Okay, so this is the first in a LONG time that I have not known what to do about a guy I like. I am 16 years old, and he is 17. Background time!
So this guy and i don't have any classes together, but we have communicated a few times. It's really difficult to talk to him because whenever I see him its in the halls and school when we're both hurrying off to classes and at lunch, he's with his girlfriend. Yup, girlfriend. After talking to a friend of mine about this, she said that this guy has been with his girlfriend for about 2 years or so but he is unhappy in that relationship. In his Facebook relationship status is says "its complicated with..." and my friend says it's been "complicated" the whole time they've been dating. Whenever I see them together they never smile and barely talk, and they never look happy. My friend says they just got comfortable so that's why they're still together, and that I should be in that relationship just to get him out.
Now, I'm not a home wrecker but if he's unhappy in that relationship, I would gladly fix that if he is willing.
I am 70% sure that he likes me as well, but the 30% frightens me WAY too much to tell him that I like him. Plus, I rarely get to talk to him. Even if I told him, I am scared that he'll say no then I'll be insanely embarrassed. Another brilliant twist, I used to date his older brother. They don't live together. His brother and I broke up because he was insanely clingy and we fought a TON. Well, lately I've been getting feelings for this guy and because of all this complicated stuff, I don't know what to do.
I just want to at least TRY a relationship with him and see if it'd be good or not. My friend says we'd look good together but NONE of my friends can actually give me advice on this.
Can anyone PLEASE help? I really like this dude.
I had a problem similar to this last summer. I wanted to date this hot chick I have known since 4th grade. Go ahead and ask him if he is comfortable or not. If not, then tell him a nice way to break away. Afterwards, show him you like him.hope this helps