crazycra...
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I need a serious makeover?
Theres this guy in my grade, who i've like since, like, forever. But he never notices me. I'm like a squished bug on the windshield. How can I get him to notice? what should I change about myself? I have dark brown hair, blue eyes, not really a chest but then again no one does in my grade and I'm normal weight, 5'3'', 8th grade. A few people in my lifetime have mentioned i have pretty eyes, and im pretty, but i dont believe it. What makeup? what colors with my eyes? what clothes?
damn i wish i knew this stuff on my own. im not exactly an expert in this department...
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PLEASE dont just say be yourself
everyone says that
instead of saying that, how about helping me? with makeup, and clothes?
and bras? what kind is good?
but thanks to anyone who tries to answer
3 weeks ago
by cerbubbl...
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- February 14, 2009
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ok....so
hair:curly updo.....works everytime :) look up videos or articles on youtube or google or something,to see which style you like
makeup:don't go too heavy. pink eyeshadow,thin line of eyeliner on top lid. mascara,but not to heavy.(blue mascara would really make your eyes pop)then add a nice blush :) (along with foundation,powder, or whatever else you use)
clothes:pick one of your favorite outfits from your closet that look good,then accessorize :) carry a CUTE purse,wear cute shoes,maybe some cute flats for school. wear a scarf or belt (you have nooo idea how much this does for an outfit!!) then cute earrings and a necklace and a few bracelets :)
as for a bra.....i'm hoping he wouldn't see that?? haha especially if you're in 8th grade lol so that doesn't really matter.....
anyway :) i hope helped a little! :)
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and to everyone else because you were all sweet. I've already tried all those things but it still helped a bit especially with the makeup since i dont wear that much right now. :)
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by glambeau...
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- November 01, 2009
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you sound gorgeous & i wouldnt change myself for someone to notice me!!
i agree with 'fashion first' who has already answered this question, the key is confidence!! if you are not confident then he wont notice you full stop. you have to be able to keep your head up, smile, look like your having fun with your friends, cuz guys are attracted to girls who look happy and fun! if he doesnt notice and accept you for who you are then its just his loss!!
but if you want to make yourself feel more confident then make sure you wear clothes that flatter your body and make you feel confident and comfortable.
and because you have blue eyes try using gray, violet, taupe, purple, and deep blue eyeshadows which are said to bring out the natural blue in your eyes.
but remember to feel confident!
hope that helps :)
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by theoreti...
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Sweetie I know your position, I had the same problem at your age and grade the crush lasted till 10th grade n then I finally moved on I had friends try and ask him n get him to talk to me but he never did although I was a pretty girl not a hot thing but cute n he never gave me the time of day but u wanna know the one thing I never did? I never approached him to talk to him, maybe if I would have I would have gotten a reason. The crush was not worth it if you never get their attention the right way, by talking to him. Good luck Hun!
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by Ashlii
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- June 30, 2009
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DON'T change yourself for ANYONE.
No matter how much you want to.
Be yourself because mabey one day he will
notice you and like the girl you are. What if you changed yourself and
he notced you and didn't like you?
It is all about being yourself and if he doesn't like that then he is not worth it.
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by Angela
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Get with some hip friends and take constructive critism you are making yourself better by doing this .
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by fashion first ♥
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Honestly, but the sounds of it, you could be a 6'0" tall amazon with legs-to-there and gorgeous curves (not to mention a killer smiles and platinum blonde locks to match), and he still wouldn't notice you. The reason? Lack of confidence! Even though you are gorgeous (at least you sound like you are), if you don't have the confidence and courage to talk to him, he will move on to the next girl. The next girl who will laugh with him and chat with him without pushing their hair behind their ear repetitively and muttering nervously. Maybe he has noticed you in the past, but he noticed that you were shy and timid, and he decided a shy girl just wasn't right for him.
Be more confident and I promise you'll catch his eye! ;)
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