I wish you were like them, but I still love you tho." Glad I broke up with him, but I'm left with the lowest self-esteem ever.

My current boyfriend is very loving, caring, just amazing. We are very open with each other. I have talked to him about my self-esteem and how I hate my very small boobs (lol), but he constantly reminds me saying "I have always preferred small boobs over big ones. Big boobs scare me. I love yours." I believed him.

Last night, I borrowed his phone to watch some porn (I often do this, he knows it too lol). Went to his history for the links, and I saw Google results for 'big boobs nude girls'. Aaand... I just feel... like I've been lied to all these time. I mean I know my self-esteem can only be dealt by myself, but... I don't know. I'm not mad, I just feel... sad?

I shouldn't bring this up to him, should I?

Answer 1

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so he looks and likes to lok at bigger breastsas well as liking yours as well. that is no problem. he also likes to look at tigers and giraffes. but by the end f the day, e like s you, and wants to be with you. if it were just breasts that a man was ineterste in, believe me it would not be interesting at all to have a pair of boobs on the desk, it wouild not be exciting. we men like the whole woman. :) he likes YOU.

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Answer 2

I like to look at big boobs - but if we're talking about who I want to make love to - give me a woman with small boobs every time. Big ones are okay to look at, but I sure would much rather have small ones to kiss and suck on. They are cute and sexy at the same time - big boobs seem sexy to some guys - but they damned sure aren't cute. And if they are too big, that's too big for me, then they aren't even sexy - they are repulsive to me. That's exactly what he's talking about when he says they scare him.

Answer 3

Some guys aren't particulary choosy. Personally I prefer small and I've never really had a girlfriend who had large breasts because to me it just isn't attractive. Small breasts, especially very, very small breasts are a huge turn on for me.

Discuss it with your boyfriend and let him know what you saw on his phone and give him a chance to give you an honest answer.

Answer 4

personal preference has nothing to do with porn sorry but the personal preference and porn is a different thing may be ur bf must have fetish for big boob porn i guess don't worry he loves you that all matters answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…

Answer 5

different people have different perception. may be your current boyfriend like big boobs, but you have small. and he does not want to make you unhappy and that's why he said he said that he like small boobs.

Answer 6

doesn't mean he lied. i prefer smaller boobs but that doesn't mean i don't like some bigger ones occasionally. although im not him so it may not be the case.

Answer 7

You are really looking up trouble, aren't you? ;o)

You should never have told your new boyfriend about your breast complex. Don't that again ;o)

Answer 8

Just because he likes small boobs, doesn't mean he can't also like big ones.

Answer 9

Don't be too tough on him. Maybe he was curious, or just trying to overcome his fear of big boobs

Answer 10

most guys like to look at a variety of girls in porn, i wouldnt worry about it he probably does like youre smaller breasts

Answer 11

it's human nature

Answer 12

I always preferred smaller boobs (im a girl, btw). Too bad mine is so big, IMO.

I think that you should stop feeling so insecure about yourself and what others and your boyfriend think. Since you are born like that, you should learn to accept and love who you are and not try to change yourself just because of what others might think (plastic surgery, etc).

Talk to your bf and ask him about what he googled. Maybe its for a completely different reason, or maybe someone borrowed his hp to search that. Relationships are about trust and security. If you dont trust that he loves you and you dont feel secure around him, then I dont see any point in continuing the relationship. By talking to him about this, you will either bring you and him closer together or destroy the whole relationship.

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Hope I helped, in some way.