Worried about my boyfriend and what should I do about school hell?

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I better give the cliff notes, please this is for information so you'll understand the situation not to call me out and insult me for it. Saturday night my boyfriend pressured me at Bible study to do a quicky in the empty room in the church, I normally refuse since I don't do the out in public sex thing. But he got me turned on, I just agreed. We got caught, they banned us from the church for being gay. Then Sunday my parents go ballistic because they find out through a person who goes to the church, my boyfriends parents also went ballistic neither one of us where out (Mainly because I live in Freakin Kansas!). Well I went to school today and wouldn't you know it my shiny rainbow filled life got better, someone literally scratched "maricón" into my locker and people wouldn't leave me a lone all day and the teachers and staff wouldn't do a damn thing about it and to top it off I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Saturday night when he texted me that his parents where freaking out I tried to call him but got no answer. I'm only sixteen, this is the reason I didn't want to come out in the first place what am I going to do? Why does everyone hate me for something I can't control, why does God hate me for something I was born with!

Answer 1

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Well actually so you know what is happening to you is against the law. Your parents should really protect you from what you are being forced to deal with at school just because people wanted to gossip. I would tell the police or some type of counceling center (look one up on google) to help you through this. You do not deserve this. Also in my opinion The Bible is not real. It was written a long time ago to draw the rules of society & put people in their stations. You need not be ashamed of who you are how dare anyone want you to live your life feeling that way. Christians are the most judgmental hypocritical people there are. You are better off finding someone to help you like I said. I am sorry this happened. Good luck. =)

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Though I doubt anyone lawyer near Kansas would help me, I'll look into it...

Answer 2

Don't worry. God doesn't hate you. Neither does Santa Claus. Things that don't exist can't hate.

If your teachers aren't addressing the harassment you're receiving at school, that's a problem. I'm sure there are pro bono (free) lawyers who would help you here. You could also contact the ACLU and see if they think your complaints have merit as well.

Answer 3

Sex in a church is scary to me, even as an agnostic. That's seriously messed up. BUT, people make mistakes especially as young as you. If things don't calm down soon, just switch schools or do it online. Drama happens everyday, but gay sex at church is preeeeetty scandalous dude.

Answer 4

Actually, God does exist and he made you gay, so you have nothing to worry about. It will get better, so I commonly hear from gays.

Answer 5

ur boyfriend probably got his phone taken away and thts why u didnt hear from him

Answer 6

well hey you really know how to make out, at church. firstly god does not hate you he knows every hair on your head the bible tells you that, and secondly your boyfriends parents have probably taken his mobile away from him so you cant talk, the folks at school thats a sore one i m not sure how to tackle that people can be cruel but there is always the girls they will love you if you play it cool and speak to them women adore gay guys because the feel safe, once you get them on board the guys except the bullys will eventually come round and you better believe the girls will sort them out when your one of their set. if thats any help