My Girlfriend wants a two week break of no talking?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 3 years now, I am 22 and she is 20. Recently she had started acting weird around me. Which was something I have never experienced around her. When I confronted her about this she broke down and tears telling me she doesn't know what she wants anymore. We have had this problem before but she told me she was alright about it and she thought she was acting dumb. She told me that she has gotten into this mood were she doesn't feel like we have a good day together anymore, but yet she laughs, kisses me, cuddles with me and everything. Well I suggested a two week break from seeing each other, but we still talk. She isn't a girl who likes to text so when she would be short with me it was no worries to me, it has been a week into the break and now she has not texted me in 2 days. I do not blow up her phone with text, I let her be to do whatever she wants. But before she stopped texting me she said that she loves me a lot and she doesn't want to break up but she isn't sure what she wants yet. What should I do? Should i just respect her decision to not talk at all during this last week and let her make her mind up? I told her I would leave her alone and that I wouldn't text her til Wednesday morning. She agreed with me. Does anyone have a suggestion on what I should do? Or maybe a girl could give me some input about this all and what might be going through her head.
I love this girl with all of my heart, she has gotten into the same college as me and everything.
Thank you very much to both of you! I seriously appreciate your answers. You are both right, I will give her her space for the week, and hopefully things work out. If they don't then I guess it will be time to move on with things. It's nice to hear from another girl who went through the same thing. I just hope with this week of no talking she will miss me and realize she does want to be with me
I know its hard but i would for sure give her time. i had to do the same thing with my boyfriend for a little while. sometimes a girl just needs time to think, and its a lot harder when you wouldbe talking to her cause its bound to nfluence her thoughts. if you love her, respect what she wants and give her time. if she loves you just as much, then things will work out bettween you two :) i know that its hard to leave someone you love alone for even just a week, its hard but trust me, in the end, itll be better that you gave her time and everything will work out. and if, unfortunately, they dont, then you just have to know that she wasnt the right girl for you; you dont want to be with someone who doesnt fully love you backk. best of luck to youuu and your girlfriend!! :)
personall experience- i went through the same situation except i was the girl who asked for a breakkk :)
hey :) i think you should respect her decision and leave her to her thoughts about what she wants. She just might be really confused at the minute and wants some space to think about the relationship.When you get back txtin just ask her nicely is everything ok with her. say it in a nice way please i was in this situation before and my ex boyfriend wasn't very nice about it. ask her is there anything you can do to make her feel better...comfort her :) and whatever happens respect her decision. good luck