I have avoided my gf for a few days cuz i need some space cuz she is clingy and wants me all the time and gets moody when im not with her...so on facebook I liked a page called "skinny jeans" and she is not a skinny girl then I said "see you soon" after ignoring her for a while. then right away she texted back saying "Thanks for last night, now I feel like garbage" did I hurt her feelings?
Nope. But what you did or said may have led her to CHOOSE to feel hurt.
IF she was "hurt", she made the choice to be "hurt" by your actions, regardless of how insensitive you may have been. She could have just as easily chosen to feel you were an idiot and not given your words / actions a second thought. You can't control what other people [choose to] feel, you can affect it if they allow you to, but you can't control it.
People will often, if not always, try to blame and make someone else responsible for their own choices.
Wow that relationship sounds like a lot of work. Who cares about skinny jeans? Im beginning to hate Facebook because everyone gets so offended when They don't get a reply, basically I would quit Facebook and text less frequently, she might freak out at first but shell get used to 5-7 texts a day, like what is so important anyways. Hah that's what I do
I'm going to say honesty with you. we can not understand female, because we are not them, and all females have different personality. and yes, you hurt her feeling, because she want to talk to u, but u denied to her. my friend used to tell me there is 3 type of relationship.... X and ll and l kind of types. and ur girl is l type. she want to be with you like all the time.
there is some girl, who is X type, which is perfect... she trust you.
l type of girl, she like you, but loving you too much, it make you creepy.
and ll type of girl. she doesn't care about relationship. she flirt a lot, and cheat on you.
i hope this help. females are hard creature, you have to study first before you do the action.
I am a beautiful girl, I do need some space too... just let talk to your gf what is your personality, your caracter, your favorite, your wish, your want, your dislike, your ill, your ignoring, your preventing, everythings that she must know what look like you are.