I got played. i know what do do but cant. help :( im crying?

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suzie.18 virgin. college student almost 19. long story short there were 3 roommates i did oral with the first 2. not together. at about a week apart. had feelings for the second one. told him he didnt care. mentioned were in college blah blah blah. made it seem like he did care though by what he said. anyways after we hooked up they both started ignoring me. the third roommate tired but i didnt do anything because i had feelings for the second guy. i cant help myself and just want the second guy. hes the guy from highschool that youll always have a thing for. i did sleep in the same bed as the third guy but we literally just slept. nothing more. apparently the second guy thought more. they all ignore me and im going crazy. i know i need to stay away and clearly got that. long story short im having a going away party and invited the second and third guy. the third one wants to come, the second declined on facebook. do i msg him saying he was officially uninivted cause i dont want him there anyways? i dont know what to do. why doesnt he like me? he makes me feel like im not good enough for him :( help me please im sad

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Answer 1

Dont message him. He's not worth your time. It seems that this is a one sided crush and I'm sorry I don't want to sound mean but I'm glad he dosent like you. He is basically saving you from pain without either one of I knowing. From what I can tell, the third guy sounds really nice. I've grown found of him and I don't even know him! It sounds to me that you should give the third guy a chance. And put your. Status on Facebook as, "hey guys, I ju want to say thank you to all my friends that are coming to my going away party. I'm glad and it really means a lot to me and shows me who my real friends are, if u declined for a reason, ur good. I'm simply talking about someone that knows I have feelings for them and their avoiding me..." Hope I helped and remember go for guy 3!!

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Answer 2

Maybe he doesn't like you because you blow guys left and right?

You should try and find other forms of acceptance from people than doing sexual favors. It really doesn't make people think highly of you. Save it for a boyfriend


You are old enough to make smart decisions so start making them. You can do that by not acting childish on facebook over this and just move on

Answer 3

well, the fact that you did something with 2 of the guys and it looks like you could have done something with the 3rd one makes you look like a tramp. I don't know if you can do anything to repair your reputation with the guys at this point. Maybe they've been joking behind your back and they are all trying to see what you will do with them and now that they've seen or think that you've done something with all of them they are disgusted. I would try to talk to guy 2 again and try to tell him that nothing happened between you and guy 3- but why did you sleep in the same bed for crying out loud? Well, good luck