When should i text my gf after an upsetting night pleeeease help?
I KNOW ITS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
ok so here's my situation. i live my with gf and her parents because i moved out of my house cuz my step dad was a crazy. so i've been living with my gf for about 3 months. so last night me my gf and her mom all went to the mall to xmas shop. I was going to get my mom a video camera cuz that's what she wanted. so i found the one i liked and it was 219 and i only has 210 so her mom agreed that she would pay with her credit card and i assumed i was gunna pay her back. My gf came over there and asked why she was paying for it and i said cuz im about 10 dollars short and she had a weird look on her face. So I got the camera and we were all in the car and the car and my gf was driving and we all decided we were hungry so we were at the drive through at hardees (sorry some of its irrelevant im just trying to get all the details) and i went to hand her mom the 210 cash i had and she said no don't worry about it. Im like ill find a way to get you the money. and my gf (jordanne) said what? what? she wont let you pay? i was like no but ill make her take the money. and jordanne was like why wont you take the money?? and her mom was like mind your own business jordanne and jordanne pulled over and got out and made her mom drive. so i text jordanne while she was in the backseat and i asked what was wrong? and she said"im extremely pissed and about tired of you being in my family" and i was like ok well you really want me to leave? i will leave. and she said "i dont think you wanna ask me that question. so when we got home she ran inside and started crying in her room. and her dad asked what i did? i took my hat off and threw it in my room and called my dad and told him i was coming home (i haven't been there in 3 months) so jordannes dad tried to talk to me about how shes just not used to having to share or w/e and stuff like that. and i was like idc what i get! she can have w/e she wants and i left. she later text me and said "couldn't waited? i never text back. exactly 30 minutes later she text me and said i'm really sorry for what i said but there is some stuf fbottling up inside of me, i will talk to you later have a good night. i still havent text back. Now 1 day later her mom is still texing me trying to get me to come back and they miss me etc. I have NOT text my gf (jordanne) back but i have been talking to her mom. Its a lil over 24 hours later and idk if i should text my gf back or go back or what? o and my gf's bday is tomorrow and her present is hidden in my closet. soo please give me advice on what to do! should i go back? should i text my gf? idk what to do. oh yeah and i typed out a message that says that im sorry for upsetting her and sorry that i ruinned the night etc etc. BUT i never sent it. its in my drafts. so please comment on what you think and what should i do??
This is what you should do. Don't text her mom, her dad, not Jordanne either; just show up. Not sure which closet you're talking about, but if its the one at your dads house bring the present with you. If not, (look before you enter) quietly enter the house, maybe find her mom and just let her know you're there but not to tell jordanne because you want to surprise her. Go get the present, then go to Jordanne. Give her the gift saying you couldn't wait for her birthday tomorrow, you feel bad about everything that has happened, and you two need to talk about what happened and what is going to change so that doesn't happen again. After that, she should be fine with you because any girl doesn't want her boyfriend to leave, and it sounds like she feels terrible right now. Hold her while you talk, kiss her cheek, run your fingers through her hair, run your hand along her arm, to comfort her. Then spend the night cuddling, ask her if she wants to do something or watch a movie, if not, just lay with her, talk, relax.