How to get close to your crush?????? (Please answer i will answer your Q's)?

Question

Well me and my crush have only known each other for a couple of months and me and are really really really really really really good friends.We flirt with each other and we always look at each other and we lock eyes and smile :).I have hugged him before but it was a dare but he let me do it and he didn't push away!!!.Well yesterday we were playing tug a war with some other people and he stuck his hand right next to mine but than some girl stuck her hands right in the middle!!!!!!!!!.I can never get close to my crush without one of his friends being there which turns him into a jerk and than all the girls get in our conversations!!!!!!!.Plus i never get to sit next to him because my friends told him i liked him and he knows and he talked to me more after that.And im scared he is gonna think its true if I sit next to him.Please answer!!!

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To get closer I'd say try to find something you're both interested in but something not many other people around you are interested in.
I found music is a good one, things like concerts and exchanging songs and things are really good to get into a good conversation and do. But, I'd say it would work with lots of things for example say, sport, television programs, films... there's lots of different things. But try to make it specific, like a certain music artist, or a certain film producers. If you're really great friends it should be an easy one to point out! :D
If you find something that not many others are interested in it means you can do them together without other girls or his friends being there, allows you to talk to each other yourselves, not when he's being a 'jerk' with his friends.
Talk on facebook, or text and stuff thats a good way to just talk just between each other.

Although I'm kinda worried about the 'jerk' part? If he's ok with you and turning into a jerk around his friends I'd be careful... I'm afraid I've never ran into that problem, but I'd guess he's just trying to act normal or joking around his friends. I dont know though. Sorry.

But I'd say if your friends told him that you like him and he's talking to you more, I'd take that as a good thing! :D Means he's willing to talk at least!
If he didnt reject the first hug, try it again and see where that goes! If you don't hug people often then just start hugging a few others too... makes it less obvious that your trying to directly hug him more. Just an idea, whether that'll work I dont know.

Hope any of that helped, and good luck. Sounds like you both like each other.

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Worked with my now boyfriend :P