Where do you draw the line when flirting?

Question

My wife flirts with other men, usually at work or when out with friends. I trust her but I'm not comfortable with it all the time. I don't do this but she says it's okay for this to go on. I don't want to be controlling but I know that things can get out of hand. What is okay and what isn't when it comes to flirting with the opposite sex? When is a line crossed?

Answer 1

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If I am not getting attention from my guy, I would flirt. Maybe she is insecure and needs to feel your jealousy to feel loved by you. I don't know, it's hard to say. I am a girl, and I can't stand it when girls flirt - it is so manipulative. Many aren't manipulative but too often it is used that way. That is probably what is bother you - the mind games, manipulation, and control she seems to have on your emotions; not the flirting.

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Answer 2

I dont really don't get why wud anyone flirt with someoen if he is already in love with someone else.
If my husband flirted with othes I wud ask him first & if the flirting is only for the sake of a healthy environment at workplace or to gain authority or confidence then it is not a big problem.But if he toouches them ,it can be a prob.
So she shudnt touch other men ,hug or peck them .If that is there,there is something wrong.

Answer 3

If it becomes explicitly sexual. It sound like your wife enjoys the attention, many people do. As long as it's PG-13 it OK. However it doesn't take much to go from flirt to &^%$ especially when alcohol (aka the great social lubricant) is involved.

Answer 4

ask a question to your self when u flirt with some1 it casual? i dnt think so
i think u shud tak this matter very seriously caz if u get a little late
yo wife can go out of hand
try her not to meet her friends
make new friends friends whom u trust 100%
i felt good that u are showing your concern
as u love her soo much :)

Answer 5

Touching physically in any way, talking about sex is too far.When she starts complaining to other men about how rough her marriage is then you have to worry.

Answer 6

You can start from the bottom line going up.

Answer 7

trust me. She is flirting only coz she just realised your romantic heights. Break those heights. She will flirt with you then.

Answer 8

if thats your wife you should bang her non-stop so she doesnt feel the need to flirt.