I lost my virginity.?

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I lost my virginity 4 years ago .....now i m 23. Now i am getting married and i want that when i do sex with my husband. my vagina should bleed.if i'll not tell him still he would come to know this thing." plz help me plz plz...

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but about pain.....when he do sex with me.... plz tell me

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Answer 1

See a gynaecologist and ask them to do a hymenoplasty. If that is too expensive the Dr could suggest something else.
Other wise, keep a pin close at hand and when he enters you prick yourself and stain the bed sheet with the blood.

Lets be honest, most men don't marry as virgins and many don't know that a virgin doesn't always bleed so making a lot of noise and crying can throw them off. Unfortunately, most men think virgins have to bleed and they expect blood stained sheets. Sadly the mother-in-law plays along with this barbaric tradition.

Answer 2

just say your not bleeding because the tampon made you bleed. The first time i had sex, i didnt bleed that was because i used tampons. I asked my bio teacher and yes its true. So there you go :)

Answer 3

honestly if you havent been honest with your husband then why on earth are you getting married?!

and secondly, if you do want to continue to lie and "bleeding" is a sign of faithfulness or whatever, then you can tell him that the tampon broke it. cuz its true that tampons DOES usually puncture it.

Answer 4

he shouldnt be expecting you to bleed, because not everyone bleeds their first time.. exercise and horse-riding can break the hymen. alot of virgins hymens have broken already, its not only from sex that it breaks..

Answer 5

Just say to him, well there's no blood because your dick isn't very big|or you didn't penetrate deep enough. either that or go to the costume shop and get some fake blood. after sex he will go to "clean himself" up put fake blood on the bed in the spot you had sex and all over your vag and leg area then quickly run to "the shower".

Answer 6

well the thing is that you could always make up the excuse, "I do a lot of exercising/dancing/"
(any physical activity)
Some women loose their hymen just by working out because it was too thin and just broke.

hope this helps

Answer 7

i say go with the fake blood idea.. it will be adventurous and exciting since there is a 50-50 chance of getting caught or getting away with it.. if you get caught just tell him you used to use toys and you were too embarrassed to tell him so you lied and if you don't get caught luckily, that for you my friend is the successful story which you can take along with you to your grave!

Answer 8

There's a sugery that will make it tight like wen u were q virgin. But u won't bleed. U should of been honest. Shouldn't of lied.