basically, i am dating a girl, for over a year now, a year and 4 months. She is currently pregnant, she is 7 months into pregnancy. i asked her, how do she sees this relationship going. She says, "idk", i like the way that you treat me, and i feel more stuck onto you, and i feel like im loving you more. But i take things as they come. I dont bother to look into the future, i base my present from the information that is giving to me. She claims that i overthink everything and i need to be more relaxed that everything is going to be fine. What do you guys think... i may be over thinking things.. i blame the fact that i go to college fulltime and work by night, and no free time for myself, to blow off some steam. but i would like to hear from you guys.
it sounds like you need to have more faith that your girlfriend is not going to leave you. putting pressure on your girl whilst she is pregnant, maybe not such a good idea but she seems to love you. you need to think about where you want the relationship to go if you are worried at all, you need to make the first step to show you are the man and that you love her. honesty if key if you want any sort of future with your girl
It doesn't really sound like there's a problem to me :) my boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 and a half years, we just take things as they come :) i'd say for you to try and get some free time and have a lads night out sometimes :) then you wont feel the need to over think things :) i hope things go well for you.