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Should i just ask her to stop coming over?
I haven't been able to have a baby, i was then told i couldn't have kids of my own. and my friend was really nice to me about it and now she's turned into a *****!
she's got married to some singer and now she thinks she's to good for anyone.
Just to rub it in my face a little bit more she's 5 months pregnant.
All she talks about is how great pregnancy is and stuff like that it really hurts me.
I know it's silly to be jealous of her but she's really starting to get to me.
Should i just tell her just to stay away and just say Congrats you made a baby something i can't make now get out of my house.
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I know this isn't a good example, but something like this happened to me. My friend got a new pair of uggs after I told her I was going shopping for some (this was back in december). She then preceded to talk about how great her new pair is and ask me questions like "what should I wear with them? Aren't they cute!". Like *****, please, shut up. So I would ignore her texts until she stopped, and then an hour or so later I would text back and change the subject. If she tried to talk about them again, I just stopped responding. If I were you, I would stop inviting her over. I wouldn't tell her not to be happy, because she is pregnant and she might get really upset if you try to. I would try distancing myself a little bit, like if she invited you to the baby shower say you can't come etc. Hope I helped!
Call her. Tell her that you think she's a great person but with the whole baby thing seeing her often is hard to do. I think she will understand. By the way, i know someone who couldn't have kids. She got pregnant but she couldnt give birth. Her sister offered to give birth to the children and it worked. I don't know if that's the case for you, but if your the same I really hope it works out. Because the lady who couldn't have kids was my mom.
who's the singer? lol
Don't be a b*tch back, just calmly tell her how you feel. If she still continues even after you explained to her, then go to your plan.
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I would follow these 2 steps:
1) Address her. Tell her how she makes you feel. This will probably stop her bragging, if she is a true friend.
2) If she does not stop. Move on with your life. There are 7 billion people on this planet. There are plenty of nicer people. Friendship should never be a competition.
Look I know how you feel, I can not have children either. I would jst tell her to leave you alone for awhile, You have just been told a very heartbreaking fact and you need the time to jst breathe and think about the situation, it hurts when you cannot have a child and everyone around you is popping them out like crazy, there are 5 womwn in my life I can think of right now who are pregos and about to have their bundle of joy. It does hurt, and you should feel free to be sad. Tell her to leave you alone if she is going to brag constantly about how great it all is without even thinking twice about your feelings! I hope you feel better about this, I myself and still having issues. :*( Be strong. Good luck *hugs*
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